Thanks for the positive responses to
Is Garrus Just Not Into Shep?, guys! It's always my pleasure to geek out and analyze things for this great fanbase

I originally was going to wait until the weekend to do part II, but my fingers just wouldn't stop moving. C'est la vie...
=Obligatory TL;DR Warning!=
- Part II: Body Language, Your Turian, and You!
Ah, body
language and physical contact. Here we have the bread and butter of the Garrus/Shepard relationship. It's where everything really takes place, the most important aspect that goes flying under so many peoples' radars because of how understated and subtle it is. This is where the magic happens, people; look here, and you will be rewarded with the deepest satisfaction.
Let us begin with ME1. ...there isn't any. No, really: Garrus and Shepard do not touch a single time in ME1. Not even to shake hands. If I'm wrong on this, someone please correct me, but I have never once seen a time in which Garrus and Shepard have touched there. And it makes sense. Garrus looks up to Shepard as a mentor and beacon of guidance in the first game - he admires her, and respects her, but he isn't really on her
level. They aren't equals. To engage in physical contact at that stage would be unnatural and give off a casual edge to their dynamic that just doesn't belong there. No, they don't touch at all, but that's a good, healthy presentation of their relationship as it was.
Now in ME2, the
shift in dynamic is immediately palpable. No longer is Garrus the wide-eyed, idealistic cop from the first game - in Shepard's absence he'd commanded a team in Hell and emerged the only one left. He's walked two years in Shepard's shoes, and instead of a mentor, he now hails her as an equal - someone who knows hardship and pain, someone who showed him the way when he was younger and softer yet sees him as the adult he's matured into. Garrus is always going to hold Shepard's opinion in high regard, but he's seen more of the galaxy and realized just how little he can do within it - that's why it helps to have someone "closer to home". Someone to fight for that has a face. It's why their dynamic changes from mentor and pupil to a true, trusting friendship.
And yet, still they don't touch until a very key point: the romance dialogue in which Shepard is telling Garrus that she isn't trying to make him uncomfortable. This is
the first time there is any physical contact between them in the entire series, and moreover, it's being meant initmately - and it's a simple shoulder touch. Shepard steps forward, reaches her hand out, and lays it on Garrus' shoulder. That's it.
Here's why is this significant: when Shepard is touching Garrus, it's the very first time in the whole romance that Garrus conveys an emotional interest in the relationship. It's the smallest, tiniest gesture, but the easy tone in Garrus's reply is immediate and such a far cry from his anxious stammering. Instead of awkward jokes, he gently opens up and says she'd never make him uncomfortable. It's not coincidence. There is true power in the physical contact between these two.
Not enough evidence? Consider the romance scene. It's good for a few laughs, sure, but when you consider
what Garrus did rather than
how he did it - he changed into nice clothes, bought wine, got music he thought Shepard would like, tried to compliment her. He may have done horribly at all of the above, but there's no denying that he put a lot of effort into preparing things when the point was only ever a quick lay.
And when it all goes south? When Garrus is reduced to a humiliated, stumbling mess? When he stutters out his concerns, his lonely desire for things to go right? Shepard quietly steps forward, reaches her hand out, and touches the side of his face.
Garrus goes silent
immediately, and Shepard's hand trails down his scars. Then, simultaneously, they lean forward to touch foreheads. Garrus lifts his hand to touch her shoulder. And when they speak in actions rather than words? He
just knows what to do.This is less evidence-based and more speculative, but I honestly believe that this is why Garrus focuses so hard on the physical aspect of the relationship at first, rather than the emotional part. Actions, Garrus knows what to do with - the plumbing isn't quite the same, but maybe it isn't quite the sex itself he was counting on. Maybe he just wants the warmth of something close to home. And over the course of the relationship, he slowly has that awful, heart-leaping realization - he's invested emotionally. But he doesn't know how to use words.
Other body language that isn't limited to romance is present as well. For example, when choosing Garrus for the Suicide Mission fire team leader - he stands up straight and gives a single, wordless
nod. Is there any possible way he'd forget what happened on Omega? Not a chance. After all Shepard did to help him deal with that, would he think that s/he forgot? No. When Shepard tells him to lead the team, s/he is telling Garrus that s/he trusts him and is challenging him to get over his past. And he accepts.
Quite honestly, I could analyze just about every interaction these two have, but I am lierally the queen of overanylsis and I feel a bit silly already. I hope you've all enjoyed this installment, and I'd love to discuss it with you! (though tomorrow, in this case; I have classes early and have to jet for now

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Next time on AlphaDormante's tl;dr Theatre:Reapers and Galactic Destruction and Commitment, Oh, My! (coming post-ME3; title subject to change depending on whether or not any of the above actually happens 8|a)
Modifié par AlphaDormante, 24 février 2012 - 08:15 .