LOL ok I'll tell you guys why.
Basically, he married his wife because he felt like there was something missing in his life, something that he presumed must be companionship. Since he'd emotionally closed himself off for years after his PTSD etc (and despite realising with age that his "thing" for Amell was just a crush) he had never met any other woman of such caliber who had grabbed his attention in the same (or bigger) way.
Over the years he came to the conclusion that the notion of romance and "true love" was just fanciful fiction and presumed that he was incapable of ever finding or being truly in love. Somewhere towards the end of DA2 he decides to marry the first woman to come along that he deems suitable marriage material (at the advice of Meredith), doing so because he felt pressured into settling down. His wife is pretty in an ordinary "unremarkable" way and is your sterotypical non-offensive wall-flower/home maker type of girl who heavily relies on Cullen to be the man of the house/bread winner. Although he is fond of her, he's never been in love with her; neither he or his wife really have anything in common and she has no real passions of interests to speak of beyond Orlesian fashions and the latest scandalous gossip.
Cullen joins the protagonist in her crusade to do whatever it is we'll be doing in DA3, during which time he finds himself opening up and subsequently falling for our new protagonist because she's strong, brave, decisive, free spirited and a remarkable woman- not at all like his wife. His adventures with our protagonist 'n' co is the first time he's ever really been free from stiffling rules, duties and regulations, thus allowing him relax and be himself instead of the formal regimented "Templar Cullen" he's been for so long. That's when he realises the thing he'd been missing in his life wasn't so much companionship but the DA3 protagonist herself. (D'awwww!)
Modifié par LolaLei, 20 janvier 2013 - 08:03 .