CulturalGeekGirl wrote...
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Now, I define "helping" as "helping Anders have some semblance of an identity outside the cause of mages." No matter what, you're going to have to continue helping him work for his cause. If that's all he does, he'll become more and more simply an embodiment of a cause and less a person. This isn't necessarily a bad thing, but it's not the result I'm interested in. I want to see the whole end up at least equal to the sum of its parts, rather than less. I want a functional human and a happy spirit, wrapped around a core of nougat. Left alone, the man is being consumed by the myth and the legend.
I don't think that just loving him and staying with him will help Anders. If you want Anders to get better, you're going to have to find some pro-active way to work with him on his issues.
I agree with you that just love alone would not begin to fix Anders. Even with the happy, stay with Anders after everything ending, Anders makes it clear you have to follow him. He cannot follow you. He gains a measure of control over himself because he fed the needs of Vengence. To keep having control, he has to keep working actively towards his goal of seeing mages free. As long as he does that, Vengence would probably be mollified enough that Anders could become more functional. Part of his dream is to see mages free to stay with their families and to start families of their own. Because of this, pursuing romance can be a part of his agenda, but it can't be his sole reason for existence. The path that Anders takes comes at a high personal cost. He won't get to settle down or rest until ALL mages in ALL lands are free. But if he lives and Hawke stays with him, his life will be bearable and he won't have to suffer the dicotomy of destroying the one thing he wants the most personally to achieve the goal he wants publicly. Thoughts?





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