LolaLei wrote...
berelinde wrote...
Actually, there was a DG/Sheryl Chee conversation in the DA:O section not too long after the first game came out. They were really surprised about how popular Cullen proved to be. When asked about the possibility of a full-on Cullen romance for DA:O, SC got all "Er... yeah. That wouldn't end well at all." When pressed, she said that Cullen was deliberately written to be obsessive and kinda creepy, and that developments in their "relationship" were likely to be of the stalker variety ala Spike and Buffy.
Don't take this as condemnation of Cullen's character. In DA:O, he really did not have the emotional maturity to handle an intense infatuation turning into a physical relationship. This isn't something many people are willing to admit, but a great many people have "stalkerish" relationships in their past where they pursued an otherwise casual GF/BF with entirely inappropriate zeal. Most of them go on to have perfectly healthy relationships later in their lives, although they may look back on those episodes with a great deal of embarrassment. Cullen has recovered from the incident and has gained enough maturity not to place the blame for his infatuation on the Warden. He looks back on her fondly, but he has let her go.
Didn't she later retract that statement and said it was just a joke that got out of hand, when people started kicking off about it? Either way, maybe that's why they added him to DA2 and made him grow up a bit, just incase they wanna use him as a companion/LI in future games *cough* DA3 *cough.*
Dang it, I don't remember. That's the problem with my memory. I remember bits and pieces, but rarely the whole thing.
Even if she was competely serious, I wouldn't have a problem with it. It happens. For a lot of people, it's part of growing up. People do grow up, they do learn to build healthier relationships, and life goes on. If there's anyone on this planet who has reached the age of 40 without ever doing something they regret, I'd be surprised.
Maybe that is why they chronicled his emotional growth in DA2, to lessen that sense of "Ew, stalker," but I'd be disappointed if that was the only reason. Memories of past humiliation and regret make for an interesting character, in my book.
There's a banter between Isabela and Anders...
Anders: Do you ever have any regrets?
Isabela: About what?
Anders: Anything? Everything? I can't figure you out.
Isabela: The past's past. I learned that young. If it can't bring you gold or giggles, what's the point in dwelling on it?
Anders: Maybe the chance to fix a mistake? Make things right again?
Isabela: Eh. Our mistakes make us who we are.
Anders: That was almost profound.[/list]
Modifié par berelinde, 30 juin 2012 - 02:26 .