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LeVaughnX wrote...

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I love how he only responds to people who kiss his ass enough.

but so far most people supporting S/S are as you see here - very mean and narrow minded...

You call gay people "retards" and then accuse us if being mean and narrow-minded?

The level of hypocrisy would be hilarious if it weren't so goddamn pathetic.



Feeling left out? Okay - stop posting you uncooperative and unproductive poster. Thank you.

VirtualStranger is right.

Don't go saying some people who support S/S are being extremely rude but then going on to say "retards"

It doesnt even matter who its directed at, "retard," "retards," "retarded" is just plain, extremely insulting not only to who you may have directed it at but others who may be handicapped in some way. If you claim to be respectful, then stop using the word "retard" like its cheap coin meant for spending.


You do have a point - but I'm never going to directly insult an actual "mentally handicapped person" but I will insult people who act like them when they are not. Its an insult to handicapped people everywhere.

And if anyone here IS in-fact Handicapped in anyway shape or form then I am sorry if I have insulted you; though if you feel insulted over a forum online I'm going to have a heavy laugh while still saying sorry.

But that is the point. Whether the word is directed or not, it will always insult someone who is actually handicapped.

And your apology and the sentence afterwards completely contradict each other, fyi.

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we also don't want mr preistly to ban any one tempers are getting flare toes are being stepped on egos bruised not a good situation.

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VirtualStranger wrote...

Roachbugg wrote...

children behave play nice we don't want mr preistly to have to lock this thread.

I DO want Mr. Preistly to have to lock this thread. He locked all the other 5 redundant topics that sprung up yesterday but it seems that he missed one.


Agreed. 

I don't care what anyone says about the story of ME, the lore, being true to the character, or whatever.  I want ME to be inclusive, and if that means retconning characters, I say do it regardless of objections.   

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Good thing those spam threads got locked. Just had to tell Chris about the problem.

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Good thing those spam threads got locked. Just had to tell Chris the problem.

He has locked about five threads already today. 

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RinjiRenee wrote...

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Well damn you restored my faith in humanity a bit by being so nice; thank you very much! I appriciate having a nice conversation with someone for once.

Romances in general are a minor part to the game but in the final of the series I figure it would play a larger role based on what you're doing with whom; everything has some cheezy love thing at the end you know that xD. Regardless of that I do have faith in Bioware a little; but they kind of dropped the ball by making a few key mistakes in ME1 and 2; adding salt to the wound just would irate me further. I did love both games, and I do read the books over and over, I'm a junkie for it. I just don't feel like it would be right to make some characters gay. If one could make a decent argument without it sounding like """OH WELL YOU CANT PROVE BLAH BLAH BLAH""" then maybe I'd see it their way more; but so far most people supporting S/S are as you see here - very mean and narrow minded...

Maybe you can take a crack at it?


*Make the characters bisexual, you mean.  I hate to be nitpicky over this, but it's really not the same thing.  I know what you mean, but I just wanna clear the air there.  

My main argument for former characters becoming s/s (not all, two at most) actually has to do with another "a*spull" (I'm sure you can fill in the letter there lol) that was done in ME2 -- and that was Garrus and Tali.  A lot of fans enjoyed them in ME1, but they showed no former interest in Shepard.  All of a sudden, I play ME2, and Tali is getting all flustered when talking to my Shepard.  Garrus is suddenly a romance option for Femshep, while he even admits to not being attracted to humans.  Just Shepard.

I think most will agree that the Garrus and Tali romances were more or less given to the fans because they were popular characters.  Well, if the writers are going to give those fans a bone, I don't see why turning former LIs (especially Ash and Kaidan) into s/s would be a huge deal.  Garrus and Tali can apparently throw away the species barrier for Shepard, but the gender barrier seems to be stronger than that?  I don't know, that seems kinda silly to me.

Yes, they weren't available for s/s in ME1, I understand.   But making male Shepard able to flirt with males (which was impossible in the previous two games) would be somewhat of the same boat, wouldn't it?  I mean, why make male Shepard able to flirt with males now, in the third and final game of the Shepard arc? Why waste the effort?  As much as people say that Shepard is a vehicle for the player, he/she is only mostly that.  There are still elements of the character that make Shepard his/her own person.

Now, my preference for former LIs turning s/s stem from the narrative.  While the idea of finding that one new special person out there (where there was absolutely no one before) seems nice, I kind of like the idea of someone that you've known for quite a while to suddenly come around.  It's not really a matter of fair or not fair... but rather a love story that seems less tacked on and out of the blue (all romances feel tacked on to me, just to reiterate).  To compare, for example, it would be like all the ME1 fans of Garrus and Tali getting new romances in ME2, a new male Turian and a new female Quarian.  Sure, the alien romance is now an option, but... it's not the same character you fell in love with.  It's fanservice dealt in the coldest way possible.

Am I making sense?



Ahhhh this is a very good response, I applaud you for it! No one so far has given me ANY sort of intelligent reply - but this one is just awesome in every way shape or form!

Let me say flat out that I think the Species Barrier is broken only because Garrus had time to warm up to Shepard and same with Tali. However even in real life Gender is a touchy thing. I had a gay friend who tried his best to be straight for a long time; he ended up turning kind of Bisexual but that was alright - he genuinely felt like it was meant to be what he was you know? I didn't see him as a pure straight male or gay; wouldn't have made sense. His mannerisms and his attitude, how he looked, how he acted toward certian people etc all kind of made him seem like he went down both roads - no problem there.

Garrus never seemed interested in another man though; otherwise he may have shown some sort of sign about him liking another male in the Turian Species; butttt he did go on and have fun with a female during a "fist fight" cough cough heh...

Tali - The thing I can say off hand about that is (sorry I'm kind of irritated over the uh massive flamewar going on) Kelly (a psychologist?...wewiohuiosfuiosdh blehhhh...) suggests her body language is different if you're a male Shepard. Where as if you're female Kelly (to my knowledge) doesn't see it; though its her job to kind of do so.

I'm sure I could come up with (or someone could) more reasons why certian people can't be "Bisexual" - but meh..Kaidan I can kind of see it...its more about his "looks" and don't tell me that some people don't have "eyes" that give them away or anything. Eyes tell more about people sometimes than anything else really; and its true all mothers who care about their kids know this, its how they knew we lied about detention hah. Ashley however...I don't really know what to say about her anymore; they really seemed to mess her character up during the transition between 1 and 2 in my mind.

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Captain_Obvious wrote...

VirtualStranger wrote...

Roachbugg wrote...

children behave play nice we don't want mr preistly to have to lock this thread.

I DO want Mr. Preistly to have to lock this thread. He locked all the other 5 redundant topics that sprung up yesterday but it seems that he missed one.


Agreed. 

I don't care what anyone says about the story of ME, the lore, being true to the character, or whatever.  I want ME to be inclusive, and if that means retconning characters, I say do it regardless of objections.   


So you'd alter the game just to suit your own needs, while possibly taking something many people like? Awesome, to see such selflessness. :blush:

It's really hard to show any kind of support or neutrality toward the subject, when the defenders in some way or form just start to call you being intolerant or other things. I while, have no problems with having s/s in the game, as long as it's not ''forced'' on me like Anders was in DA2. I want to remain friends with characters without having to face the awkwardness of turning them down and pissing them off, because I don't swing that way. I'd personally prefer Kaidan as straight, but if he'd turn bi. I'd be fine, as long as it wouldn't turn into Anders v2.0. :whistle:

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You can come up with all the "reasons" you want for why someone might not be bisexual.

They still might end up being bisexual.

And the "inconsistency" you perceive in reacting to each gender on an individual basis is easily explained. Not all bisexuals are equal opportunity bisexuals who like both genders the exact same amount and in the exact same way.

Simple fact.

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Why because everybody loves the vocal styling of Raphael Sbarge

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That is except me.
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Modifié par VegasVance, 28 juin 2011 - 05:19 .


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Melrache wrote...

Captain_Obvious wrote...

VirtualStranger wrote...

Roachbugg wrote...

children behave play nice we don't want mr preistly to have to lock this thread.

I DO want Mr. Preistly to have to lock this thread. He locked all the other 5 redundant topics that sprung up yesterday but it seems that he missed one.

Agreed. 

I don't care what anyone says about the story of ME, the lore, being true to the character, or whatever.  I want ME to be inclusive, and if that means retconning characters, I say do it regardless of objections.   

So you'd alter the game just to suit your own needs, while possibly taking something many people like? Awesome, to see such selflessness. :blush:

Inclusive of all people = Suiting your own needs

LOLWUT?

Modifié par VirtualStranger, 28 juin 2011 - 05:22 .


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Drats!

Modifié par VegasVance, 28 juin 2011 - 05:19 .


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Lock it down, this is spam. Keep it on one thread, we don't need this many!!!

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Melrache wrote...

Captain_Obvious wrote...

VirtualStranger wrote...

Roachbugg wrote...

children behave play nice we don't want mr preistly to have to lock this thread.

I DO want Mr. Preistly to have to lock this thread. He locked all the other 5 redundant topics that sprung up yesterday but it seems that he missed one.


Agreed. 

I don't care what anyone says about the story of ME, the lore, being true to the character, or whatever.  I want ME to be inclusive, and if that means retconning characters, I say do it regardless of objections.   


So you'd alter the game just to suit your own needs, while possibly taking something many people like? Awesome, to see such selflessness. :blush:

It's really hard to show any kind of support or neutrality toward the subject, when the defenders in some way or form just start to call you being intolerant or other things. I while, have no problems with having s/s in the game, as long as it's not ''forced'' on me like Anders was in DA2. I want to remain friends with characters without having to face the awkwardness of turning them down and pissing them off, because I don't swing that way. I'd personally prefer Kaidan as straight, but if he'd turn bi. I'd be fine, as long as it wouldn't turn into Anders v2.0. :whistle:


Yeah...I ended up having to kill Anders to get him off my balls....I don't know what the hell happened there but man he was after you like a vaccume cleaner.

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Why can't people stay on topic?

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S.A.K wrote...

Why can't people stay on topic?



Hey what do you think of the new grenade in Mass Effect 3?

ORRR... What do you think of the still poor squad A.I. (but increasingly good enemy A.I.) in the Demo?

ORRRRRRRR.... Why is the sky maroon?...


ALL THE ANSWERS AND MORE NEXT TIME ON....WHOSE PRICE IS IT SINGING BEEEEEE!!!

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Ahhhh this is a very good response, I applaud you for it! No one so far has given me ANY sort of intelligent reply - but this one is just awesome in every way shape or form!

Let me say flat out that I think the Species Barrier is broken only because Garrus had time to warm up to Shepard and same with Tali. However even in real life Gender is a touchy thing. I had a gay friend who tried his best to be straight for a long time; he ended up turning kind of Bisexual but that was alright - he genuinely felt like it was meant to be what he was you know? I didn't see him as a pure straight male or gay; wouldn't have made sense. His mannerisms and his attitude, how he looked, how he acted toward certian people etc all kind of made him seem like he went down both roads - no problem there.

Garrus never seemed interested in another man though; otherwise he may have shown some sort of sign about him liking another male in the Turian Species; butttt he did go on and have fun with a female during a "fist fight" cough cough heh...

Tali - The thing I can say off hand about that is (sorry I'm kind of irritated over the uh massive flamewar going on) Kelly (a psychologist?...wewiohuiosfuiosdh blehhhh...) suggests her body language is different if you're a male Shepard. Where as if you're female Kelly (to my knowledge) doesn't see it; though its her job to kind of do so.

I'm sure I could come up with (or someone could) more reasons why certian people can't be "Bisexual" - but meh..Kaidan I can kind of see it...its more about his "looks" and don't tell me that some people don't have "eyes" that give them away or anything. Eyes tell more about people sometimes than anything else really; and its true all mothers who care about their kids know this, its how they knew we lied about detention hah. Ashley however...I don't really know what to say about her anymore; they really seemed to mess her character up during the transition between 1 and 2 in my mind.


Ashley and Kaidan weren't LIs in Mass Effect 2 either, in my opinion... We just basically knew that they were pissed at Shepard for what happened.  Yes, they send their respective e-mails if they were romanced, but we get the feeling that they were both very attached to Shepard no matter what.  (By the way, does a non-romanced Ashley always hug a female Shepard on Horizon?  I heard that somewhere, didn't know if it was true or not).  As far as I'm concerned, that relationship is over in ME2, and anything in ME3 might even seem like a brand new romance.  But that's just me, I'm not hardly the authority on that subject.

At any rate, the two (or one of the two really) are returning to everyone's games in ME3... I'm willing to bet that they will be the part of the "least temporary" companions, since they are both Spectres.  A lot has changed for them in two years... wouldn't be surprised if more than their orientation has changed.

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VirtualStranger wrote...

Melrache wrote...

Captain_Obvious wrote...

VirtualStranger wrote...

Roachbugg wrote...

children behave play nice we don't want mr preistly to have to lock this thread.

I DO want Mr. Preistly to have to lock this thread. He locked all the other 5 redundant topics that sprung up yesterday but it seems that he missed one.

Agreed. 

I don't care what anyone says about the story of ME, the lore, being true to the character, or whatever.  I want ME to be inclusive, and if that means retconning characters, I say do it regardless of objections.   

So you'd alter the game just to suit your own needs, while possibly taking something many people like? Awesome, to see such selflessness. :blush:

Inclusive of all people = Suiting your own needs

LOLWUT?


Well if it comes with retconning characters, then it's not inclusive. Now please go away.

Modifié par Melrache, 28 juin 2011 - 05:23 .


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RinjiRenee wrote...

LeVaughnX wrote...

Ahhhh this is a very good response, I applaud you for it! No one so far has given me ANY sort of intelligent reply - but this one is just awesome in every way shape or form!

Let me say flat out that I think the Species Barrier is broken only because Garrus had time to warm up to Shepard and same with Tali. However even in real life Gender is a touchy thing. I had a gay friend who tried his best to be straight for a long time; he ended up turning kind of Bisexual but that was alright - he genuinely felt like it was meant to be what he was you know? I didn't see him as a pure straight male or gay; wouldn't have made sense. His mannerisms and his attitude, how he looked, how he acted toward certian people etc all kind of made him seem like he went down both roads - no problem there.

Garrus never seemed interested in another man though; otherwise he may have shown some sort of sign about him liking another male in the Turian Species; butttt he did go on and have fun with a female during a "fist fight" cough cough heh...

Tali - The thing I can say off hand about that is (sorry I'm kind of irritated over the uh massive flamewar going on) Kelly (a psychologist?...wewiohuiosfuiosdh blehhhh...) suggests her body language is different if you're a male Shepard. Where as if you're female Kelly (to my knowledge) doesn't see it; though its her job to kind of do so.

I'm sure I could come up with (or someone could) more reasons why certian people can't be "Bisexual" - but meh..Kaidan I can kind of see it...its more about his "looks" and don't tell me that some people don't have "eyes" that give them away or anything. Eyes tell more about people sometimes than anything else really; and its true all mothers who care about their kids know this, its how they knew we lied about detention hah. Ashley however...I don't really know what to say about her anymore; they really seemed to mess her character up during the transition between 1 and 2 in my mind.


Ashley and Kaidan weren't LIs in Mass Effect 2 either, in my opinion... We just basically knew that they were pissed at Shepard for what happened.  Yes, they send their respective e-mails if they were romanced, but we get the feeling that they were both very attached to Shepard no matter what.  (By the way, does a non-romanced Ashley always hug a female Shepard on Horizon?  I heard that somewhere, didn't know if it was true or not).  As far as I'm concerned, that relationship is over in ME2, and anything in ME3 might even seem like a brand new romance.  But that's just me, I'm not hardly the authority on that subject.

At any rate, the two (or one of the two really) are returning to everyone's games in ME3... I'm willing to bet that they will be the part of the "least temporary" companions, since they are both Spectres.  A lot has changed for them in two years... wouldn't be surprised if more than their orientation has changed.



Agreed sort of - and a hug doesn't mean love hah. Also; don't get me started on them being Spectres.....Ashley couldn't handle two Geth by herself...Kaidan couldn't hold off (with marine backup) a few more Geth...Just no...

Also - both are working for the Reapers indirectly (which explains their random behaviour on Horizon). Proof? They acted very unlike themselves after the Collectors seemingly left them there untouched Image IPB.

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LeVaughnX wrote...


Agreed sort of - and a hug doesn't mean love hah. Also; don't get me started on them being Spectres.....Ashley couldn't handle two Geth by herself...Kaidan couldn't hold off (with marine backup) a few more Geth...Just no...

Also - both are working for the Reapers indirectly (which explains their random behaviour on Horizon). Proof? They acted very unlike themselves after the Collectors seemingly left them there untouched Image IPB.


Actually I didn't find their behavior all that random.  I took Kaidan with me to all the ME1 Cerberus missions.  I'd be yelling at me too for working with them.  I didn't mind that their perspective was colored because there was no other reason for them to think otherwise.

But god if they become indoctrinated in ME3 I will be screaming for a "Shoot self in the head" option. :(

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RinjiRenee wrote...

LeVaughnX wrote...


Agreed sort of - and a hug doesn't mean love hah. Also; don't get me started on them being Spectres.....Ashley couldn't handle two Geth by herself...Kaidan couldn't hold off (with marine backup) a few more Geth...Just no...

Also - both are working for the Reapers indirectly (which explains their random behaviour on Horizon). Proof? They acted very unlike themselves after the Collectors seemingly left them there untouched Image IPB.


Actually I didn't find their behavior all that random.  I took Kaidan with me to all the ME1 Cerberus missions.  I'd be yelling at me too for working with them.  I didn't mind that their perspective was colored because there was no other reason for them to think otherwise.

But god if they become indoctrinated in ME3 I will be screaming for a "Shoot self in the head" option. :(


It would certainly give me much more incentive to blow some reapers to kingdom come and back.

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Melrache wrote...

VirtualStranger wrote...

Melrache wrote...

Captain_Obvious wrote...

VirtualStranger wrote...

Roachbugg wrote...

children behave play nice we don't want mr preistly to have to lock this thread.

I DO want Mr. Preistly to have to lock this thread. He locked all the other 5 redundant topics that sprung up yesterday but it seems that he missed one.

Agreed. 

I don't care what anyone says about the story of ME, the lore, being true to the character, or whatever.  I want ME to be inclusive, and if that means retconning characters, I say do it regardless of objections.   

So you'd alter the game just to suit your own needs, while possibly taking something many people like? Awesome, to see such selflessness. :blush:

Inclusive of all people = Suiting your own needs

LOLWUT?

Well if it comes with retconning characters, then it's not inclusive. Now please go away.

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Please tell me. What exactly is it that "you like" that's being "taken away from you" by redefining a character's sexuality to be open to more people?

Modifié par VirtualStranger, 28 juin 2011 - 05:34 .


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LeVaughnX wrote...

S.A.K wrote...

Why can't people stay on topic?



Hey what do you think of the new grenade in Mass Effect 3?

ORRR... What do you think of the still poor squad A.I. (but increasingly good enemy A.I.) in the Demo?

ORRRRRRRR.... Why is the sky maroon?...


ALL THE ANSWERS AND MORE NEXT TIME ON....WHOSE PRICE IS IT SINGING BEEEEEE!!!

...........................

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Melrache wrote...

So you'd alter the game just to suit your own needs, while possibly taking something many people like? Awesome, to see such selflessness. :blush:


What I meant was whether or not I approve of a change is irrelevant.  If someone else wants it, I really don't see why I should be catered to.  I am not the One True Fan.  I just like to play games.  If they put something in that I don't like, I won't play that part.  Example:  I can't stand the Hammerhead.  Since they are optional, I don't do the Hammerhead missions.  Second Example:  I've never romanced Garrus, Tali, Miranda, or Ashley.  Other people want too?  Fine.  Other people want S/S for these characters?  Fine.  I absolutely adore Kaidan.  I'd romance him s/s in a heartbeat.  Other people don't want to?  Fine, it's optional.  See?  Simple, everyone gets what they want. 

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RinjiRenee wrote...

LeVaughnX wrote...


Agreed sort of - and a hug doesn't mean love hah. Also; don't get me started on them being Spectres.....Ashley couldn't handle two Geth by herself...Kaidan couldn't hold off (with marine backup) a few more Geth...Just no...

Also - both are working for the Reapers indirectly (which explains their random behaviour on Horizon). Proof? They acted very unlike themselves after the Collectors seemingly left them there untouched Image IPB.


Actually I didn't find their behavior all that random.  I took Kaidan with me to all the ME1 Cerberus missions.  I'd be yelling at me too for working with them.  I didn't mind that their perspective was colored because there was no other reason for them to think otherwise.

But god if they become indoctrinated in ME3 I will be screaming for a "Shoot self in the head" option. :(


Think about it for a second. In real life if you somehow died / vanished for two years - and your dearest loved one who went through Hell and Back with you; and had sex with you etc / claimed to be yours etc...Now say that after two years you came back and within a few days managed to find that the galaxy was ending and you could stop it but had no idea where your loved one was. Your people abandoned you, your loved one can't be contacted right away - go with the flow.

Shepard should have more options to defend him/herself true, but in the end Ash or Kai shouldn't have freaked out like that especially if they really loved you. Hell my girlfriend said she'd grab me and refuse to leave me go anywhere alone without her. Thats true love! What Ash did (she cheated on you sort of and just chewed you out without using any thought) was just kind of Shallow. Kaidan on the other hand did the same thing but it didn't seem to fit his character to me. He seemed like he should'a been more logic less emotions.

In either case; why else would have the Collectors left them untouched after paralyzing them >_>?.....WATCH OUT IN ME3 MAN....KEEP THE PILL READY!!