You know, I've been reading the debate going on for the last few pages, and so far, I've refrained from saying anything. I'm not a confrontational kind of gal by any means, but right now, I have the sudden urge to open my mouth and voice an opinion on the matter of Kaidan being straight/bi/gay/whatever.
In my game world, he's straight. And yes, that does stem from the fact that I myself am...what is the correct word nowadays...."heteronormative". I'm a straight female that plays a straight FemShep and likes straight men. That is MY game world, my point of view. That being said, I have absolutely NO PROBLEM with someone else playing with Kaidan as a bi/gay man. That is THEIR game world and point of view. What I do tend to have a problem with is having that world view constantly shoved in my face.
Do I like seeing all the Kaidan/mShep artwork that was inundating the board recently? Not really, although I could appreciate the artistic value of it and the work and love that went into creating the pieces. Am I interested in reading the fanfics with Kaidan and mShep? Not really, but I recognize that other people do. The simple fact is that "man on man" does absolutely nothing for me, but I will not begrudge other people from finding their happiness in it.
I don't want this to seem like I have something against bi/gay lifestyle. I really don't. I dated a man for several years that, in his younger days, was bi and had had male lovers. Didn't bother me, because at the current place in time, he was with me. When we broke up (and remained friends), he told me he had gone out on a few dates with some men. Didn't bother me, because I truly care about him and just want to see him happy. One of my fondest memories from high school is a conversation I had with the gay twin brother of my beautician about cross dressing and how he kept leg hair from poking through his stockings. Apparently, with enough layers of pantyhose, nothing pokes through.

As for the sudden change in treatment of Kaidan's character for ME3 to make him romanceable by a mShep, I just have to think of him like another friend of mine. I found out he was gay the day we graduated from college, and only because we happened to be walking together to practice and we both turned our heads to check out the same guy that walked past us. I looked at my friend, he looked back at me and said, "Yes, I am." My reply was to blink and say "Well, okay then." Mind you, I had known him for over 2 years, had even known him to go out with and even sleep with women. It took me all of, oh...30 seconds or so to process this change. But he's totally happy with finally accepting who he is, so that makes me happy for him. For Kaidan, he might have been like my friend; denying it for years, but finally just accepting it and reaching out to the one person that might have been the catalyst for the change. (Okay, that is kinda romantic...

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I think my point is, we are all gonna have varying opinions on Kaidan's character. I know what my view is...I know what a few other people's view is...and it's all good. The fact that we care so much about this video game character enough to have these sorts of discussions just goes to show what a fantastic job Bioware did when they created him.
TL;DR: We all love Kaidan whether he's straight or bi or gay or twisted or a duck or fish or hamster (cuz yeah, the hamster was cute). So...have a Kaidan, on me...

Modifié par Caeleinn, 06 juillet 2012 - 08:30 .