NICKjnp wrote...
I'm glad I can be attacked for pointing out something that at it's core would effect a christian/muslim/jew who was bisexual. Enough so to make them focus their attraction on memberrs of the opposite sex. And as much as people demand that Christianity/Judaism/Islam will automatically adapt so that Ashley can become attracted to femshep...that is an insult to those who practice those faiths. If Ashley was part a practicing member of a gay sect within the Christian church then sure (but those are very small groups). Furthermore if she was Jewish or Muslim then it wouldn't happen. Period.
Let's not forget that, generally speaking, those faiths tend to insult queer people more often than not and this they do at the institutional level. The religions cast the first stones, not us. No gay Jewish or Muslim people? And, so very few gay Christians too? Your wishful thinking is rather patronizing. I'm not a religious person myself, but I don't need special training to know there are oddball queers among my own kind who are religious of every stripe.
As much as I don't want old characters to become s/s options because I think it should have happened before when the original romance is available...I would accept it if Bioware ultimately decided to go that route. However if it is Ashley then it isn't just a simple changing a character to being bisexual. They have taken it a step further that gives a slap to the face of fans of the character who were fans because of the spiritual connection they had with her.
I have a practicing Mormon friend(yes, believe it or not) and he mused aloud that, among my other friends who happen to be Christians, "they must not be very good Christians" because unlike him they don't try to convert me away from gayness. Vice-versa, they would bristle and turn his comment back onto him if they knew. So let's not whitewash the fact that even religious straight people can be diverse instead of 1-note.
More harm is being committed if Kaidan and Ashley are confined into "str8s-only" just so provincial people don't have to clutch their pearls regarding a potential facet(sexuality) of their lovers that's at
least as important as faith. I, of course, argue sexuality is even more important than faith if/when these things come into conflict.
What slap in the face are we talking about? Do their relationships with Ashley mandate a "no-queerness" policy? If so, then those people are victims but they're not the kind we should pity or coddle. It's certainly sad if they can't continue to love a queer gf or bf just because of religious teachings that summarily call their lover a bad person. But such is the religious person's only claim to victimhood. It's the bisexual lover being dumped over scriptures/sermons who is the real victim of insult.
I'm affraid it is a little more complicated than...she can be christian/muslim/jewish and be into femshep. There are other factors to consider than just making another s/s option for femshep.
As for my authority on the issue. This is where I got my BA and the department I graduated from. It is an acredited institution...one of the top liberal arts colleges on the west coast. I am currently working on a nursing degree (like my father...who was gay...before he died) with a goal of becoming a nurse practitioner. I am a liberal Christian. I hate the Christian coalition. I support gay marriage. I believe in a strong seperation of church and state. I believe that marriage is a institution that is practiced by many religions and tha all religions have the right to be recognized in our secular government.
Some of these things on your list are a welcome sight, but they clearly don't add up to enough when you rely on them as disclaimers to back your hypocritical aversion against bisexuality in other people. I know little about the philosophies behind most organized religions, but I do know very well the consequences of their good intentions.
Modifié par Eromenos, 16 juillet 2011 - 03:49 .