LolaLei wrote...
I've been thinking about that Tumblr entry Gaider made regarding the romances. I can't help but think that maybe he was giving us some hints about the way one or two of the relationships will play out this time.
So here are my two questions:
1) Based on what we know for sure about Cullen, his past and the way he's reacted to relationships/sex/prostitutes/etc, if it turns out that Cullen is already married or in a relationship, would you feel like it was out of character/jarring? AND if you were able to flirt with him, do you think he'd be the type of man to leave his current relationship for your protagonist, even if he was unhappy with his current partner? If he did leave his partner for the protagonist, would you consider that to be unlike him?
2) If Cullen is unable/unsure how to relate to the possibility of a romance,(based on what we know about him) do you feel that he'd be able to eventually overcome his fears/issues and subsequently strike up a romance with the protagonist? Or do you think he'd be unable/unwilling to ever strike up a relationship beyond telling you that he likes/loves you (if at all).
Interesting questions -
1 - I know that Templars can marry in certain situations. For Cullen, I get the feeling that he wouldn't be married by the time DA3 comes out as I feel he would put duty first, so will be resolutely single. If he turned out to be married (I wouldn't put it past Bioware), I think he would be committed to his wife and I don't think he would leave her (no matter how amazing/gorgeous/handsome the protagonist is) because it would be breaking vows made in the Chantry (I'm guessing that all marriages are conducted in the Chantry). He seems to take vows quite seriously. That's not to say he wouldn't be very conflicted. If he was not married, just in a relationship, then I guess if he was
really in love with the protagonist (because we know he/she will be hard to resist) then tI think he would leave his current partner (but would feel really bad about the person he left). To me, he seems like he wants to do the right thing (in the eyes of the Maker that is).
2 - I believe he could, with the right handling (so to speak). Cullen (to me) comes across as having very old fashioned views on romance. If a romance was possible, I think the protagonist would have to be understanding of his ways, be respectful of the Chantry, but overall give him time. I won't be a chaste relationship (like Sebastian), but I think for him to give himself to someone the relationship would have to be very serious (so no flirting with other companions). He's human - wants to love and be loved!
I shall have to check out those Anders/Cullen vids. I shall put some time aside to have a watch!