I think BIoware needs to balance out the old DA:O style elves and DAII once. The old ones were far too human looking, bearing no actual differentiation aside from slightly pointed ears and being shorter. And, though I do like a lot of the elves in DAII, some go too far extreme on the "look unique" road. My suggestions would be
-Make the ears half way between the old and the new size.
-Meet halfway in the eyeball size, some of them are FAR too big.
-Make the heads proportionate to the bodies. Its a wonder their damn necks dont break by the sheer size of their heads.
-Making them very thin is good, but their arms and legs hardly have any shape, as if they were muscleless. They should still have some curve instead of being boards with sticks for arms and legs.
-I personally like what Bioware is trying to go for in the facial features, making them somewhat cat-like, but again, sometimes its far too extreme. Refine it a bit more and it should be super.
There's my 10 cents. Take it or leave it. I personally think its worth taking