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[jamesp81]

DuckSoup wrote...

Gterror wrote...

Andarthiel_Demigod wrote...

I'm not with the "haters" but  I cannot stand those who are obsessed with their significant other and go on and on about how much they love them and how gorgeous they are. Like with anything sweet, it's enough to make you vomit in large quantities.Yea, I'm not much of a fan of Romance books/movies

Yeah same here, i rather read survival guidebooks from former S.A.S troopers(the best one ive read is Collins Gem S.A.S  Survival Guide, but there are several other books from that regiment, which teaches you to how to survive in the wilds),atleast they teach you something in life.

What do they teach you, exactly? How to skin an animal? The best way to start a fire or use a knife? Sounds like the 'How to be a successful Chav'  handbook to me. 

Side note: Not many people venture off 'into the wilds' so would have little need for such a thing. Instead they spend their time interacting with other people and would therefore be better suited to learning how to have respect and moral decency towards them. You know; things that people find attractive.

Admittedly not everyone is looking for love, but I'd bet there are more who would rather be in a relationship than starting fires in a wood. Alone. 

I don't mean to put too fine a point on this, but I find that people do not find attractive the things they say they do.

Most women have told me they are attracted to men of good character and good humor.  They're saying this at the same time as their piece of crap for a boyfriend is beating her or mooching off her.

Women seem to want one of two things: 1) a bad-boy who is exciting or 2) a man with a lot of money and/or power.  I've yet to encounter otherwise in person and seeing how I got neither, well, you can do that calculation easily enough.

[Warheadz]

World doesn't need love. The World needs to get it's **** straight.

[Gterror]

Warheadz wrote...

World doesn't need love. The World needs to get it's **** straight.

This is THE most accurate and well written post ive seen in this thread.Especially the second sentence.Period.

Modifié par Gterror, 23 août 2011 - 05:36 .

[Ritara]

About 3
years ago I found true love. I was always hoping it would happen to me and it
did.We understood each other, cared, communicated, loved each other, it
was….beautiful. He was a biker and 4 years older than me. One day my phone rang
and I found out he died in an accident. I was devastated,I went and got a bike
myself to keep him alive with me in a way. Years past and I am ok and happy now,I
kept the bike to give me strength when I feel bad, it is part of me now. I am
used to be single and I don’t mind, I guess that will change someday(well I
like to think so), but I have the love from my friends(some of them are special
to me here in BSN as well) and family.

 So my strongest belief in my life is that:
There is not a more beautiful thing in life than love.Love is everywhere,here
in BSN where I see some very happy couples and they warm my heart, in everyday
life, in our family’s faces, in our friend’s actions, in the world itself. Love
makes the world go around and human beings be human. I can’t think of a most
beautiful thing than the image of a couple grow old together, have children,
grandchildren, know each other day by day, comfort each other, enjoy the happy
moments together, face the difficulties together, stand one another always.

Thank you
for this thread @Ducksoup.I really do.

Oh and also
I know I have said this before but there are some really great people here in
BSN and I am glad I have met them-you all. Cheers.

[Volus Warlord]

jamesp81 wrote...

I don't mean to put too fine a point on this, but I find that people do not find attractive the things they say they do.

Most women have told me they are attracted to men of good character and good humor.  They're saying this at the same time as their piece of crap for a boyfriend is beating her or mooching off her.

Women seem to want one of two things: 1) a bad-boy who is exciting or 2) a man with a lot of money and/or power.  I've yet to encounter otherwise in person and seeing how I got neither, well, you can do that calculation easily enough.

According to my calculations, there is approximately a 647% disparity between what people say they want and what they demand through the way they act. Regardless of race, age, religion, gender, or orientation!

[jamesp81]

Volus Warlord wrote...

jamesp81 wrote...

I don't mean to put too fine a point on this, but I find that people do not find attractive the things they say they do.

Most women have told me they are attracted to men of good character and good humor.  They're saying this at the same time as their piece of crap for a boyfriend is beating her or mooching off her.

Women seem to want one of two things: 1) a bad-boy who is exciting or 2) a man with a lot of money and/or power.  I've yet to encounter otherwise in person and seeing how I got neither, well, you can do that calculation easily enough.

According to my calculations, there is approximately a 647% disparity between what people say they want and what they demand through the way they act. Regardless of race, age, religion, gender, or orientation!

Oh.

I thought the answer was supposed to be 42

[Gterror]

DuckSoup wrote...

Warheadz wrote...

World doesn't need love. The World needs to get it's **** straight.

The world's sh*t isn't straight because there isn't any love or respect anymore, herp derp. 

The World will never get it **** straight, because of human nature.
Actually never mind this philosophical debate is not the point of this thread, its about love or am i wrong?

Modifié par Gterror, 23 août 2011 - 06:28 .

[Ulous]

DuckSoup wrote...


The world's sh*t isn't straight because there isn't any love or respect anymore, herp derp. 

I'd say it's more to do with what people love and respect, many people only love & respect themselves, money, fame & power (to name a few), but how can you blame them when most people are spoonfed it from an early age.

Modifié par Ulous, 23 août 2011 - 06:39 .

[GreedIgnored]

DuckSoup wrote...

Gterror wrote...

Warheadz wrote...

World doesn't need love. The World needs to get it's **** straight.

This is THE most accurate and well written post ive seen in this thread.Especially the second sentence.Period.

No no, it's actually the most inaccurate post in the thread. If you actually think about it. 

 

Agreed. 

[jamesp81]

DuckSoup wrote...

Gterror wrote...

The World will never get it **** straight, because of human nature

And because people like yourselves act like love is a BAD thing.

It's a wonderful thing.  Despite my jaded outlook, it really is a wonderful thing.

[jamesp81]

DuckSoup wrote...

jamesp81 wrote...

DuckSoup wrote...

Gterror wrote...

Andarthiel_Demigod wrote...

I'm not with the "haters" but  I cannot stand those who are obsessed with their significant other and go on and on about how much they love them and how gorgeous they are. Like with anything sweet, it's enough to make you vomit in large quantities.Yea, I'm not much of a fan of Romance books/movies

Yeah same here, i rather read survival guidebooks from former S.A.S troopers(the best one ive read is Collins Gem S.A.S  Survival Guide, but there are several other books from that regiment, which teaches you to how to survive in the wilds),atleast they teach you something in life.

What do they teach you, exactly? How to skin an animal? The best way to start a fire or use a knife? Sounds like the 'How to be a successful Chav'  handbook to me. 

Side note: Not many people venture off 'into the wilds' so would have little need for such a thing. Instead they spend their time interacting with other people and would therefore be better suited to learning how to have respect and moral decency towards them. You know; things that people find attractive.

Admittedly not everyone is looking for love, but I'd bet there are more who would rather be in a relationship than starting fires in a wood. Alone. 

I don't mean to put too fine a point on this, but I find that people do not find attractive the things they say they do.

Most women have told me they are attracted to men of good character and good humor.  They're saying this at the same time as their piece of crap for a boyfriend is beating her or mooching off her.

Women seem to want one of two things: 1) a bad-boy who is exciting or 2) a man with a lot of money and/or power.  I've yet to encounter otherwise in person and seeing how I got neither, well, you can do that calculation easily enough.

1) I'm a woman and I want neither of those things from a man. You're clearly mixing with the wrong sorts of women. 

2) Not all women stand by their man when he is beating her. Some are strong enough to leave after the first "mistake". However some do stay. This has a lot to do with their state of mind. Women who stay with men like that are doing so because they are being manipulated and controlled by someone they love and trust. This could be because they have nobody else in the world who cares for them or, more accurately, they think they don't. It could be because they rely on the husband to provide. It could be because they have kids with that man and fear breaking up the family. Even successful and intelligent business women have been known to stay and defend their partner who mistreats them. It's more about attachment issues (probably stemming from some kind of childhood trauma) than 'wanting a bad boy'

I know I must have come off as jaded and cynical, and maybe even angry.  The first two are probably correct, but the angry part isn't.  Don't get the idea that I take it out on everyone else.  I don't.  I get unhappy if I even so much as inconvenience someone, much less say something to upset them.

As for mixing with the wrong ladies, the truth is I stopped mixing with ladies in any real capacity almost before I got started.  It's just too much.  I've been kicked too many times already and I'm just really damn tired, that's all.

I am happy you have found what you're looking for:)

Modifié par jamesp81, 23 août 2011 - 06:38 .

[Gterror]

DuckSoup wrote...

Gterror wrote...

DuckSoup wrote...

Warheadz wrote...

World doesn't need love. The World needs to get it's **** straight.

The world's sh*t isn't straight because there isn't any love or respect anymore, herp derp. 

The World will never get it **** straight, because of human nature

And because people like yourselves act like love is a BAD thing.

Have i ever said that love is a bad thing? Maybe it is when my father was always  used to be drunk and  beated and treated me like crap when i was young and my mother was always scared of him.But in all i think love is a good thing not a bad thing, a feeling which makes us feel like we are in a top of the world(as some ppl describe) but for me its questionable. 

[Ulous]

DuckSoup wrote...

@Ulous: You quoted that wrong, by the way. I didn't say that dumb sh*t.

Oops sorry, my bad. (fixed now)

[jamesp81]

DuckSoup wrote...

@James: Thank you. I appreciate it.

Before I met my current partner, I went to hell and back. I was in love with some really dodgy characters - one who cheated on me when we were engaged and sent me into a spiral of depression and drug addiction; one who slept with me and then dumped me the next day; one that raped me... I could go on. But, despite all this, I kept trying because I knew (however sentimental and tacky some people may feel this is) that there was someone out there for me. Maybe it won't work out, I'm not completely delusional, but I really would rather experience the happiness with someone than not dare try anything at all and sit around feeling bitter. Besides, everything bad that has happened to me has made me a much stronger person. How could I regret it?

I wish you luck.

You are more resilient than I am, I think.

Modifié par jamesp81, 23 août 2011 - 07:09 .

[ReallyRue]

I agree it needs more love. I don't think it's any more loveless now than it ever was though. It just seems to be human nature to mistrust and mistreat each other.