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@E.A. (teehee):
Well, certainly you can lie about what you're crying about, or it might be a lot harder for actors to cry on demand, but there's still something there that's making you cry when you focus on it. Even if one could do it on command, I doubt they would just will themselves to it, they'd be going through their own little grief process right in front of us. And I don't doubt you can make the crying slow down or stop early somehow, bu I think the impulse is still there, which I might argue is proved a bit by the fact that it has to be consciously suppressed. Which I might argue isn't the best way to go, but is different for a lot of people, so I may have to give you that.


@Dave:
Being a woobie doesn't speak to your ability necessarily, it just means you get loooooots of crap. I think we can at least agree Shepard gets a lot of crap, right? Even if a Shep's the most badass thing since Socrates, they're pretty much the universe's target board; Shep gets shot at almost everywhere that docks the Normandy, almost everybody Shep's met abandoned her/him in some way or left him/her to handle everything alone. You don't have to cry about it to be a woobie, either (hence the Iron), and Shep certainly very rarely lets all the crap in the way slow him/her down or complain about it, but even ingame when Shep expresses optimism, people have commented about how much life seems to suck at times for him/her. A little recognition and reflection from the wo/man themselves should be an option, at least.

Modifié par REgentleman, 02 juillet 2011 - 09:54 .


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IEatWhatIPoo wrote...

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You know with all that time you spend replies to posts like these you could of made a new account and saved 15% by switching to Geico. 


All the games are linked to this account.

Can I link them to another while this is still active?


I don't know, couldn't hurt to try and what is the worst that could happen?  People don't know what games you've owned?


Then people will dismiss me as a troll who has no registered games if I ever say anything they disagree with.

It'll be just replacing one problem with another.


Regardless, under no circumstances would I allow myself to be known as "I Eat What I Poo". I mean, really? I would PM a site administrator and find SOME way of changing the username or transferring the registered games to another account. I think the registered games have generic registration numbers anyway, rather than unique ones, but someone else might know if it's possible to transfer data. The bottom line is, you can't expect anyone to really think they're dealing with an adult with a username and profile photo like yours. If you think people will look past it, you're wrong. The fact that you're using your brother's account only adds to the perception that you're underage, by the way.

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I support Shepard showing some more emotions. But these emotional situation should be entirely decided by the player. Something like LOtSB. I also think that it does somewhat take away from peoples visions of their character such as morals and emotions. So I am all for subtle emotional wear on Shepard like him staring off into the distance not paying any attention. While being briefed on a mission. Or maybe a dialogue choice like in LOtSB. But as for Shepard bursting into tears I think that is a little extreme. As for the smashing things and getting angry that could work great for a Renegade Shep.

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^Wow. Some people take things way to seriously on here.

It's just a name. Let it go.

No need to try to make people feel bad because they don't agree with your point. Attacking their user name is pretty immature itself.

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@Ryan Or tears and smashing at the same time, even.

Modifié par REgentleman, 02 juillet 2011 - 09:52 .


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SpEcIaLRyAn wrote...

I support Shepard showing some more emotions. But these emotional situation should be entirely decided by the player. Something like LOtSB. I also think that it does somewhat take away from peoples visions of their character such as morals and emotions. So I am all for subtle emotional wear on Shepard like him staring off into the distance not paying any attention. While being briefed on a mission. Or maybe a dialogue choice like in LOtSB. But as for Shepard bursting into tears I think that is a little extreme. As for the smashing things and getting angry that could work great for a Renegade Shep.


I prefer dialogue options myself like in LotSB.
But renegade or paragon moments would also be a good compromise. ^_^

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Siansonea II wrote...
Regardless, under no circumstances would I allow myself to be known as "I Eat What I Poo". I mean, really? I would PM a site administrator and find SOME way of changing the username or transferring the registered games to another account. I think the registered games have generic registration numbers anyway, rather than unique ones, but someone else might know if it's possible to transfer data. The bottom line is, you can't expect anyone to really think they're dealing with an adult with a username and profile photo like yours. If you think people will look past it, you're wrong. The fact that you're using your brother's account only adds to the perception that you're underage, by the way.


Your post assumes that people don't give a damn about post content and judge people solely based on usernames, which would indicate a level of immaturity among other people, not me.

Also, 25 - not underage.

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SpEcIaLRyAn wrote...

I support Shepard showing some more emotions. But these emotional situation should be entirely decided by the player. Something like LOtSB. I also think that it does somewhat take away from peoples visions of their character such as morals and emotions. So I am all for subtle emotional wear on Shepard like him staring off into the distance not paying any attention. While being briefed on a mission. Or maybe a dialogue choice like in LOtSB. But as for Shepard bursting into tears I think that is a little extreme. As for the smashing things and getting angry that could work great for a Renegade Shep.


Bursting into tears at the idea of losing everything is extreme? Not really.

Then again, who suggested that Shepard should burst into tears? You can show emotion without wailing.  Though if Shepard did cry, it wouldn't make the story less believable. If anything it would make it more realistic. 

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Saberchic wrote...

^Wow. Some people take things way to seriously on here.

It's just a name. Let it go.

No need to try to make people feel bad because they don't agree with your point. Attacking their user name is pretty immature itself.


Like it or not, we are judged by our appearance and presentation. It's just a fact. People with silly names, silly profile photos, people who don't use punctuation, who don't capitalize properly or who use all caps, and who use "texting speech" are going to be perceived as young/immature. Is it fair? Probably not, but that's the reality. When I see a user with a very juvenile presentation, I am going to assume they're a young person, and give them less consideration that I would someone who presents themselves in a mature way. Is it fair? Probably not, but that's the reality.

It's just typical for a young/immature person to equate tears with weakness. Do people think that Erinya's tears of impotent rage at the deaths of her daughters and bondmate were 'weak'? Or the asari who had lost the locket with the photo of her daughter's human father? Tears don't make you weak, and sometimes tears are the appropriate response to a situation. Should Shepard cry at the drop of a hat? No. Should Shepard be a blunted-affect sociopath? NO. There is middle ground, and Shep might shed a tear or two on that middle ground.

Modifié par Siansonea II, 02 juillet 2011 - 10:01 .


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I expect Shepard to be brought close to breaking point in ME3. Considering the situation - armageddon, and potentially the first time it has ever been stopped - I'll be very dissappointed if this doesn't happen.


You might be disappointed, but story wise, nobody in the Milky Way will be.

People don't understand it that crying like a baby doesn't mean a deeper story. It's makes it superficial, because you people never actually been where you want Shepard to go, emotionally, to know that a person which such a great burden, even though it would sound otherwise, does not have time nor a chance from the tough situation he's in to sit down and cry.

People who whine and lament halfway through there are loosers. Not because it makes them uncool, but because, psychologically, if you let all that stuff crawl under your skin and affect you, you'll fall. The moment you shed tears is the moment you admit to yourself and to the rest of the world that your strength is done.

I'm not against Shepard being a bit more emotional. But don't ask for crybabies...

If you have no idea how to deal and go through really rough ****, then shut about it. It doesn't work the way you think.  


IIRC isn't it physically impossible to cry unless you're thinking about something that really gets you into such an emotional state that your body makes you cry about it? Not that crying can't be used as a cheap ploy for attention or misrepresented, but if I've heard right, crying is literally impossible to trigger spontaneously or to completely suppress- one might not draw attention to it,  or try to "use" that sadness to appear to cry for something they aren't, but if you're actually feeling that bad, something forces its way out no matter what.

A total river shouldn't be necessary (though possibly should be optional!), but I don't think crying itself should detract from Shepard's ability that much; you tend to feel somewhat refreshed after normal cries, anyway.


No, I know someone who can make herself cry. But by the same token, you CAN keep it all in when you're feeling that bad. I speak from experience.


You guys know that we're talking about Armageddon, right? The end of everything? All of man-kind? Everything we know that exists or ever will exist? 

I'd say even the most bad-ass Shepard may well shed a few tears at that prospect. 


Very possible. I wouldn't mind it. But I'd rather have some really good dialogue that encapsulates what Shepard is feeling than an tear shed and lousy dialogue.

REgentleman wrote...

@E.A. (teehee):
Well, certainly
you can lie about what you're crying about, or it might be a lot harder
for actors to cry on demand, but there's still something there that's
making you cry when you focus on it. Even if one could do it on command,
I doubt they would just will themselves to it, they'd be going through
their own little grief process right in front of us. And I don't doubt
you can make the crying slow down or stop early somehow, bu I think the
impulse is still there, which I might argue is proved a bit by the fact
that it has to be consciously suppressed. Which I might argue isn't the
best way to go, but is different for a lot of people, so I may have to
give you that.


Yeah actually she said that she concentrated on some sad thing, you're right. And you're also right that when I bottled up the feelings, it usually ended up with me crying later on.

Modifié par EternalAmbiguity, 02 juillet 2011 - 10:03 .


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More women than men will support this. This is unfortunately how pepole work for some reason.

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REgentleman wrote...
Being a woobie doesn't speak to your ability necessarily, it just means you get loooooots of crap. I think we can at least agree Shepard gets a lot of crap, right? Even if a Shep's the most badass thing since Socrates, they're pretty much the universe's target board; Shep gets shot at almost everywhere that docks the Normandy, almost everybody Shep's met abandoned her/him in some way or left him/her to handle everything alone. You don't have to cry about it to be a woobie, either (hence the Iron), and Shep certainly very rarely lets all the crap in the way slow him/her down or complain about it, but even ingame when Shep expresses optimism, people have commented about how much life seems to suck at times for him/her. A little recognition and reflection from the wo/man themselves should be an option, at least.


Here's the relevant quote from TVTropes:

Please note that The Woobie is a specific type of character that is supposed to draw the audience's sympathy. If the character is the Chew Toy, Butt Monkey, or is a Jerkass he is not The Woobie (unless the character is also meant to be sympathetic). If the character doesn't let bad events faze him, he is not The Woobie.


Bad stuff happens to Shep. But he/she is not the sort of character who is profoundly affected by it, because Mass Effect is not that kind of story. See the above Star Wars example - it would be very strange to see Leia cry over the death of her people, because (as a similar event would be in Mass Effect) it would be tonally inconsistent. Both Mass Effect and Star Wars (here I refer to the real Star Wars movies ofc) are on balance relatively light-hearted space adventures with copious amounts of comic relief, and an attempt to bring "emo" elements into either story would come off as inconsistent and strange. Bad things happen to people in both series, but it doesn't have a profound negative effect on the general mood of the narrative.

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More women than men will support this. This is unfortunately how pepole work for some reason.


^^This wins the 'Dumbest Comment Of The Month' award. 

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I expect Shepard to be brought close to breaking point in ME3. Considering the situation - armageddon, and potentially the first time it has ever been stopped - I'll be very dissappointed if this doesn't happen. Every bit of training and experience Shepard has had should be fully tested and pushed to the limit in this game.

Take LOTR for example; it would've been anti-climactic if Frodo had just strolled up the hill, whistling. Showing the physical and emotional struggle in that scene really sold the difficulty and danger of the situation.


Frodo is a Hobbit.

Shepard is a special-forces trained soldier.


You're missing the point: "it would've been anti-climactic if Frodo had just strolled up the hill,
whistling. Showing the physical and emotional struggle in that scene
really sold the difficulty and danger of the situation."

Furthermore, while Frodo is a hobbit, it's worth noting that he was stronger willed than any of the non-humans (with all their martial skill and experience), in terms of handling the ring.  Also, he was pushed to breaking point, not because he was a pansy - he was actually extraordinarily brave and strong willed - but because that's how utterly grave the situation became.  And, most importantly, it made the scene incredibly moving; it would've made a rubbish story if he didn't struggle up the mountain.  Would you have preferred if Frodo marched up like Duke Nukem, and upon reaching the top, turned around, looked directly at the camera, with a cheesy one liner?  Sorry, but I want a good story, not a cheesy hollywood blockbuster.

Why are people saying Shepard "should" be at breaking point, and Shepard "should" cry etc?

Maybe Shepard is tougher than you guys give him/her credit for?


People are saying Shep should be pushed to the limit because of how utterly grave the situation is.  If Shepard just strolls to the finishing line without struggling like mad, then how bad was the situation really?

We do think Shepard is tough :/  Probably the toughest human soldier there is, and arguably the greatest hero the Milky Way has ever had - but we think the situation is bad enough to push her to her limit.  I mean, *LOL*, she's up against an armada of Reapers culling the galaxy of all intelligent life.  A race of sentient machines that have been doing this countless times to god-knows how many species.  For the reapers, this is gardening; for Shepard and everyone else in the galaxy this is the first time they will have ever had to deal with a threat this powerful and on such a staggeringly massive scale. 

In this game, you play as Commander Shepard, but just because you are controlling him/her; doesn't mean the character Shepard reacts the way you would.

Just because you would break out in tears at the sight of death doesn't mean that Commander Shepard would/should/will.


You realise I never suggested that, right...?  You're completely exaggerating what I've been saying.  I'm saying I want Shepard to be brought to breaking point in ME3, not cry every moment someone dies :/  Where are you getting that from? 

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My Shep is an emotional wreck, thats why when Saren was making him out to be a clown in front of the Council he just stomped his feet several times and began screaming. Later, when Harby says "This hurts you..." Shep replied "DONT TELL ME HOW TO FEEL."

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Siansonea II wrote...

Should Shepard be a blunted-affect sociopath?


You do realize that not every character in fiction that doesn't cry when bad stuff happens is supposed to come off as a sociopath, right?

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Later, when Harby says "This hurts you..." Shep replied "DONT TELL ME HOW TO FEEL."


This wins the thread.

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^^This wins the 'Dumbest Comment Of The Month' award. 


I do not understand mind sharing why you think this ?

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Siansonea II wrote...

Saberchic wrote...

^Wow. Some people take things way to seriously on here.

It's just a name. Let it go.

No need to try to make people feel bad because they don't agree with your point. Attacking their user name is pretty immature itself.


Like it or not, we are judged by our appearance and presentation. It's just a fact. People with silly names, silly profile photos, people who don't use punctuation, who don't capitalize properly or who use all caps, and who use "texting speech" are going to be perceived as young/immature. Is it fair? Probably not, but that's the reality. When I see a user with a very juvenile presentation, I am going to assume they're a young person, and give them less consideration that I would someone who presents themselves in a mature way. Is it fair? Probably not, but that's the reality.

It's just typical for a young/immature person to equate tears with weakness. Do people think that Erinya's tears of impotent rage at the deaths of her daughters and bondmate were 'weak'? Or the asari who had lost the locket with the photo of her daughter's human father? Tears don't make you weak, and sometimes tears are the appropriate response to a situation. Should Shepard cry at the drop of a hat? No. Should Shepard be a blunted-affect sociopath? NO. There is middle ground, and Shep might shed a tear or two on that middle ground.


I think NPCs who show emotion are not seen as weak. It's when the PC does it that people object because then that takes the roleplay out of it. I like it when I hear my Shep get irritated or happy in dialogue because I'm selecting the option.

There's nothing wrong with showing emotion in conversations, and I agree with what the suggestion earlier mentioning having renegade or paragon options because then the player can choose. However, I don't think it would enhance the experience if you had all these "moments" all over the game. Inevitably, you'd have people arguing over when and which moment Shep should get introspective over. It's just all too much. 

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@Dave: hmm, touche-ay (my own inspiration, turned against me!). I'd still argue that Shepard could fit the description, but I might be wrong to force that title on all Shepards.

@vnnk: That may be true, in practice, that more men will speak up against it. Still!
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Fight da imposed gender roles!

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^^This wins the 'Dumbest Comment Of The Month' award. 


I do not understand why mind sharing why you think this ?


Do you remember what you said?

Because you think that it will mainly be women who support this and that this is unfortunate. 

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DuckSoup wrote...

Vnnk wrote...

DuckSoup wrote...

^^This wins the 'Dumbest Comment Of The Month' award. 


I do not understand why mind sharing why you think this ?


Do you remember what you said?

Because you think that it will mainly be women who support this and that this is unfortunate. 


And you have no reason to call it "the dumbest comment of the month" until you get the gender statistics for the supporters.

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Saberchic wrote...

Siansonea II wrote...

Saberchic wrote...

^Wow. Some people take things way to seriously on here.

It's just a name. Let it go.

No need to try to make people feel bad because they don't agree with your point. Attacking their user name is pretty immature itself.


Like it or not, we are judged by our appearance and presentation. It's just a fact. People with silly names, silly profile photos, people who don't use punctuation, who don't capitalize properly or who use all caps, and who use "texting speech" are going to be perceived as young/immature. Is it fair? Probably not, but that's the reality. When I see a user with a very juvenile presentation, I am going to assume they're a young person, and give them less consideration that I would someone who presents themselves in a mature way. Is it fair? Probably not, but that's the reality.

It's just typical for a young/immature person to equate tears with weakness. Do people think that Erinya's tears of impotent rage at the deaths of her daughters and bondmate were 'weak'? Or the asari who had lost the locket with the photo of her daughter's human father? Tears don't make you weak, and sometimes tears are the appropriate response to a situation. Should Shepard cry at the drop of a hat? No. Should Shepard be a blunted-affect sociopath? NO. There is middle ground, and Shep might shed a tear or two on that middle ground.


I think NPCs who show emotion are not seen as weak. It's when the PC does it that people object because then that takes the roleplay out of it. I like it when I hear my Shep get irritated or happy in dialogue because I'm selecting the option.

There's nothing wrong with showing emotion in conversations, and I agree with what the suggestion earlier mentioning having renegade or paragon options because then the player can choose. However, I don't think it would enhance the experience if you had all these "moments" all over the game. Inevitably, you'd have people arguing over when and which moment Shep should get introspective over. It's just all too much. 


Oh, I definitely agree that Shepard's emotional moments should be player-opt-in, and varied. There should be the Frodo option, the HAL 9000 option, and the Duke Nukem option. :wizard:

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Oh, I definitely agree that Shepard's emotional moments should be player-opt-in, and varied. There should be the Frodo option, the HAL 9000 option, and the Duke Nukem option. :wizard:


:lol:

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DaveExclamationMarkYognaut wrote...

Siansonea II wrote...

Should Shepard be a blunted-affect sociopath?


You do realize that not every character in fiction that doesn't cry when bad stuff happens is supposed to come off as a sociopath, right?


Well, so far Legion and EDI have more emotional range than Shepard. I'd at least like to have the OPTION of playing Shepard as a human being with feelings, rather than as an automaton.