[quote]Sifr1449 wrote...
So Ash is still a Spectre? That's great. Too bad it doesn't have any influence on the second half of the story <_<
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True but this doesn't mean she knows how to fight Reapers. Shepard DOES. Ash would defer to his orders simply because Shepard has had more experience fighting them than anyone else alive and knows how to beat them.[/quote]
Not sure if you're right here: Ashley fought Sovereign in ME1, together with Shepard. In ME2, Shepard had to do the Collectors job - and that was only loosely connected to the Reapers. The real deal happened in ME3 and there Ash gets removed for Palaven, Tuchana and Shur'Kesh (spelling ...?). Ash has not much less experience fighting the Reapers, especially since we don't know what she did in the past two years.
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I've always felt that Shepard though recognises Ash's authority and has a sort of mentor thing going on with the relationship, pushing her to realise her potential.[/quote]
Hmmm ... maybe. Then again: can you see how Vega is treated by Shepard? Same for Garrus in ME1/ME2 by the way: Shepard is their mentor, his role works like that. While Garrus becomes an equally skilled leader to Shepard in ME3 (displayed by his position as advisor of the Primarch!), Vega is just at the beginning of his career as N7 soldier.
Shepard's relationship to Ash never felt like a mentor-pupil relationship to me. Actually, Ashley always felt more like an equal to Shepard than a subordinate, even when she was just a gunnery chief.
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Throughout ME1, Shepard was trying to get her to let go of the "Williams Curse" and be herself, which made her a stronger person after she let go of it.[/quote]
It was there, but not really that prominent. Shepard simply didn't care about the curse, but he definitely cared of her, allowing her to do her duty, regardless of her name's reputation.
In short: Ashley did it on her own, Shepard just saved her cute ass on Eden Prime

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In ME3, I personally believe that the reason Shepard never shoots Udina is because he wants Ash to do it. Not because he's being callous, nor cruel, but instead, because he's silently acknowledging that Ashley is now a Spectre. Udina is in her charge and he's been proven to be a traitor.[/quote]
That's highly depending on your headcanon. My Shepard didn't shoot Udina 'cause it never felt right; Ashley did it, to protect the Asari Councillor. Technically, Shepard's reaction was a wrong one - Ashley did right.
As I said, it's a headcanon thing.
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Shepard puts his life in her hands, counting on her judgement to see it through and make her understand that she must take responsibility for her choices. Just like Shepard had to. The training wheels are off now.[/quote]
And that statement ... I dunno. Ash always picked her own choices, throughout the entire game. She just became more and more versatile, more capable. From ordinary grunt with basic leadership skills she became an elite officer that's capable of leading her own special unit.
However, it was Ash who decided to go after Shepard and allow that relationship to blossom. It was Ash who was constantly giving input to Shepard. It was Ash who called out Shepard on Horizon. It was Ash who did the same on Mars.
That's what Ashley makes a powerful character: she always did her own decisions.
A perfect trait for a XO - she always acted a bit like Shepard's XO in ME1.