Atakuma wrote...
whykikyouwhy wrote...
Did you by chance run through the full romance with her? Or max out her friendship level? By act 3, you get a more well-rounded sense of who she is.
I did and all I got from was that she is afraid of commitment because she doesn't want to get hurt, which is a cliche right out of a bad romance novel.
The reason I like Isabela isn't because of the originality of the story (I didn't think any of the stories are particularly original), but because of the effectiveness of their implementation. Here's something I wrote a few months back explaining why I like her as a character.
Isabela's an adult. She's not clingy. She's not fixated. She's had some emotional trauma in the past so she keeps everyone emotionally at arm's length, but she doesn't let it continue to dominate her life. She doesn't continue to dwell on it. She just wants to have fun and be free, and her love for sailing the world is representative of that. She's essentially a complete, functional person. She likes sex, but she's totally confident in who she is and refuses to be shamed for it. She doesn't let other peoples' attitudes bother her, because (in her own words) "They don't know me. I know me." She knows what she wants, and goes after it.
Her romance with Hawke stems from her realizing that Hawke is someone who she can genuinely be with and enjoy, without having to worry so much about being hurt or hurting. Even more than that, her confession of love is tentative... she's not sure about it, and she's even scared of it a little. Those rare flashes of vulnerability combined with her ultraconfident normal demeanor are what do it for me.
You don't really get a full picture of Isabela from just her scenes with Hawke. The other aspects of Isabela really come through during her banters with Aveline and Merrill.
There's a several small details about how it works out, like how she never uses the word "love", and how she differentiates how she feels in her words, like when Merrill asks her in a banter during Act 3 if Isabela will leave. If she's romanced by Hawke, she will say that she will if she can convince a certain someone to come away with her, but if she isn't, then she'll say she'll leave as soon as she can get a ship. Hawke is the only person even worth a mention in this case, despite how close she is with Merrill and Varric. She won't mention Hawke by name, but she's got a banter with Merrill where she says that she's just
happy. It's subtle, but it's there if you look for it. That's what got me interested... she's got facets to her character that she doesn't readily present to the player, but are there if you spend the time to look for them. That's what turned me on to her character.
Edit:
Atakuma wrote...
I'm sorry for being so abrasive in my original post. My real issue here is that Isabela is not a strong woman in charge of her sexuality, but someone who sleeps around because she has trust issues due to a lousy parental figure. She's not a bad person, just a cliched character with little in the way of substance.
That's not it at all. She sleeps around because she
likes sex. She doesn't get emotionally involved, because she's had emotional damage. These are two completely separate aspects of her, and it's made abundantly clear over the course of the game and her interactions that she doesn't relate sex to emotions like most people. She doesn't sleep with people because she's looking for that emotional support that she's been missing all her life, she sleeps with them because it feels good, and she likes doing it.
Modifié par hoorayforicecream, 29 août 2011 - 08:09 .