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[sympathy4saren]

I was targeted by this woman, and we've been on a few dates. But it feels awkward and exciting at the same time.

Should younger men legitimately date older women?

[naughty99]

absolutely, why not?

as long as you are having a good time, who cares what others might think.

when I was 17, I dated a woman who was 34

[Chromie]

No because clearly you don't seem fine with it if you seek someone else's approval.

[sympathy4saren]

naughty99 wrote...

absolutely, why not?

as long as you are having a good time, who cares what others might think.

when I was 17, I dated a woman who was 34

Did it feel weird?

[Jiggasaurus]

You must break this blasphemous relationship immediately, repent via celibacy.

[Volus Warlord]

Beware of Cougars! They are not to be trusted!

[TJPags]

If you were 32, would you date a 25 year old woman? I'm betting yes.

So what's the problem?

[Volus Warlord]

TJPags wrote...

If you were 32, would you date a 25 year old woman? I'm betting yes.

So what's the problem?

No, that's fine. However the other way around is not acceptable. It's weird.  It's called a double standard.


I can date 23-year-olds when I'm 50 but women cannot date men more that 3 years younger than them because its cougarish and nothing good comes out of dating a cougar.

[Homebound]

sympathy4saren wrote...

I was targeted by this woman, and we've been on a few dates. But it feels awkward and exciting at the same time.

Should younger men legitimately date older women?

CONGRATULATIONS!
I hope the two of you find happiness!

[slimgrin]

sympathy4saren wrote...

naughty99 wrote...

absolutely, why not?

as long as you are having a good time, who cares what others might think.

when I was 17, I dated a woman who was 34

Did it feel weird?

I've a hunch you're just posting for fun, but I'll bite anyway. I say go with it. You'll be a wise man when it's all done.

Modifié par slimgrin, 12 juillet 2011 - 01:39 .

[TJPags]

Volus Warlord wrote...

TJPags wrote...

If you were 32, would you date a 25 year old woman? I'm betting yes.

So what's the problem?

No, that's fine. However the other way around is not acceptable. It's weird.  It's called a double standard.


I can date 23-year-olds when I'm 50 but women cannot date men more that 3 years younger than them because its cougarish and nothing good comes out of dating a cougar.

Oh, I'm sure some good things can come from it.   

[Turnip Root]

Who cares.  I'm 28 and I did PNF stretching with a 17 year old female client just as an excuse to grab her thigh. 

Modifié par Turnip Root, 12 juillet 2011 - 01:42 .

[sympathy4saren]

Why does nothing good ever come from dating a cougar??? What can you tell me??

[slimgrin]

Turnip Root wrote...

Who cares.  I'm 28 and I did PNF stretching with a 17 year old female client just as an excuse to grab her thigh. 

The line. You have crossed it.

[sympathy4saren]

Turnip Root wrote...

Who cares.  I'm 28 and I did PNF stretching with a 17 year old female client just as an excuse to grab her thigh. 

Man oh man!! Such an instigstor.....

[Turnip Root]

slimgrin wrote...

Turnip Root wrote...

Who cares.  I'm 28 and I did PNF stretching with a 17 year old female client just as an excuse to grab her thigh. 

The line. You have crossed it.

Hey, she still got a good hamstring stretch and that is all that matters.  She's hot but her hip flexors are too tight.

[The Uncanny]

A seven year age gap. Good grief... it's clearly an unclean abberation which will cause the downfall of society as we know it. 

[rwscissors702]

Definitely, doo eet! It's a win for you both, you benefit of her experience and she of your... stamina. Women hit their... um, physical peak at a later age than men do.

[Spawny]

Ringo12 wrote...

No because clearly you don't seem fine with it if you seek someone else's approval.

Right there.

[Volus Warlord]

TJPags wrote...

*snip*

Oh, I'm sure some good things can come from it.   

However, the negatives will far outweigh the positives.

Eventually you will tire of being a mere toy/trophy, and, I dunno.. want to maybe be in a relationship in which you are a person? So you will take what money you can get and run. That or the cougar will toss you aside to find some fresh meat.

However, when that happens, your best days will be behind you, and you will be bitter and jaded from a pathetic excuse for a relationship. You will attempt to find another, but the Cougar will be whispering in your blood, and you will be unable to fulfill any role other than a mere status symbol-which your physique may no longer allow you to do well-and this may be damning any potential future meaningful relationships.

It's similar in nature to marrying a golddigger.  Doomed to fail from day one, it may be a lot off fun of the bat, and you may be congratulated by your colleagues on finding such a trophy. However, after 10 years of her spending 1/3 of your disposable income on shoes and coats, she will take your kids, your money, and leave you angry and miserable.. and with little to build on for any future success.

Good luck.

Modifié par Volus Warlord, 12 juillet 2011 - 01:54 .

[sympathy4saren]

HagSpawn wrote...

Ringo12 wrote...

No because clearly you don't seem fine with it if you seek someone else's approval.

Right there.

True. I need to take that into account

[sympathy4saren]

rwscissors702 wrote...

Definitely, doo eet! It's a win for you both, you benefit of her experience and she of your... stamina. Women hit their... um, physical peak at a later age than men do.

Very accurate. I think she has a big thing for younger guys. She's a Cali girl, too. Very good looking, real down to earth and friendly

[Volus Warlord]

sympathy4saren wrote...

rwscissors702 wrote...

Definitely, doo eet! It's a win for you both, you benefit of her experience and she of your... stamina. Women hit their... um, physical peak at a later age than men do.

Very accurate. I think she has a big thing for younger guys. She's a Cali girl, too. Very good looking, real down to earth and friendly

It's called a "front." She's actually a bat**** insane control freak with emotional stability issues. Get some and run... preferably accross state lines.

[sympathy4saren]

Lol. Sounds like this sorta thing has hit close to ya

[Pious_Augustus]

I have experience in this regard. Typically older American / European women will date younger men now because they are desperate and can’t find anyone their own age and find it harder to manipulate someone their own age.

Typically Cougars as you call these women have a supplemental income coming from other men or another man this woman was with. In the Military and Family Law here in the United States the courts and laws still favor women and give them more rights then men even though younger women currently make more then younger men and the majority of people laid off in this recession are men.

In the Military if a woman military or not married a Military man and got divorced when he retires his former wife will receive 55% of that man’s income.

Also that is not including Child Support and depending on the state for example here in Illinois Child Support has three tiers. One ends at age 18 unless still in High School or the child (Which is an adult) turns 19 whatever one happens first. Second Tier till age 23 often the mother will need time to get her over spending in order and this to help cool her down but the Democratic Party to get the youth vote in two more counties in Illinois has made an exception to where they can collect from both mother and father though this will only happen if the request child (adult) is a female. Third tier is life which mothers have been trying to work around and before the Democratic Party lost power in the House Speaker Nancy was trying to raise Child Support Federally till the age of 28.

You’re just her fun toy don’t believe anything she says about her ex or Childs father if you notice her denying and complaining about the father or denying visits remember this could be you in a year or so if you played into her game depending on the state she gets Twenty Percent of each mans income she is with if she has a child and gets more if you marry her.

There are also some states if you are with her for a year and has not filled child support on anyone if your from a Liberal state if the child thinks your its father even though nothing was signed some of the most Liberal courts in the country will and have forced you to pay child support for that child thats not yours or go to jail.  Also if you had a child with someone and signed the birth certifate even if it's proven you are not the father you still have to pay in many states seeing when DNA testing came avaiable many states countroled by the Democratic Party around this time met and made laws to give you a very short period of time to contest any birth but made sure you were locked out on contesting any fraud from the mother these fathers are known as duped fathers and Liberal Courts Upper and Lower protect this process since the states recieves 2 dollars for every dollar they collect from the federal government

But seeing younger men not well off then their fathers and loaded with student loan debt that they can’t pay off because their Liberal Arts teacher in high school told them it would get them a good job and expand your mind you wouldn’t be finically secure to give her better alimony then her previous husband so child support will have to do.

Remember cougars are literal blood suckers who care only for themselves and only themselves. They will suck you try of whatever you have a move on. Let me give you advice don’t marry an American woman or Western European women if you want a wife go to a country were women act like women and not liberated blood suckers

Also I saw in a family court room a Judge ordering a 13 year old pay child support for his 34 year old ex who they just let go. If you want to see what these women are like take a field trip to a family court room and listen to the cases

Modifié par Pious_Augustus, 12 juillet 2011 - 02:13 .