Hi in there
first message in this forum... I apologize in advance for all the mistakes, as english is not my native language (I'm french).
I've just finished playing ME1 for the first time (I know, I know, it was about time !), and loved it. I especially loved the characters, and among them my femshep and Kaidan turned out to be my favourite. And, of course, Shepard WITH Kaidan. So much that I feel the urgent need to talk about it.
Well, as readers/writers of this topic, I think you know how I feel
It was strange with Kaidan. At first, I thought "meeeh, does HE have to be my love interest ?". Sure, his smile, when shepard tells him the beacon accident was not his fault, was super cute, but, well, you know... at first you don't know his personality, and uuuh... his haircut... well, it takes some time to get used to it !

In fact, I thought that my shepard was attracted to him way too early.
But one day I chose to go on a mission with teammates I didn't know well, you know, to get to know them better. For the first time I was outside the Normandy without Kaidan.
And...
And I missed him ! My god how I missed him !
And that's when I realized that I had slowly become attached to him. And I thought it was wonderfully written by bioware. Kaidan is not the typical romantic stereotype you usually find in games, movies or litterature. He's not a fantasme. He feels "real". He is (almost) a normal guy, but an especially nice, and mature, one.
I love how he highly respects Shepard, and cares for her, without being neither an overprotecting macho nor a devoted servant. He is respecful of the hierarchy but is not afraid to tell her what he thinks, or to give her advises. As Shepard says, he is a real shoulder upon which you can lean.
It is an equal-equal relationship, and it is so rare in fictions that I found it very refreshing (and as a feminist, I have to applaud !).
For the first time, I felt that this video game had not been designed only for a male audience. I could really connect with the mighty femshep, her charisma, and her feelings for her so nice lieutenant.
Thanks Bioware. Now I want to play again to ME1 with another personality. And then, ME2 (although I already spoiled myself on the Kaidan storyline

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Modifié par Altie, 19 janvier 2012 - 03:44 .