R2s Muse wrote...
vieralynn wrote...
I know DG+co have talked about putting in more rough, edgy subtext in the romances but, to be honest, if they go that route, I'm not terribly interested.
Personally, found Fenris' anger issues such a massive turn off that I have yet to create a character who will romance him (I have YouTubed the Fenris rivalmance to see what I missed when bluntly turning Fenris down. I know fans found it really satisfying but I found his entire relationship with Hawke completely unbelievable... clearly, it is a YMMV situation).
Personally, I liked the Fenris romance, which I suppose appealed to the fixer in me. But I can see your point and if he were a real person, he's probably someone I would warn my friends not to date.
For Cullen, I really would prefer something less dark. I think he's got issues enough without adding darkness to the relationship itself, like lies, cheating or violence. I think if he were to succumb to love, I'd like to see it add something light and stable to his life.
Fenris struck the wrong note for me in many ways. It wasn't just his initial anger issues, which happen to be a big turn off for me (admittedly, I know fans who find Angry Alistair and Angry Fenris smokin' hot). It was also how the romance scenes in the rivalmance play out. I actually *love* the concept of rivalry in the way that
Jennifer Hepler describes it. Rivalry allows the PC to be better friend to someone by opposing their Big Cause for the right reasons. Of the Hawkes I've played who strongly rival Fenris, I never feel the same sense of dramatic change that I see in a romanced/friended vs rivaled/rivalmanced Anders or Merrill. I wondered if I was missing something by turning down the romance (of course, you do miss things this way) so I youtubed all of the scenes I didn't see in a Fenris rivalmance and it just left me ... sort of with the feeling of saying "bull****" to the writer like it was all magically too easy. I know, I know, bad me. And maybe I would believe it more in a Male/Male relationship, but I sort of didn't buy the gentle/loving side of Fenris juxtaposed with his angry, confused self. It felt too staged, like for TV, rather than like anything that is psychologically real. Alistair, on the other hand, felt far far far far far (

) more psychologically grounded in reality. Same for Leliana, Zev, Merril, and Anders.
I'm a very tough critic when it comes to romance subplots of any kind. That's me. It's a "problem" of mine, so to speak.

I find most handling of romance subplots in hollywood movies to set off my bull**** meter. Same for some video games and some TV series. Sadly, Fenris hit the double jackpot for me in the sense that his anger issues just happen to be a personal deal breaker (and that's just me) coupled with me not believing the rivalmance scenes at all. Really, if other people like it, that's great. I'm far too difficult to please. (which, shhhh, is actually why I'll be slightly relieved if Cullen isn't an LI in DA3 because I don't want to end up sitting through an unbelievable trainwreck that desperately makes me want to script doctor the entire thing and send it back to them.

But, for Cullen as a potential companion/LI, that man has a metric ton of angsty issues to sort through that can easily serve as giant blockers in a romance. While his backstory hasn't been made official or, perhaps, even written, he says a lfew subtle things that make it very plausible for him to have been a Chantry child. Orphan? Given away by poor parents? I mean, he considered Kinloch Hold his home, the other templars (and mages?!) were his friends, and he *really* looked up to Greagoir (this is in the male mage origin). Cullen also appears to think about what the teachings of Andraste mean rather than just blindly killing everything in sight and letting the Maker sort them out. So, if I'm reading his character the same way that the writers conceived him, the Chantry structure is the closest thing to family that Cullen has. If so, it makes sense why he initially feels friendly toward mages. Mages are part of the Chantry's family (whether the mages like it or not) and the Chantry needs to take care of mages. No doubt Cullen would get on fine with the current Divine, Justinia V. So, if the Chantry is Cullen's hometown and the Templar Order his personal home, all of it goes kablooey from 3:37-3:40. It isn't just Meredith going completely paranoid insane, but all of the other hardliner elements (Lord Seeker Lambert) who have decided that they are on a holy mission to RADICALLY CHANGE the Chantry. After all, Meredith goes over Elthina's head -- Meredith is the first we see to refuse what the Chantry has to say. As for Lambert, well, we know what he thinks of the Divine.
So, when I think of how Alistair struggled with his sense of belonging, his search for family, and what his responsibilities to his family might be, I see Cullen having a similar arc played out on a much grander scale because Order+Chantry+Circle appears to be his home and family, and now they are at each others throats in a way that is horribly dangerous for the whole world.
Like Alistair not knowing what kingship might require of him or if he even wants it, I can imagine Cullen not knowing what the Chantry and the Order might ask of him and if he would want any of it. I can also imagine him feeling very nervous about his future because he hasn't done anything beyond being in the Chantry's care. Not being able to picture his future, not knowing what side he will be expected to take, and not knowing how to handle his lyrium addiction if the Chantry/Order changes how it controls lyrium are ample reasons for him to say "I don't know how this relationship will ever work because I don't even understand how my once orderly life now works. Things are too chaotic."
Adding in other elements starts running the risk of dramalama eye rolling.
Modifié par vieralynn, 14 juin 2012 - 01:43 .