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Why are people gunning for a Kaidan same-sex romance so much?


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To be honest and non bias the easiest male to make s/s is Garrus. He's not really attracted to FemShep. He's with her because she's Shepard. Not because he has some human fetish. Him doing the same to male Shepard wouldn't even be a stretch. Not to mention he doesn't even see her that way until *she* brings it up, another way for him to easily slip into it. Dude Shep never mentions it, so he never thought about it.


He seems to have a lot hints leading to him being straight though.

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So you advocate taking heterosexual characters out of the game completely then? Everyone is either gay, bi, or a potentially closeted homosexual?


Ah no...some act as if pro-s/s fans hate heterosexuality and therefore want it purged from the game entirely.

That's like saying BioWare hates gays because they will never ever make a strictly gay romance.

People just want as many options as those who do the m/f romances...the options are already in the game and the only thing stopping them from doing m/m or f/f is a gender check.

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The Big Bad Wolf wrote...

Ryzaki wrote...

To be honest and non bias the easiest male to make s/s is Garrus. He's not really attracted to FemShep. He's with her because she's Shepard. Not because he has some human fetish. Him doing the same to male Shepard wouldn't even be a stretch. Not to mention he doesn't even see her that way until *she* brings it up, another way for him to easily slip into it. Dude Shep never mentions it, so he never thought about it.


He seems to have a lot hints leading to him being straight though.

 

Which makes no difference to his relationship with FemShep considering the fact that she's not a female turian nor does she look like one (based off the comics). 

He's not with her because she's female. He's with her because she's Shepard. He says himself he's doesn't have a humanfetish. I.E. her body holds no real appeal to him. It's her being Shepard that attracts him. 

Modifié par Ryzaki, 27 juin 2011 - 11:14 .


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Oddly enough, the majority of these Concerned Players are not card-carrying Kaidan fans who frequent the Kaidan fan thread and kibbutz about Brain Camp and Rhana and Vyrrnus and whatnot.


I am Image IPB.  Go to the Kaidan thread and ask them if NICKjnp is their manscott.

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So you advocate taking heterosexual characters out of the game completely then? Everyone is either gay, bi, or a potentially closeted homosexual?


Ah no...some act as if pro-s/s fans hate heterosexuality and therefore want it purged from the game entirely.

That's like saying BioWare hates gays because they will never ever make a strictly gay romance.

People just want as many options as those who do the m/f romances...the options are already in the game and the only thing stopping them from doing m/m or f/f is a gender check.


There are already two options for f/f.

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Ryzaki wrote...

To be honest and non bias the easiest male to make s/s is Garrus. He's not really attracted to FemShep. He's with her because she's Shepard. Not because he has some human fetish. Him doing the same to male Shepard wouldn't even be a stretch. Not to mention he doesn't even see her that way until *she* brings it up, another way for him to easily slip into it. Dude Shep never mentions it, so he never thought about it.



But does a straight or gay person sleeping with someone "unattractive" mean they don't REALLY have a sexual preference as long as the subject is ugly to them? Or that a straight or gay person can be turned bi if they just find someone unattractive enough? People assume garrus can't differentiate between a male and female human but why don't people say this about thane and tali also? They are with humans too, so do you think it wouldn't matter to them or they can't tell the difference either? It's just as valid that their sexual preference transferred over to a species that are compatible with them, it doesn't mean they lose all awareness of sex completely

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Ryzaki wrote...

To be honest and non bias the easiest male to make s/s is Garrus. He's not really attracted to FemShep. He's with her because she's Shepard. Not because he has some human fetish. Him doing the same to male Shepard wouldn't even be a stretch. Not to mention he doesn't even see her that way until *she* brings it up, another way for him to easily slip into it. Dude Shep never mentions it, so he never thought about it.



But does a straight or gay person sleeping with someone "unattractive" mean they don't REALLY have a sexual preference as long as the subject is ugly to them? Or that a straight or gay person can be turned bi if they just find someone unattractive enough? People assume garrus can't differentiate between a male and female human but why don't people say this about thane and tali also? They are with humans too, so do you think it wouldn't matter to them or they can't tell the difference either? It's just as valid that their sexual preference transferred over to a species that are compatible with them, it doesn't mean they lose all awareness of sex completely

 

What? 

FemShep isn't his species. I never denied he was attracted to female turians. He says himself (since we want to go on about character consistency) that he's not attracted to humans. One would think that applies for female and male humans. 

He's not with Shepard because she's a female. 

Garrus *can* differentiate. There's no reason however that he'd *care* seeing as he's already going out of his preferences. Especially not since for him to make a move Shepard has to make a move first. So no he wouldn't care about Shep's gender considering the thing he claims he's attracted to is her character. And he's not attracted to her unless she makes a move on him. 

Modifié par Ryzaki, 27 juin 2011 - 11:13 .


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NICKjnp wrote...

Siansonea II wrote...

Oddly enough, the majority of these Concerned Players are not card-carrying Kaidan fans who frequent the Kaidan fan thread and kibbutz about Brain Camp and Rhana and Vyrrnus and whatnot.


I am Image IPB.  Go to the Kaidan thread and ask them if NICKjnp is their manscott.


Dear, you know I wasn't lumping you into that group. ;)

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Ryzaki wrote...

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Ryzaki wrote...

To be honest and non bias the easiest male to make s/s is Garrus. He's not really attracted to FemShep. He's with her because she's Shepard. Not because he has some human fetish. Him doing the same to male Shepard wouldn't even be a stretch. Not to mention he doesn't even see her that way until *she* brings it up, another way for him to easily slip into it. Dude Shep never mentions it, so he never thought about it.


He seems to have a lot hints leading to him being straight though.

 

Which makes no difference to his relationship with FemShep considering the facthat shes not a female turian nor does she look like one (based off the comics). 

He's not with her because she's female. He's with her because she's Shepard. He says himself he's doesn't have a humanfetish. I.E. her body holds no real appeal to him. It's her being Shepard tat attracts him. 


He expresses an interest in females, though.

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The Big Bad Wolf wrote...

He seems to have a lot hints leading to him being straight though.

So do all of the male LIs though; this, in my opinion, makes the decision re. male Lis a lot harder than re. female ones.  Ignoring the common factor of all the men being attracted to FemShep, we also have the following:

  • Jacob had romantic history with Miranda
  • Thane was married and has a son; his strong memories of his wife give the impression that he's still in love with her at some level (which doesn't, I think, lessen his love for Shepard; it's just part of who he is, with his history always staying alive for him)
  • Kaidan loved Rahna in BAaT, thinks about the romantic archetype of exploring space to prove himself worthy of a woman he loves, and in games with ManShep shows that he appreciates Liara's beauty
  • Garrus relieved tension with a female crewmate.

By contrast, Jack is known to have been in a threesome that included one woman and Tali has the suit-linking conversation with FemShep.  To my mind, they're both more plausible for S/S than any of the guys.  But, of all of the men, I buy Garrus sharing an intimate bond with ManShep most of all.  The elements mentioned in his story are all in a military context and emphasise his partner's athletic prowess rather than her feminity in particular.  A possible attraction to Shepard of either sex makes sense in my view.

Modifié par Estelindis, 27 juin 2011 - 11:24 .


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NICKjnp wrote...

Siansonea II wrote...

Oddly enough, the majority of these Concerned Players are not card-carrying Kaidan fans who frequent the Kaidan fan thread and kibbutz about Brain Camp and Rhana and Vyrrnus and whatnot.


I am Image IPB.  Go to the Kaidan thread and ask them if NICKjnp is their manscott.


Dear, you know I wasn't lumping you into that group. ;)


It's funny that  you didn't respond to my last post about this. Maybe you realized it's wrong?

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The Big Bad Wolf wrote...
He expresses an interest in females, though.


TURIAN females. 

Is Shepard a turian? 

I mean he does not express an interest in human females. He distinctly says he's not attracted to humans period. Male, female whatever. He doesn't do humans. 

He does do Shepard. 

Modifié par Ryzaki, 27 juin 2011 - 11:16 .


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 From a certain point of view, making everyone bi pleases everyone because it means that no particular romance is off limits for anyone, but I just don't find it very realistic.


Agreed, but I really don't think a game about mass effect relays and faster than light travel is a place to quibble about certain degrees of realism.   I really don't understand why people are willing to suspend disbelief in the laws of physics for a video game, but will argue incessantly about how having a ship full of bisexuals "lacks realism".  Realism is being stuck on Earth doing a job you hate for less money than you are worth for people you don't like.   Realism is not "space opera is sweet, tantalus dive cores FTW, but don't you retcon those darn gheys!!!"  My 0.02 cents, and my opinion only.  

Image IPB 

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NICKjnp wrote...

Siansonea II wrote...

Oddly enough, the majority of these Concerned Players are not card-carrying Kaidan fans who frequent the Kaidan fan thread and kibbutz about Brain Camp and Rhana and Vyrrnus and whatnot.


I am Image IPB.  Go to the Kaidan thread and ask them if NICKjnp is their manscott.

I haven't read the thread and am not getting involved in it, but I will say that THAT ^ is true......... Nick has been popping into KAST for as long as I remember :)

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The Big Bad Wolf wrote...

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Han Shot First wrote...

So you advocate taking heterosexual characters out of the game completely then? Everyone is either gay, bi, or a potentially closeted homosexual?


Ah no...some act as if pro-s/s fans hate heterosexuality and therefore want it purged from the game entirely.

That's like saying BioWare hates gays because they will never ever make a strictly gay romance.

People just want as many options as those who do the m/f romances...the options are already in the game and the only thing stopping them from doing m/m or f/f is a gender check.


There are already two options for f/f.


How many options are there for m/f?

For m/m?

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Ryzaki wrote...

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Ryzaki wrote...

To be honest and non bias the easiest male to make s/s is Garrus. He's not really attracted to FemShep. He's with her because she's Shepard. Not because he has some human fetish. Him doing the same to male Shepard wouldn't even be a stretch. Not to mention he doesn't even see her that way until *she* brings it up, another way for him to easily slip into it. Dude Shep never mentions it, so he never thought about it.



But does a straight or gay person sleeping with someone "unattractive" mean they don't REALLY have a sexual preference as long as the subject is ugly to them? Or that a straight or gay person can be turned bi if they just find someone unattractive enough? People assume garrus can't differentiate between a male and female human but why don't people say this about thane and tali also? They are with humans too, so do you think it wouldn't matter to them or they can't tell the difference either? It's just as valid that their sexual preference transferred over to a species that are compatible with them, it doesn't mean they lose all awareness of sex completely

 

What? 

FemShep isn't his species. I never denied he was attracted to female turians. He says himself (since we want to go on about character consistency) that he's not attracted to humans. One would think that applies for female and male humans. 

He's not with Shepard because she's a female. 

Garrus *can* differentiate. There's no reason however that he'd *care* seeing as he's already going out of his preferences. Especially not since for him to make a move Shepard has to make a move first. So no he wouldn't care about Shep's gender considering the thing he claims he's attracted to is her character. And he's not attracted to her unless she makes a move on him. 


But that's just an assumption, how do you know being female wouldn't be important? Being attracted to character  doesn't automatically mean you dismiss sexual preference. And there are many other characters that shep hits on first so that makes them as much a s/s choice as garrus in that case.

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I want to know where all of these "NO RETCONS" people were when they watched Willow from Buffy the Vampire Slayer go directly from straight to lesbian.

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The Big Bad Wolf wrote...

Ryzaki wrote...

To be honest and non bias the easiest male to make s/s is Garrus. He's not really attracted to FemShep. He's with her because she's Shepard. Not because he has some human fetish. Him doing the same to male Shepard wouldn't even be a stretch. Not to mention he doesn't even see her that way until *she* brings it up, another way for him to easily slip into it. Dude Shep never mentions it, so he never thought about it.


He seems to have a lot hints leading to him being straight though.

I'd say Garrus is pretty much straight. 

Modifié par M8DMAN, 27 juin 2011 - 11:22 .


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He expresses an interest in females, though.


TURIAN females. 

Is Shepard a turian? 

I mean he does not express an interest in human females. He distinctly says he's not attracted to humans period. Male, female whatever. He doesn't do humans. 

He does do Shepard. 



Females nonetheless. I don't know, but Garrus screams "bro" more than s/s romance, though.

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But that's just an assumption, how do you know being female wouldn't be important? Being attracted to character  doesn't automatically mean you dismiss sexual preference. And there are many other characters that shep hits on first so that makes them as much a s/s choice as garrus in that case.

 

Why on earth would Garrus be attracted to female humans despite saying he wasn't attracted to females? Really? Also that female you guys keep mentioning was a turian. Just like Shepard being attracted to Kaidan means she may not be attracted to Garrus means Garrus sleeping with that female turian means he's not attracted to human females. It's not a giant leap of logic. Everyone isn't a xenophile. 

Those other characters don't say they're not attracted to humans as a whole. Garrus whole romance evolves around him going out his comfort zone (other turians) because he respects and admires Shepard. Not because he's interested in humans. 

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The Big Bad Wolf wrote...

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So you advocate taking heterosexual characters out of the game completely then? Everyone is either gay, bi, or a potentially closeted homosexual?


Ah no...some act as if pro-s/s fans hate heterosexuality and therefore want it purged from the game entirely.

That's like saying BioWare hates gays because they will never ever make a strictly gay romance.

People just want as many options as those who do the m/f romances...the options are already in the game and the only thing stopping them from doing m/m or f/f is a gender check.


There are already two options for f/f.


How many options are there for m/f?

For m/m?


As far as we know, at least 1 for ME3.

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I want to know where all of these "NO RETCONS" people were when they watched Willow from Buffy the Vampire Slayer go directly from straight to lesbian.


That was a bit of a shock to me too...she went from Xander and Oz to lesbian almost overnight.  And the same goes for Claire Bennet on Heroes.

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Females nonetheless. I don't know, but Garrus screams "bro" more than s/s romance, though.

 

So a straight man would be attracted to a female Krogan? Hey they're female!

Really? 

Modifié par Ryzaki, 27 juin 2011 - 11:25 .


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NICKjnp wrote...

VirtualStranger wrote...

I want to know where all of these "NO RETCONS" people were when they watched Willow from Buffy the Vampire Slayer go directly from straight to lesbian.


That was a bit of a shock to me too...she went from Xander and Oz to lesbian almost overnight.  And the same goes for Claire Bennet on Heroes.


Where are the hordes of naysayers when a woman does it?

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Females nonetheless. I don't know, but Garrus screams "bro" more than s/s romance, though.

 

So a straight man would be attracted to a female Krogan? Hey they're female!

Really? 


In all seriousness, I might hit it.