darthrevaninlight wrote...
HELLO TALI FANS UNITED!
I hope all of you are doing well, as by Tali I'm sure you are.
DISCUSSION TO DISCUSS: Tali, in Mass Effect 3, faces the dilemma of choosing either her people or Shepard. At the end of the Rannoch arc, she does choose Shepard, saying "I gave up my father for my people. I gave up my freedom for an admiral position I didn't want. I'm not giving up you."
This choice; to choose Shepard even while knowing her people need her. She makes a selfish choice, to stay with Shepard rather than stay for the sake of all her people, and even while fully aware of the selfishness ingrained in her decision. Is this a change in her character? And what brought it out?
DISCUSS PLOX 
Tali loves you.
Keelah Se'lai.
I actually came up with a theory about this topic that goes beyond the question, but also answers it...
I think in many ways Tali had a lonely childhood: from what she said she was never really close to either of her parents (her father being absorbed by his work and her mother being "overshadowed" Rael and sorta just "being there"). I also suspect she didn't have very many close friends growing up, likely due to all the extra responsibilities her father forced upon her. As such, I think Tali's belief in putting her people and others in general over herself (way beyond that of most quarians) was in a way a copping/defense mechanism; if she ignored all of her own wants and desires then the loneliness would be easier to ignore.
This loneliness can be supported by Tali's one biggest desire; to have a home on Rannoch. This really makes me feel that the migrant fleet never truly felt like a home to her, in that her one desire is to have a home.
Then came the events of the Mass Effect games; during which, for the first real time, Tali began to form close friendships with the Normandy; and as a result Tali found a place where she felt like she belonged. (I will come back to this point later)
But the real change and growth came when her relationship with Shepard began; she had a opportunity to pursue something she really wanted. At first she continued to hide behind the “mask” she had built for herself, to tell Shepard that no matter how much she wanted to be with him, he would be happier without her, once more putting others well being above her own. In many ways, the literal removing of her mask was coupled with a figurative one; of allowing herself to get close to someone and learn that it is okay to be a bit selfish, that you cannot go your whole like never once considering about your own desires and well being, that extreme selflessness is just as unhealthy as extreme selfishness. Once she has opened up, Tali is shown to be unwilling to let go of that new found close relationship to someone.
In ME3 I think Tali realized something she has in many ways known all along; on the Normandy she found friends, a place where people accept her, and found the man she loves... in other words she found a home. This can be seen at the end of the Rannoch plot-line, even when the world is retaken and she has the chance to build the house she always wanted, she chooses to return to the Normandy and be with Shepard. But most significant evidence of this is during the evac-scene during the extended cut, when she is wounded and taken back to the Normandy and Shepard says “Get back to Rannoch; build yourself a home”; to which Tali replies “I have a home.”
All in all, Tali's “selfish” decision to rejoin Shepard over her own people is completely in character; as it shows her growth as a character as she learned to accept the need to follow her own desires. She still cares about her people, and will do whatever she can to help them... but she also cares just as much, if not more so, about Shepard. Besides, the Normandy is her home; its where she belongs.
Modifié par TheWerdna, 24 septembre 2012 - 05:29 .