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I'm an Introvert. How do I go about looking for love?

Débuté par C9316 , sept. 11 2011 04:07

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Posté 11 septembre 2011 - 04:07

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Hello, I'm C9316 (better known as just C9 to my friends), and I am an introvert. I dislike being in large groups of people chatting idly, I in fact find being in a function where tons of people are talking over one another to the point that you can't hear yourself think to be boring and draining. I am also 18 years old, and unlike most people my age I don't like going clubbing, getting drunk, and eventually brawling in the street over something dumb. No I prefer reading a good book, watching some good televison, playing video games, and more recently pondering my place in the universe. Now I know I must sound boring to some of you people here, but if we had a one on one chat I'm sure you'd appreciate my own unique personality. But back on topic I'd like to know if any of y'all had any advice you could share with me on finding love. And I guess another thing about me that differs from most 18 years olds is I don't want to date casually, I want to find someone I can be in a committed relationship with. Any helpful advice will do...

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Chromie
Posté 11 septembre 2011 - 04:08

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Surgery.

Modifié par Ringo12, 11 septembre 2011 - 04:08 .

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Ghost Lightning
Posté 11 septembre 2011 - 04:11

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Posté 11 septembre 2011 - 04:14

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Step 1: Find object of your affection. This may be based on personality, looks, or a combination thereof.
Step 2: Club said person on the head and drag back to cave.
Step 3: Wait until said person regains consciousness and initiate conversations.
Step 4: Hire good lawyer to avoid any potential lawsuits regarding clubbing referenced in Step 2.

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Posté 11 septembre 2011 - 04:14

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List of things you can do.
1: Turn bisexual. More options.
2: Dating sites.
3: Ask advice from people other than lonely nerds. >_> <_<
4: Make spaghetti. B***es love spaghetti.
5: Google it.
6: get rid of your hobo. If a lady friend wants to come over, they may be a bit disturbed by him watching the two of you from the corner. Especially if you two want to do something... Dirty...
7: Get rich, then the women will flock.

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chunkyman
Posté 11 septembre 2011 - 04:15

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 Well, you could stop using video game forums and go out and meet people.:P

But what do I know, I often go years between hugs. :unsure:

...And I've never been on a date.:(

........And I haven't had a single visitor in five years, spending months at a time alone. :crying:

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Posté 11 septembre 2011 - 04:18

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What is this, Introverts Anonymous?

I feel for you, C9316, because I'm much the same. If you do not like going to parties and such, don't go. Any girl you find there is likely to be a "party" girl and not your type.
As they always say, find some group that does what you do, whether that be a book club, or doing something like skiing, or really anything that you find interesting. If this fails you could always throw on a pair of skinny jeans and fake, thick glasses, rent a Mac laptop, grab a nice thick Lord of the Rings or Harry Potter book and hang out at your local Starbucks at the same time everyday. When the other regulars notice you, they'll be sure to welcome you with open arms.

Another thing you may want to do is change your name. Saying, "My name is C9316" is a bit of a handful. You should change it to something else, like Slater or Taylor.

Edit: Also, making your profile pic NOT look like Fluttershy is going down on Spiderman might help as well. Seriously, I've double and triple-taked when my eyes passed over that thing.

Modifié par EternalAmbiguity, 11 septembre 2011 - 04:23 .

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frustratemyself
Posté 11 septembre 2011 - 04:20

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You don't. You resort to online stalking like the rest of us social retards :o

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DarkDragon777
Posté 11 septembre 2011 - 04:22

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Yeah, I'm the same way, but I'm happy.

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chunkyman
Posté 11 septembre 2011 - 04:22

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frustratemyself wrote...

You don't. You resort to online stalking like the rest of us social retards :o


Amen brother! I may not be able to talk to girls, but I can sure stare at pictures of them on Facebook!

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SilentNukee
Posté 11 septembre 2011 - 04:23

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Dating sites, or the BSN. Seriously. 8D

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Tommyspa
Posté 11 septembre 2011 - 04:28

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You could get into polishing the footstones. Tapping the midnight still, if you will. Forging the moaning statue. Bucking the forbidden horse. Donning the velvet hat. Or even rub the foreman's elbow.

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Posté 11 septembre 2011 - 04:31

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Tommyspa wrote...

You could get into polishing the footstones. Tapping the midnight still, if you will. Forging the moaning statue. Bucking the forbidden horse. Donning the velvet hat. Or even rub the foreman's elbow.


That  sounds like a hell of a lot of work! Where am I even supposed to find a foreman?!?

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Posté 11 septembre 2011 - 04:32

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Tommyspa wrote...

You could get into polishing the footstones. Tapping the midnight still, if you will. Forging the moaning statue. Bucking the forbidden horse. Donning the velvet hat. Or even rub the foreman's elbow.


You're just making those up, Oghren.

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Posté 11 septembre 2011 - 04:35

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If you're not happy, do something about it. Go meet people, you like to read join a book club. You don't like to party join a debate team, cooking club, I dunno but go out and meet new people. You play video games then try to find people that do too in your area. Don't try to find love. Love just happens, you have no choice of when or where. And being social is a give or take, you can't just avoid people because they like to drink. Just like you don't want them to avoid you because you like to read. Long story short. Be yourself, and don't be an ass.

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Tommyspa
Posté 11 septembre 2011 - 04:36

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Yep, lot a tension around here.

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Posté 11 septembre 2011 - 04:36

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HiddenKING wrote...

If you're not happy, do something about it. Go meet people, you like to read join a book club. You don't like to party join a debate team, cooking club, I dunno but go out and meet new people. You play video games then try to find people that do too in your area. Don't try to find love. Love just happens, you have no choice of when or where. And being social is a give or take, you can't just avoid people because they like to drink. Just like you don't want them to avoid you because you like to read. Long story short. Be yourself, and don't be an ass.


But its easier to be an ass than you know do something about it!

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SilentNukee
Posté 11 septembre 2011 - 04:36

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^ I like what HK said. :3

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The Minority
Posté 11 septembre 2011 - 04:37

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Do what I do. Be awesome.

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Posté 11 septembre 2011 - 04:39

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EternalAmbiguity wrote...

Tommyspa wrote...

You could get into polishing the footstones. Tapping the midnight still, if you will. Forging the moaning statue. Bucking the forbidden horse. Donning the velvet hat. Or even rub the foreman's elbow.


You're just making those up, Oghren.

Yeah, those don't even sound real.  Where would those euphemisms come from anyway?

Nevermind, I don't want to know.

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Tommyspa
Posté 11 septembre 2011 - 04:41

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You seriously need an easy button. You can't date if your not social, not really. I think dating as an introvert would make you rather clingy to who you do get cause you may be afraid to try again, but I dunno.

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Posté 11 septembre 2011 - 04:44

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Tommyspa wrote...

You seriously need an easy button. You can't date if your not social, not really. I think dating as an introvert would make you rather clingy to who you do get cause you may be afraid to try again, but I dunno.


I'm an introvert, and I figure chances are extremely low I'll ever have a girlfriend or get married.

So OP, you're not alone.

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SilentNukee
Posté 11 septembre 2011 - 04:50

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EternalAmbiguity wrote...

Tommyspa wrote...

You seriously need an easy button. You can't date if your not social, not really. I think dating as an introvert would make you rather clingy to who you do get cause you may be afraid to try again, but I dunno.


I'm an introvert, and I figure chances are extremely low I'll ever have a girlfriend or get married.

So OP, you're not alone.


You will find that person when you least expect it. 

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chunkyman
Posté 11 septembre 2011 - 04:52

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SilentNukee wrote...

You will find that person when you least expect it. 

And not talk to them, stutter, or bore them to death. ^_^

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Posté 11 septembre 2011 - 04:55

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chunkyman wrote...

SilentNukee wrote...

You will find that person when you least expect it. 

And not talk to them, stutter, or bore them to death. ^_^


Says you <_<

You never know who may find those attributes, attractive.
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