But I've grown indifferent to Garrus and Garrusmancers. I don't fancy Brandon Keener (I do think his advertisements was funny tho). I don't romanticize military imperialists, alien or not. The only Turian I genuinely like are Nyreen Kendros.
And that's the beauty of choice and variety of romances in the ME Universe
I just need to explain myself. I'm relatively new to the forums, and I used to hang out on deviantart with all the Garrus lovers over there, but I wanted more official news so I headed here. I was disturbed that Garrus lovin' threads were buried under 6 pages of old threads.
I love Garrus because he reflects my own love life in a way. He is my Shepard's best friend, my husband is my best friend. We were friends before love. I love Shep and Garrus because they are friends, yet Shepard was searching for comfort with someone, and she wanted someone she could trust. When Garrus hears this, he didn't think of Shepard that way, but he begins to see her in a whole new light. It's like someone flipped the switch from friendship to attraction. He gets more and more excited about the prospect only to figuratively fall on his face when he tries to be romantic.
While it was my husband who approached me about being more than friends, he is so like Garrus when he tries to be romantic. Sweet, but often falls on his face. He got better at it over time though, which is what floored me from ME2 to ME3.
In ME3, we learn that Garrus not only has been thinking about Shepard, he's putting his heart on the line hoping that she still feels the same way about him. He gives her some space, all the while teasing her / practicing his lines. It turns out that he loves her, and he can't take her shameless flirting anymore. (when my husband approached me about being his girlfriend, I was going out with different boys every weekend.)
But it becomes more than romance. It becomes a trusting bond to cling on to while the universe falls to pieces. Who do you need when everything falls apart? The person who you trust the most and can find comfort in, who can protect you yet still make you laugh.
That's why I love Garrus, and absolutely cannot romance anyone else. I TRIED, DAMMIT. I tried. I tried to be with Thane! I gave Kaidan a whirl, only to dump him every time. Liara was more like a friend.
So now you understand my need to keep this thread going. But I'm thinking that the people who kept this thread going left the forums long ago.....