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[Kaiser Arian XVII]

Don't turn bisexual please!
Carry on your life and go to a College/University. There is many opportunities to find your LI. It may get 2 years btw.

[mesmerizedish]

The Minority wrote...

Do what I do. Be awesome.

I was awesome before it was awesome to be awesome.

[chunkyman]

Tommy6860 wrote...

Says you <_<

You never know who may find those attributes, attractive.

Well if you know any women who like being bored to death and stuttering, introduce them to me! 

(shockingly I'm single!) 

[Tommyspa]

EternalAmbiguity wrote...

Tommyspa wrote...

You seriously need an easy button. You can't date if your not social, not really. I think dating as an introvert would make you rather clingy to who you do get cause you may be afraid to try again, but I dunno.

I'm an introvert, and I figure chances are extremely low I'll ever have a girlfriend or get married.

So OP, you're not alone.

I was an introvert when I was a teen, then I kept trying and I gained confidence and it was no longer an issue. You gotta make that mind work under social pressure, or under scorching heat of hot girlness. Or drink, it helped me, try not discussing something while drunk with people, **** is impossible, opinions must fly. Speaking with balls but not like an arse is a nice ability to invest talent points in, or be good looking, sometimes just being pretty is enough. I need +5 to my charisma stat dammit!

[Lenimph]

Get them in bed with you... and then chicken out...

[SilentNukee]

Jedi Sentinel Arian wrote...

Don't turn bisexual please!
Carry on your life and go to a College/University. There is many opportunities to find your LI. It may get 2 years btw.

You don't just "turn" bisexual...<_<

[jlb524]

Jedi Sentinel Arian wrote...
Don't turn bisexual please!

RETCON!!!!!!!!

[SilentNukee]

jlb524 wrote...

Jedi Sentinel Arian wrote...
Don't turn bisexual please!

RETCON!!!!!!!!

LOL. 

[Tommy6860]

Jedi Sentinel Arian wrote...

Don't turn bisexual please!
Carry on your life and go to a College/University. There is many opportunities to find your LI. It may get 2 years btw.

HUH? One just doesn't turn to being bisexual (or any orientation for that matter).

[Tommy6860]

jlb524 wrote...

Jedi Sentinel Arian wrote...
Don't turn bisexual please!

RETCON!!!!!!!!

Haha!

[Lenimph]

About a little more then a year ago I came out to my friends that I was a Retcon.

Modifié par Lenimph, 11 septembre 2011 - 05:10 .

[Tommy6860]

Lenimph wrote...

About a little more then a year ago I came out to my friends that I was a Retcon.

Well, in this case, retconning is a wonderful thing:wizard:

[Sleepicub09]

jlb524 wrote...

Jedi Sentinel Arian wrote...
Don't turn bisexual please!

RETCON!!!!!!!!

hahaha

[Blackout62]

Whatever you do don't rebuild your wardrobe. I did that and instead of attracting girls it gave me an enormous amount of respect from people. Also don't become smart, people are alienated by people who know things. I did it and once again, kickass levels of respect but alas no women. And don't become witty, yada, yada, yada. Basically don't become me, you'll be depressed, lonely, and introspective.

No wait, I can actually give decent advice. You know how on the internet everyone is trying to bring attention to themselves so they can be a known entity. Yeah that leads to bad things in real life, and don't do anything in real life "for the lulz" either.

Also you know how people that know you say hello when they pass by, don't just grumble or whisper your salutations, be eager to see them, wave and greet at a speaking tone, and smile. Your natural smile, not a creepy forced smile.

Off topic: Oh God my sig, the comments above me just became so much more awkward.

Modifié par Blackout62, 11 septembre 2011 - 05:40 .

[Sunnie]

Seriously... the "introvert" part is your issue. You can't meet people if you never step out of your front door. You don't have to go clubbing, or drink, or use drugs. Just get your ass out of your domicile and go to the library, or a coffee shop, or the grocery store, or a book store, or a hundred other places that other people go.

[Fidget6]

randumb vanguard wrote...

List of things you can do.
1: Turn bisexual. 
2: Make spaghetti. B***es love spaghetti.

/thread

[slimgrin]

Enroll in a university, they're like meat markets. It's your best chance of getting laid.

[Esbatty]

Well you're 18, average lifespan is 70-something. You've got time to grow out of your shell. Some people socially bloom damn early, others take much much longer. School and Work tend to be viable places to practice social interactions. I mean you pretty much have to be there to get educated/make money to live, so just use that time to try to be more comfortable around others and groups.

I know how it feels to be in a situation where you might feel super awkward after doing or saying something, and be all "I just want to curl up and die right now." (Do not attempt to curl up and die then and there at work/school, thats just more awkward, fyi).

With work/school that means pretty much everyone around you has something in common i.e. school work/activities or work tasks/events. So you already have something you can talk to people about. You just need time to become familiar with the people around you, while familiarity does breed contempt it can also forge solid acquaintances/friends and possibly even romantic involvement. But the best way to find "love" is to not focus on finding it. Just live your life, like I said before, just try interacting with others in familiar environments. You never know if someone sees something in you that you might not...

[naughty99]

C9316 wrote...

I don't want to date casually, I want to find someone I can be in a committed relationship with. Any helpful advice will do...

Even if you have some kind of burning desire for a serious relationship, you have to start somewhere. A lot of girls are just looking to have fun as well. Maybe it will develop into something deeper later, but take it one step at a time.

[frustratemyself]

Serious answer as people have said expanding your social circle will help. Even if you don't have a lot of friends you've probably got a few good ones. So if they want to drag you out for lunch, coffee etc with some people that you don't know, don't knock back the invite. You never know who you will meet.
It may not be someone you want to get romantically involved with but you might make some more friends and sometimes that's enough.

[RAF1940]

Sounds like the start of an AA meeting.

[Ulous]

Obvious joke is obvious, but thumbs up for funny OP.

[Esbatty]

Steve: My name is Steve and I'm an introvert.
Group: Hi Steve!
Steve: AHHHH! People... people everywhere!
Group: AHHHH! Why is he yelling at us? NOW WHY ARE WE YELLING?!?!
All: AHHHHHHH!