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Apparently it is emotional manipulation to tell someone you love, that what they are doing is dangerous.



I haven't done Rivalry, but from what I've seen on youtube (which isn't much mind you) it feels like "I know what's what better than you, and if you love me you'll stop what you're doing!"

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Errr... maybe you've been seeing videos featuring Hawke with an aggressive personality, who is quite blunt with his/her opinion of Merrill's activities. With the snarky and diplomatic personalities, it's more genuine concern. I.E. Please stop playing with fire, I don't want you to get burned.

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The Ethereal Writer Redux wrote...

By that logic, Anders isn't a typical abomination either. Or Wynne. Or the Baroness. Or Connor.
Granted, Wynne and maybe Anders need a new name because "abomination" has a very negative connotation, as it implies they're meatball flesh sack wearing drunkards.


I am not sure what Wynne and Anders are considered. (Not by the fans, but by the writers). The baroness is much like most magisters, full on demon, nothing human left. Conner wasn’t physically possessed; the desire demon controlled him from the fade and in dreams from what I remember. . Did they ever explain Conner? What do these people have to do with what the keeper did anyhow?

There's also the fact that the clan hates the Eluvians just as much as she does, so any research she did into them would have to be done by herself and in secret, which might be hard for her to do.


Yes, sneaking into the Keepers room to take sneak peaks at the books isn't very productive I'm sure. The clan has good reason to hate those blasted mirrors.

and the elven agreement was between Merrill and Marethari. They are the only two people there who know anything about it. Making a deal with Hawke, who knows nothing about elven ways, makes no sense.
Merrill is the primary person there making the agreement with Hawke and company as little more than witnesses.


Well maybe you play diplomatic all the time. My Hawke's have been trolling everyone and my last two asked the Keeper to explain things plainly which she did and she looked straight at Hawke asking him/her to kill the bug and then Hawke would be rewarded with the tool. When someone looks you in the eye and they say these things you tend to think that is who they are speaking to. But whatever.

We are OT for this thread if you would like to continue pm. Posted Image

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...Where is this rivalry= Hawke being a meanie head attitude from?

It makes me wonder if people saying that have even played the rivalrymance.

Meanieheads often don't realize that they are meanieheads.

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FieryDove wrote...
Well maybe you play diplomatic all the time. My Hawke's have been trolling everyone and my last two asked the Keeper to explain things plainly which she did and she looked straight at Hawke asking him/her to kill the bug and then Hawke would be rewarded with the tool. When someone looks you in the eye and they say these things you tend to think that is who they are speaking to. But whatever.


It doesn't matter...the nature of the agreement is that the tool belongs to all the Dalish in the clan and will be given to the one that invokes the ritual and completes a deed.  Merrill is the Dalish clan member who invoked the ritual...it's rightfully hers upon completion of the task.

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Next time I play through DA2, I'll begrudgingly play through a rival romance and see for myself what it's like without an aggressive personality. Then I'll judge which I prefer.

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Filament wrote...

Who's to say Audacity couldn't have done the very same with Merrill's pride? "Those other mages are sloppy and get possessed, but I know the risks, I can handle it."


Remember Wryme? He did the same thing to her and she knew something was wrong, but she was forced to believe it like Wryme was tugging at her heart.

She would've known if Audacity was doing something similar.

She first met Audacity before she met Wryme... and her meeting with Wryme doesn't really help her "super good at resisting demons" credibility. At all. Yeah, she would have known... because people never ever make a mistake, swear never to do it again, and then do it again. There is no basis to assume it did not or wouldn't have continued to get the better of her.

I had a counterpoint to this, but I forgot what it was because I'm really tired =/

Considering what little we know about the Eluvian, I don't think there's much of a counterpoint to be made aside from counter-speculation. Regardless this is just one way among many others that he might have tricked her.

Or does it?

Anyway, my point is that Morrigan has so many things to do in a very short amount of time, and given how Witch Hunt doesn't go into depth about her hunt for the Eluvians, it's possible she was rushing through it more than Merrill was.

Merrill probably carefully studied each piece of lore for who knows how long to make sure she was understanding it correctly and extrapolating the right things. I've had similar things happen.

This is all really irrelevant because I (or you) don't know how careful Morrigan was being, though I find it likely she's a lot more wise than Merrill in this regard. But I do feel Merrill was eschewing caution to a great extent, to a much greater extent than would allow your "all knowledge is equally dangerous to study" claim to be valid. If she was so careful in studying one of her primary sources of information wouldn't have been "a demon." Blindfolding oneself to this risk I think is a bit naive and does less of a service to Merrill as a 'friend' (well, rival according to the system) than pointing it out.

To say pointing it out on the rivalry path is emotional abuse, no, just because you don't support someone's self destructive behavior doesn't make it abuse. There's a difference between not censoring your own opinions about someone's behavior while trying to help (evident by rival Hawke still going along with her to meet the demon in Act III), and going out of your way to belittle someone when you don't really care about helping at all, you only want to be right. I consider rival Hawke to be the former, and I see that as better than him censoring himself even if he really does feel differently just for the sake of supporting her.

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jlb524 wrote...

It doesn't matter...the nature of the agreement is that the tool belongs to all the Dalish in the clan and will be given to the one that invokes the ritual and completes a deed.  Merrill is the Dalish clan member who invoked the ritual...it's rightfully hers upon completion of the task.


At the time of this quest she had not been a clan member for years and they won't take her back

I must leave thread...I don't want to get it locked for OTness.

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FieryDove wrote...

At the time of this quest she had not been a clan member for years and they won't take her back


Marethari explicitly states that Merrill's still considered a clan member as far as the rite goes.

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I must leave thread...I don't want to get it locked for OTness.


I'm not sure why this is OT as it pertains to Merrill's two romance paths.

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Filament wrote...
This is all really irrelevant because I (or you) don't know how careful Morrigan was being, though I find it likely she's a lot more wise than Merrill in this regard.


For all we know Morrigan could have consulted a demon as well.   I also disagree about Morrigan being more wise.

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But I do feel Merrill was eschewing caution to a great extent, to a much greater extent than would allow your "all knowledge is equally dangerous to study" claim to be valid. If she was so careful in studying one of her primary sources of information wouldn't have been "a demon." Blindfolding oneself to this risk I think is a bit naive and does less of a service to Merrill as a 'friend' (well, rival according to the system) than pointing it out.


Merrill spent the vast majority of those seven years studying other sources besides the demon.  Before the last trip to Sundermount, Merrill went to the demon once to gain knowledge from it (blood magic).  It's like you're saying because she used the demon once (and eventually wanted to go for a second time) that her entire project is careless.

Considering the minute amount of Dalish lore thats present in Thedas in current times, I'm sure Merrill exhausted all other sources of knowledge before finally getting desperate enough to go back to the demon.

Modifié par jlb524, 01 septembre 2011 - 06:28 .


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Just because Merrill went off with Hawke =/= no longer a clan member.
She chose to leave, they didn't exile her.

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Filament wrote...

She first met Audacity before she met Wryme... and her meeting with Wryme doesn't really help her "super good at resisting demons" credibility. At all. Yeah, she would have known... because people never ever make a mistake, swear never to do it again, and then do it again. There is no basis to assume it did not or wouldn't have continued to get the better of her.


Are you talking about Feynriel's quest in the Fade? You mean the quest that railroads characters into comitting murder in the span of a few seconds? I never take "Night Terrors" seriously because of that.

Filament wrote...

Considering what little we know about the Eluvian, I don't think there's much of a counterpoint to be made aside from counter-speculation. Regardless this is just one way among many others that he might have tricked her.


Gaider addressed Merrill studied lore about the Eluvian and extrapolated information from the shard she took in Ferelden. Merrill seems to be the most informed about the Eluvian in Dragon Age 2.

Filament wrote...

This is all really irrelevant because I (or you) don't know how careful Morrigan was being, though I find it likely she's a lot more wise than Merrill in this regard. But I do feel Merrill was eschewing caution to a great extent, to a much greater extent than would allow your "all knowledge is equally dangerous to study" claim to be valid. If she was so careful in studying one of her primary sources of information wouldn't have been "a demon." Blindfolding oneself to this risk I think is a bit naive and does less of a service to Merrill as a 'friend' (well, rival according to the system) than pointing it out.


Merrill isn't naive about magic - she is informed enough to tell what type of demon the Profane Abomination is, she is able to tell whether Keran is possessed or not, she is using magic and blood magic for several years without incident, and she is careful enough to request Hawke to kill her if something goes wrong (which is more than Marethari does in letting a demon loose without warning anyone until it's too late).

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To say pointing it out on the rivalry path is emotional abuse, no, just because you don't support someone's self destructive behavior doesn't make it abuse. There's a difference between not censoring your own opinions about someone's behavior while trying to help (evident by rival Hawke still going along with her to meet the demon in Act III), and going out of your way to belittle someone when you don't really care about helping at all, you only want to be right. I consider rival Hawke to be the former, and I see that as better than him censoring himself even if he really does feel differently just for the sake of supporting her.


I don't view Merrill trying to help her people as self-destructive, especially when the technology can possibly improve and irreovcably change the lives of the elves across Thedas forever. While there are risks, the same is true for the expedition into the Deep Roads, and Hawke has no problem getting assistance from others so his family can benefit from it. Merrill is being proactive in trying to help the People, which is something I wish the reactive and passive Hawke would have emulated.

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For all we know Morrigan could have consulted a demon as well.   I also disagree about Morrigan being more wise.

Well, I doubt it and disagree with your disagreement. :P

Merrill spent the vast majority of those seven years studying other sources besides the demon.  Before the last trip to Sundermount, Merrill went to the demon once to gain knowledge from it (blood magic).  It's like you're saying because she used the demon once (and eventually wanted to go for a second time) that her entire project is careless.

Considering the minute amount of Dalish lore thats present in Thedas in current times, I'm sure Merrill exhausted all other sources of knowledge before finally getting desperate enough to go back to the demon.

..Yes? It's a demon. A very powerful pride demon, at that. (and not the only one she succumbed to)

If she did really spend all those years studying other sources (I doubt she had any, I'd think a better way would be to seek out the other Dalish clans to see if they have any lore... not sit in Kirkwall for 10 years), none of that got any results. Only going to the demon got "results." Which I suspect were results twisted in the demon's favor. But regardless, even if they weren't, yes it would have been safer to continue to seek out other routes, or not try at all if the only route available was from the knowledge of such a creature.

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Are you talking about Feynriel's quest in the Fade? You mean the quest that railroads characters into comitting murder in the span of a few seconds? I never take "Night Terrors" seriously because of that.

It happened. At least the other character have the excuse of not being instructed on how to resist the call of demons, since it's not something they're supposed to have to worry about.

Gaider addressed Merrill studied lore about the Eluvian and extrapolated information from the shard she took in Ferelden. Merrill seems to be the most informed about the Eluvian in Dragon Age 2.

And how much of that lore came from Audacity? How much might he have filled in the blanks and told her what she wanted to hear and wrapped her around his finger like Wryme did?

Merrill isn't naive about magic - she is informed enough to tell what type of demon the Profane Abomination is, she is able to tell whether Keran is possessed or not, she is using magic and blood magic for several years without incident, and she is careful enough to request Hawke to kill her if something goes wrong (which is more than Marethari does in letting a demon loose without warning anyone until it's too late).

Naive enough to trust a demon as a source of information and get tricked into betraying her friend by another demon.

I don't view Merrill trying to help her people as self-destructive, especially when the technology can possibly improve and irreovcably change the lives of the elves across Thedas forever. While there are risks, the same is true for the expedition into the Deep Roads, and Hawke has no problem getting assistance from others so his family can benefit from it. Merrill is being proactive in trying to help the People, which is something I wish the reactive and passive Hawke would have emulated.

I don't think studying the Eluvian is a dangerous goal in itself. I think the way she's doing it is dangerous. Clearly.

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Filament wrote...
Well, I doubt it and disagree with your disagreement. :P


You can doubt it but we will never know.  Can you say Morrigan didn't take any risks (even not involving demons) and was in control of everything?  It's possible she didn't even know if the eluvian she activated would work properly but took the risk considering Flemeth wanted to play body snatcher with her.  I just don't see Morrigan as a perfect example of wisdom and caution, considering she still followed through with Flemeth's DR plans after learning her dear old mother wanted to possess her.

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..Yes? It's a demon. A very powerful pride demon, at that. (and not the only one she succumbed to)

If she did really spend all those years studying other sources (I doubt she had any, I'd think a better way would be to seek out the other Dalish clans to see if they have any lore... not sit in Kirkwall for 10 years), none of that got any results. Only going to the demon got "results." Which I suspect were results twisted in the demon's favor. But regardless, even if they weren't, yes it would have been safer to continue to seek out other routes, or not try at all if the only route available was from the knowledge of such a creature.


I think Gaider said she did seek out knowledge to help her rebuild the eluvian from scratch (and we don't know what happened during time gaps).  The 'results' don't matter as we are debating Merrill's approach not what worked and didn't worked.  I'm sure Merrill knew that the demon was the easiest route to take but still spent the vast majority of time studying the thing without its aid and decided to seek it out for the second time out of desperation.

You 'doubt' this too b/c it doesn't fit your view of Merrill as a careless/reckless I suppose.

I think that the only realistic way to gain the most knowledge about ancient elven artifacts such as these is from a Fade spirit since the majority of written elven knowledge was destroyed.  There's still some stuff available but it probably won't give you the full picture.  Is it dangerous to seek knowledge from spirits?  Yes.  Is it impossible to successfully gain some knowledge from them without turning into an abomination or having other horrible things happen?  No.    The question is, is it worth the risk?  Merrill thinks it is for the sake of her people.  I can't see how you can say she's careless though since she's aware of the risks involved and takes precautions.

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I think Gaider said she did seek out knowledge to help her rebuild the eluvian from scratch (and we don't know what happened during time gaps).  The 'results' don't matter as we are debating Merrill's approach not what worked and didn't worked.  I'm sure Merrill knew that the demon was the easiest route to take but still spent the vast majority of time studying the thing without its aid and decided to seek it out for the second time out of desperation.

You 'doubt' this too b/c it doesn't fit your view of Merrill as a careless/reckless I suppose.

Your surety is hardly any more credible than my doubt here. And if you were right that still wouldn't change the crux of my point (why I just added it in parentheses)... even if she did exhaust every resource, ultimately she had to rely on a demon... and chose to do so. Yes, that's reckless.

I think that the only realistic way to gain the most knowledge about ancient elven artifacts such as these is from a Fade spirit since the majority of written elven knowledge was destroyed.  There's still some stuff available but it probably won't give you the full picture.  Is it dangerous to seek knowledge from spirits?  Yes.  Is it impossible to successfully gain some knowledge from them without turning into an abomination or having other horrible things happen?  No.    The question is, is it worth the risk?  Merrill thinks it is for the sake of her people.  I can't see how you can say she's careless though since she's aware of the risks involved and takes precautions.

But you can't then turn around and say she's beyond criticism for doing what you just said is a big risk, both to her and her companions seeing as how her precaution is to bring Hawke along.

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Filament wrote...
Your surety is hardly any more credible than my doubt here. And if you were right that still wouldn't change the crux of my point (why I just added it in parentheses)... even if she did exhaust every resource, ultimately she had to rely on a demon... and chose to do so. Yes, that's reckless.


It is not reckless if one cares about the consequences and takes precaution (by definition of the word)

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But you can't then turn around and say she's beyond criticism for doing what you just said is a big risk, both to her and her companions seeing as how her precaution is to bring Hawke along.


She's not necessarily beyond criticism.  I always friend her but I don't think she's perfect nor do I think she handled everything as good as she should have (in retrospect). Also, Hawke takes risks all the time and places companions in danger...so do the other companions.    Hell, living in Kirkwall is a huge risk XD

What I don't like about the discourse on this subject is that it seems most 'rival' peeps want to frame Merrill as stupid, reckless, irresponsible, immature, careless, etc. and treat her like she's a child that doesn't have a clue what she's doing so the friend/rival thing comes down to a question of 'Do I save Merrill from her own foolishness and try to protect her from herself like a parent or do I have faith in her that everything will be 'kay?'

I think it should be framed differently.

We know that the elves lost the vast majority of their knowledge when humans (Tevinter/Andrastian) destroyed it.  We know the Dalish in particular have dedicated themselves to restoring this knowledge whenever possible.  I think we can assume it's quite rare to find any artifact, especially something as interesting as a communication/portal mirror.   We know elves don't have access the same resources that humans do, given their marginalization from society.

Considering this, Merrill thinks taking risks are worth restoring a lost piece of elven culture.  This doesn't mean she goes about it recklessly or carelessly because I don't think that dealing with a demon/spirit has a 100% failure rate.  If it did, than you would be correct that dealing with one is foolish. 

So I think the question of 'friend or rival' should come down to: "Do you agree with Merrill that the risk is worth it or not?"  A 'friend' says, 'yes' and agrees to support her and help her lower the risks involved.  Friend!Hawke isn't necessarily blind to the risks but thinks it's a worthwhile/noble goal.  A 'rival' doesn't agree it's worth it, possibly thinking Merrill should focus on the here and now and not the past (especially considering that those closest to her, her own clan, won't appreciate it).

I feel this takes the focus/value judgement off of Merrill and her behavior and places it on the end goal.

Modifié par jlb524, 01 septembre 2011 - 09:29 .


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My thing about the Rival path that I like is the argument is really about watching the person they love be willing to sacrifice themselves to save people who don't even want the help to begin with. It's the self-destruction that it's about. This is portrayed in the subject as the dealing with demons really and not blood magic in and of it'self. Hawke brings up the demons more than once. But I'm also a sarcastic/diplomatic hawke every time.

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If Merrill studied lore about the Eluvian, she didn't get it from Audacity. You can't claim she got all or most of her knowledge about the Eluvians from Audacity when the Head Writer states that she studied lore about the Eluvian. If Merrill got most or all of her knowledge about the Eluvian from Audacity, he would have indicated so, Filament.

So far, we have Merrill studying lore and obtaining information from the shard, so she is the most informed person in the storyline when it comes to the Eluvian.

As for her methods, Merrill was being proactive, and she was accomplishing something unprecedented. I don't see what was naive about her actions when she clearly became informed about the issue through study and hard work.

Regarding "Night Terrors," I don't take the plot railroad seriously. People don't commit murder based on a few seconds of dialogue, and it's never explained why Hawke is immune to this. It's asinine.

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So I think the question of 'friend or rival' should come down to: "Do you agree with Merrill that the risk is worth it or not?"  A 'friend' says, 'yes' and agrees to support her and help her lower the risks involved.  Friend!Hawke isn't necessarily blind to the risks but thinks it's a worthwhile/noble goal.  A 'rival' doesn't agree it's worth it, possibly thinking Merrill should focus on the here and now and not the past (especially considering that those closest to her, her own clan, won't appreciate it).

I feel this takes the focus/value judgement off of Merrill and her behavior and places it on the end goal.


I think that's fair.

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jlb524 wrote...

So I think the question of 'friend or rival' should come down to: "Do you agree with Merrill that the risk is worth it or not?"  A 'friend' says, 'yes' and agrees to support her and help her lower the risks involved.


I think a Friend can also say "I'm not convinced, but it's her choice"

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all i know is that in both paths u kill her clan i know i did at least i bet everyone here did too
Mahariel is gonna be pissed when he finds out......

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But what will Mahariel be pissed about? I think that depends on how the Warden is played by the player. Were I playing a Dalish, Mahariel would be upset with her clan for opposing Merrill's idea, which was actually doing what the Dalish claim to do.

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But what will Mahariel be pissed about? I think that depends on how the Warden is played by the player. Were I playing a Dalish, Mahariel would be upset with her clan for opposing Merrill's idea, which was actually doing what the Dalish claim to do.

 Merrill killed her and Mahariel's family thats why he would be pissed

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Matt2222 wrote...

dragonflight288 wrote...

But what will Mahariel be pissed about? I think that depends on how the Warden is played by the player. Were I playing a Dalish, Mahariel would be upset with her clan for opposing Merrill's idea, which was actually doing what the Dalish claim to do.

 Merrill killed her and Mahariel's family thats why he would be pissed


but u do make a valid point