Filament wrote...
Your surety is hardly any more credible than my doubt here. And if you were right that still wouldn't change the crux of my point (why I just added it in parentheses)... even if she did exhaust every resource, ultimately she had to rely on a demon... and chose to do so. Yes, that's reckless.
It is not reckless if one cares about the consequences and takes precaution (by definition of the word)
Filament wrote...
But you can't then turn around and say she's beyond criticism for doing what you just said is a big risk, both to her and her companions seeing as how her precaution is to bring Hawke along.
She's not necessarily beyond criticism. I always friend her but I don't think she's perfect nor do I think she handled everything as good as she should have (in retrospect). Also, Hawke takes risks all the time and places companions in danger...so do the other companions. Hell, living in Kirkwall is a huge risk XD
What I don't like about the discourse on this subject is that it seems most 'rival' peeps want to frame Merrill as stupid, reckless, irresponsible, immature, careless, etc. and treat her like she's a child that doesn't have a clue what she's doing so the friend/rival thing comes down to a question of 'Do I save Merrill from her own foolishness and try to protect her from herself like a parent or do I have faith in her that everything will be 'kay?'
I think it should be framed differently.
We know that the elves lost the vast majority of their knowledge when humans (Tevinter/Andrastian) destroyed it. We know the Dalish in particular have dedicated themselves to restoring this knowledge whenever possible. I think we can assume it's quite rare to find any artifact, especially something as interesting as a communication/portal mirror. We know elves don't have access the same resources that humans do, given their marginalization from society.
Considering this, Merrill thinks taking risks are worth restoring a lost piece of elven culture. This doesn't mean she goes about it recklessly or carelessly because I don't think that dealing with a demon/spirit has a 100% failure rate. If it did, than you would be correct that dealing with one is foolish.
So I think the question of 'friend or rival' should come down to: "Do you agree with Merrill that the risk is worth it or not?" A 'friend' says, 'yes' and agrees to support her and help her lower the risks involved. Friend!Hawke isn't necessarily blind to the risks but thinks it's a worthwhile/noble goal. A 'rival' doesn't agree it's worth it, possibly thinking Merrill should focus on the here and now and not the past (especially considering that those closest to her, her own clan, won't appreciate it).
I feel this takes the focus/value judgement off of Merrill and her behavior and places it on the end goal.
Modifié par jlb524, 01 septembre 2011 - 09:29 .