randomcheeses wrote...
CulturalGeekGirl wrote...
If you love a fascist sympathizer more than you love the person who is fighting for freedom, it's ok to hate Anders. Just admit that you hate Anders because you prioritize the lives of people who cooperate and sympathize with an authoritarian state over to those who would use violence to rebel against it.
If you'll actually admit that out loud, I won't fault you for hating Anders. In that case, it would be perfectly in keeping with your philosophy. I'd just disagree with your fundamental priorities, and not trouble you specifically any longer.
Right. Because that's the only reason someone could hate Anders. Not e.g. because of the way he lies, manipulates and for a Hawke in a romance with him resorts to emotional blackmail.
Me, I sympathise with Anders, I always side with the mages. But I still don't like him. Because, though he's a very good story character, he's actually a very unpleasant person if you don't automatically agree with everything he says.
And yes, before you say it, I know he has suffered horrible traumas and injustices, and has good reason for being the way he is. That doesn't mean I have to excuse it, or put up with it. That's like saying to someone who is being bullied "oh the person who is tormenting you was also bullied, so you should feel sorry for them and not resent the fact that they're making your life miserable/being an unreasonable jerk."
That particular post was directed solely at people who do claim that the collatoral damage at the Chantry is the only (or at least the primary) reason they hate Anders.
Actually, your reason for disliking Anders... that he's an unpleasant person who is actually really bad at winning friends and influencing people... I get that. I respect it.
If I understand you correctly, you're not calling him whiny. You're not reducing what he does to the simplest possible terms. You're just saying "I agree with your fight for freedom and your complaints are valid but you, personally, are kind of a douchebag."
Now, I do think that Anders has kind of a decent reason for lying, but I also think that the emotional blackmail thing is reprehensible. My "good" Hawkes never encountered that lovely little scene, and my "sociopath" Hawke laughed in his face, so it never really bothered me. Still, you can encounter that scene if you are playing a Hawke who is a good person, and if you do, it is pretty awful. I wish he would straight up break things off with you if he's that upset about it, rather than resorting to emotional blackmail. If the Chantry is a dealbreaker, Anders, then LEAVE, don't give stupid manipulative ultimatums. Also, you are TERRIBLE at arguing.
And that's a reason for not liking Anders that I totally respect. So I apologize if you felt attacked by my rant: please know that it was directed only towards people who use the "killing innocents" cudgel.
Modifié par CulturalGeekGirl, 04 octobre 2011 - 09:31 .





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