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[KenKenpachi]

Pft the old man doesn't >>

[foogoo]

DuckSoup wrote...

I've dated men younger than myself and am currently doing so. So far I've not had any complaints, or funny looks for that matter.

Besides, I think some men enjoy having an older women because we can show them how it's really done.

You meant cooking right...

[Blastback]

The question to ask is are you happy. If so, then go for it.

[Shirosaki17]

DuckSoup wrote...

I've dated men younger than myself and am currently doing so. So far I've not had any complaints, or funny looks for that matter.

Besides, I think some men enjoy having an older women because we can show them how it's really done.

So you had to show the guy you're with how it's done. Interesting.

[catabuca]

a friend of mine married a man many years her junior, and he died unexpectedly from an aneurism. so simply to echo the previous argument, age and the possibility of death shouldn't be top of your list when thinking about this stuff. how you feel about each other should be.

it's difficult to find love, with someone who lights up your world. if you find it, and if you're both happy, nothing else matters.

[Seeker Sparrow]

In the past I dated someone who was 4 years older than me...

...it did not end well.

[happy_daiz]

Sparrow Hawke wrote...

In the past I dated someone who was 4 years older than me...

...it did not end well.

That probably had to do with the specific person, not their age. Don't let it jade you, or you might miss out on someone wonderful!

[catabuca]

My mother is in a relationship with a man 11 years her senior. I suppose because he's older than her, it's more culturally acceptable. I don't know of one person who's ever said anything about the gap in their age.

There is also someone who is in a relationship with a man 12 years her junior. I suspect that would be viewed differently by many people, despite the fact that they themselves are very comfortable with the situation.

If we want to talk about mortality and so on, people say that men seem to die younger than women, as a trend, so one would think the latter situation would be deemed more socially acceptable than the former, and yet the reverse is true. Probably because of paternalistic notions of the man as protector and dominant person in a relationship. An older woman can be seen as dangerous, threatening, and so on. But let's consider that a younger woman with an older man is always also deemed as the one in the wrong, not the older man. Basically, this is society's problem with women — if women are anything other than diminutive or submissive in a relationship, and that includes their age as a symbol for that submissiveness, they are considered to be threatening, clearly after something sinister, not truthful, and so on. Men are almost always considered to simply be pursuing a relationship, sexual or romantic, whether they be older or younger than their partner.

This isn't about age. This is about cultural representations of gender and power distribution in relationships.

[Luke Nukem Forever]

Some of the posts here made me go: 


Dude just do whatever your heart tells you too. If you really LOVE her than you won't ask other people opinions about her. <3 For love!

[Seeker Sparrow]

happy_daiz wrote...

Sparrow Hawke wrote...

In the past I dated someone who was 4 years older than me...

...it did not end well.

That probably had to do with the specific person, not their age. Don't let it jade you, or you might miss out on someone wonderful!

No it was very much due to age, specifically my age at the time.

[Turnip Root]

DuckSoup wrote...

I've dated men younger than myself and am currently doing so. So far I've not had any complaints, or funny looks for that matter.

Besides, I think some men enjoy having an older women because we can show them how it's really done.

If a man needs a woman to show him how it's done then that man is no real man.  A real man prefers a hot teenager who will call him master.

[Cutlass Jack]

makalathbonagin wrote...
ahmm a friend of a friend dated a 35 old guy she was 14 ..... personally i find it wrong yes very wrong

Not just personally. The law would agree with you. Well around here anyway.

[O Tucker]

DuckSoup wrote...

Turnip Root wrote...

DuckSoup wrote...

I've dated men younger than myself and am currently doing so. So far I've not had any complaints, or funny looks for that matter.

Besides, I think some men enjoy having an older women because we can show them how it's really done.

If a man needs a woman to show him how it's done then that man is no real man.  A real man prefers a hot teenager who will call him master.

OR!

A real man could enjoy a more mature woman who's confident, sexy, experienced and will role-play. 

I know what I'd rather have.

Your Both right! But i think it depends on the women more to be honest on rarther how old she is, I don't mind a bit younger, i definitely don't mind a bit older..but to me the women herself counts for more...

[AllThatJazz]

When you say 'role-play' Duck, I'm going to go ahead and guess that you don't mean pretending to be a Gold Dwarf cleric in a mine full of bugbears. At least, I got the impression that my husband was a little miffed when I popped on a beard, shouted 'For Clangeddin!' and tried to hack him to death with an axe.

[O Tucker]

makalathbonagin wrote...


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ahmm a friend of a friend dated a 35 old guy she was 14 ..... personally i find it wrong yes very wrong

Now that is wrong


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