hey guys, this is kinda not mlp-related but its love and tolerance related so its kinda related.
I was wondering, what does "feeling sorry for yourself" even mean?
Today I just finished a story arc with a character I made in my blog, named "katie". Spoiler alert, her brother suicides after he murders the people that shot her and murdered his girlfriend. The suicide itself ties into a lot of problems that she and her brother fought with. Think Kick-ass combined with the breakfast club with Bioshock's ending.
It wasn't until the final closing scene where this thought popped into my head.
Katie is crying over Tyler's gravestone, shes just bawling. She goes into an internal monologue on how life is about being able to find what brings us happiness and how sometimes when we lose something, theres no getting it back. Then a phrase popped into my head. "Stop feeling sorry for yourself".
Its so hyper-critical and hurtful, that simple phrase undos everything this character worked for, and Im asking myself, why?
At that point, I dont know what to make of the scene..Her brother just died, shes miserable and rightly so. Shes grieving, and some guy in the crowd criticizes her for feeling bad about a bad situation.
So in the vein of "love and tolerance", what does "feeling sorry for yourself" mean? theres something so foul and manipulative about it. Its like someone denying you your own feelings.
Modifié par Hellbound555, 23 mai 2012 - 04:50 .