mauro2222 wrote...
Made Nightwing wrote...
mauro2222 wrote...
HTTP 404 wrote...
human nature to look at flaws first, strengths second.
is the opposite
Negative, he got it right. Especially when the flaws are more prominent and you have to search for the strengths. Even with attractive/wealthy/powerful figures, people tend to look for their flaws immediately.
In atractive people of course, if it is atractive to someone, that person will search the flaws in order to see if it is the correct partner.
I should have worded it that "it is easier to see flaws than to find strengths" You have to put a bit more effort to find good things to say than to criticize. Its easier to spout off 10 bad things about someone or something than it is to spout off 10 good things about someone or something.... including ourselves
I have a guy friend who is pretty much a good looking dude, that most girls would go for. but he has a shriveled hand. you do the math, that flaw stands out and overbears on the rest of his characteristics both physical and personality.
The point is, this thread and OP and most threads for that matter look at the glass 1/100th empty when in fact Me3 will be 99/100th full to me.





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