PMC65 wrote...
I've always given credit to Ashley for telling Shepard to check in on Liara after Benezia's death, but that in no way means that she softened on Liara. During loss people, decent people, can temporarily "bury the hachet" for that moment. Ashley is a decent person to me and this moment showed it. Even though she does not like Liara she can empathize with her and show kindness.
Happened to me once. I had to comfort a guy I basically didn't like. We never became friends, not even after that event, but at least the tension between both of us got eased a bit.
Ashley is just doing that. As you said, it doesn't mean she likes Liara. But it also shows she doesn't hate her. Ash simply distrusts Liara - like she does with everyone she doesn't know that well, and it shows.
Your next statement also explains quite good why Ashley isn't the biggest fan of Liara:
Her bringing up the sexual "looseness" of the asari is just one more dig by Ashley that was a truly honest moment to me ... She was trying to discredit her competition in a way. Not a nice moment but an honest moment. Ashley is not an angel to me but closer to a real woman. Faults and all ... and I like that.
Here I believe Ashley felt like most human women in that time. The Alliance wasn't part of the Citadel races for more than a couple of decades. A lot of stuff changed. And the Asari, a race full of beautiful women and no one knows the effects of aging, getting fat etc, being beautiful for a thousand years?
I'd say most women were jealous. And Ashley is a woman. Either she felt a bit insecure with Liara around and tried to conceal it with snarky and sometimes hostile comments - or Ashley simply didn't trust Liara as I said. I'm not sure if you can call it "xenophobic" - it's more "asariphobic" ... sort of.
In my view Liara was never "innocent" and her awkwardness was just around Shepard. In all other conversations with other characters she does not hesitate or stumble. Liara can also lie when needed (see her response on Noveria when she says that she does not know the Matriarch) and so Ashley is correct when she says that Liara isn't always honest. Ashley and Liara see each other very clearly and that makes the match more interesting.
Concur.
Liara tries to conceal her "bad side" with thick layers of "innocence" or "social awkwardness" as far as I can see. However, that's not enough to explain her sudden change to the SB later ...
Do I see the two as becoming friends? No. They are two completely different individuals with no common ground. Unless you count Shepard, but that is part of their problem. But I can see them respecting each other after that dust settles. It will be interesting to see how Bioware plays this out in the male Shepard world.
Respect? Definitely. Friends? Maybe. It kinda depends on the story. There is a chance they might become friends. They won't ever become close friends; Ashley and Tali are far closer and I can see Ashley becoming a friend of Miranda over the time.
As to FShep ... I've just focused on the fact that Ashley does not trust other species' and sees the asaris as something even worse ... space seducers. Think a Monica Bellucci in blue. 
This works in my Mass Effect canon but it is not meant to apply to yours. We all color the canvas as we see fit or just shoot things and forget the rest.
Headcanon ftw, buddy