rapscallioness wrote...
I will say this also, it's not just that shep is w/ Cerberus that IMO has the VS upset, but also the idea that Shep..abandoned them. Abandoned the crew; the mission...to top it off, they're w/ Cerberus.
When Shep died, the Council and the Alliance were none too nice. They busted up everything and everybody. Then here comes Shep (and really who's gonna believe that Shep was resurrected by Cerberus) so it appears as nothing more than Shep ditched them.
So, yes, the VS was in pain i think for a variety of reasons. Not just Cerberus. And no, I don't hate the VS, who is also my LI. Yes, I'm ticked w/ him, but I'm still keeping him. We'll work it out.
And @Sian...I don't agree w/ you that it's all Shepard's fault on Horizon. You say we're idolizing Shepard, but I feel like you're idolizing the Vs. To you the VS can do no wrong. Shep needs to kiss his azz or something. I don't expect, nor want the VS to kiss my Shepard azz, but I'm not kissing his either.
I don't even understand what you're doing Siansonea. I don't understand why this is such a big deal to you. You've been belaboring this point like some kinda zealot. You can't make ppl agree w/ you. You can't make them see it the way you see it. Your opinion is just one of many in a sea of opinions. All you can ever do is make your point as best you can, and if you're lucky you give them something to think abt.
I've been watching this thread and you've been rude as hell to ppl that...for the most part...have been nothing but polite to you. You started off making good points and having some humor abt. it. Next thing I know, you're calling ppl dumb and just being condescending and insulting.
I use to enjoy reading ur posts. I didn't agree w/ all of them, but you would make sum good points, have a different perspective on things. But this...I'm thinking who the heck is this and what have they done w/ Sian?
And it's not the back and forth so much as the belittling tone I've seen you take w/ppl that disagree w/ you. I understand it can be frustrating when ppl don't see what you think is obvious, but sometimes you just gotta let it go.
I'm sorry you feel that way. But from where I'm standing, it just looks like a bunch of abuse is heaped on the VS, and no one seems to question Shepard or how things look from the VS' perspective. We humans have a tendency to completely ignore another person's point of view in general, but this is ridiculous. Actually, "ignore" isn't quite the right word, since that implies that something is noticed on some level in the first place. I guess it's more that people are oblivious to the fact that someone might come to a completely different conclusion about an event based on their subjective viewpoint. That person is expected to understand
your subjective viewpoint perfectly, however, and act accordingly.
What it boils down to, and the reason I've become increasingly strident in this thread, is because much of what I've seen from the "Shepard Rules!" faction can be distilled into a few key concepts.
• Cerberus Isn't So Bad!™: The VS should appreciate some sort of distinction that Shepard is working "with" or "alongside" Cerberus, rather than "for" Cerberus. As if that even IS a distinction. It sure looks like TIM is calling all the shots anyway. I'm sure he thinks he is. Shepard sure does seem to do everything he says—up until the end. And doesn't even squawk too much. Shepard is really
docile in this game.
• Cerberus Isn't So Bad!™: Because the Alliance did some questionable stuff too, some of which Shepard and the VS even know about. So I guess Shepard's and the VS' oaths to the Alliance are null and void, huh? And things like murder, torture, questionable scientific ethics, those are excusable if done "for the right reasons". And those "right reasons" seem to be "benefits me" in most cases.
• It's Shepard!™: The VS is expected to trust Shepard, no matter what. Even after a mysterious 2-year absence that Shepard doesn't adequately explain. And even though she is with a group of terrorists. All just because of who she is and what she did two years ago. Shepard isn't subject to the same rules that other people are subject to.
• It's Shepard!™: Nothing Shepard says or does is as bad as the VS making some sharp comments and not immediately embracing Shepard working with Cerberus. A few mild rebukes are worse than being in the company of terrorists.
• Paragons Are Stupid™: The ends justify the means. Always. If you try to hold yourself to a higher standard, you're just "unrealistic" or otherwise stupid, foolish, obstinate, etc.
• You Talkin' To ME?!™: Because "I" am Shepard, I'm supposed to completely accept and buy into Shepard's view of events, and completely reject the point of view of other characters. Sorry, but Tela Vasir was right about you too, Shepard. You ARE a massive hypocrite.
• Word Of God™: Because the game doesn't give Shepard an option to say or do something, it's a foregone conclusion that the options the game DOES give you are the "right" ones. Shepard couldn't possibly say or do anything truly stupid, the game wouldn't let that happen! But the opposite is then true for the other characters. Therefore "disagrees with Shepard" = "wrong".
And it all just gets old. Same old egocentric BS. No one ever thinks about how things would look if the shoe was on the other foot. And it's not because I just adore the VS as a character that I have been so relentless in this thread. It's because I abhor this type of thinking in general. In a perfect world we'd all at least
try to see things from another person's point of view, rather than make some thinly veiled stabs at lip service to that goal, for the purpose of rationalizing the unshakeable subjective conclusion that was never actually questioned at any point in the discussion.
And personally, you can chastise me for my "tone" all you want. Being "nice" is overrated, especially on the Internet. Being nice for the sake of harmony just makes people ignore you and treat you like a doormat. And it seems like THAT is the crux of the whole issue. If the VS was "nice" to Shepard, then we wouldn't have a problem. But if I was "nice" to all these folks after the umpteenth time they try to downplay Cerberus, if I treated them as if their arguments were anything but thinly veiled egocentrism, then people might think that I believe there is a shred of validity to these convoluted pretzel logic scenarios. Because I DO understand their point of view so well, it's obvious to me what's really going on. And I'm not going to act like it's not happening. So if anybody has a problem with my "tone", they can get glad in the same pants they got mad in. Or not. But being "liked" has never been high on my list of priorities, especially if it requires me to be as docile as Shepard or as deferential and accommodating as Garrus and Tali. No thank you.
Modifié par Siansonea II, 13 août 2011 - 03:59 .