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Saphra Deden wrote...

How can you say Tali isn't into experimenting?


I agree Tali comes across as experimenting (but in a responsible way)

I'd say Liara makes sense as a second love interest because she's probably okay with cheating and sleeping around as long as you are upfront about it (at least with her).


Then its not cheating is it? Cheating requires deception and violating the mutual agreements/rules of a relationship.

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Saphra Deden wrote...

How can you say Tali isn't into experimenting?

It's less experimenting and general, and more about Shepard in particular.

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Yeah, sure, why not?

I mean, hell, if nobody's got STDs or having a baby...

Imagine Liara on Jerry Springer.


"Liara, you were in a four-way relationship with Commander Shepard, Kelly Chambers, and Garrus Vakarian. And now you're preganant... and we have the paternity test!"

"Liara, the genetic father of your child is... Doctor T'soni!"

"Liara, you cheating ****!"

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Then its not cheating is it? Cheating requires deception and violating the mutual agreements/rules of a relationship.


You might not be cheating on Liara but you'd be cheating on the other person.

Even if she did catch you cheating I imagine she would still be okay with it if you apologized for going at it behind her back... but then invited her to join.

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These things can only work in a situation as I described, I think Jealousy becomes too much of a factor for a situation where one person loves two and that love is not shared between the two objects of affection.  A tightrope walk indeed.

That just makes it fun.

Seriously, though, I'd never enter into a polyamorous relationship if it was just setting up for someone to get hurt.  Same goes for (most of) my Shepards.

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Dean_the_Young wrote...

Saphra Deden wrote...

How can you say Tali isn't into experimenting?

It's less experimenting and general, and more about Shepard in particular.


Its pretty much an example of two sides of the same thing dont you think?

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Saphra Deden wrote...

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Then its not cheating is it? Cheating requires deception and violating the mutual agreements/rules of a relationship.


You might not be cheating on Liara but you'd be cheating on the other person.

Even if she did catch you cheating I imagine she would still be okay with it if you apologized for going at it behind her back... but then invited her to join.


Not if you tell that other person up front what's going on.

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Dean_the_Young wrote...

Though if you meant the post before that, I fake-thought that it was insulting that you hadn't laughed at other posts of mine just as much.


Ah. Am a little slow on the uptake Dean, so I tend to misunderstand a lot of the intention in posts. Also, I was referring to a tv show character from the Big Bang Theory.
Anyway, to keep from going too off-topic, I agree with you on some characters like Kelly and Liara being more likely while others just simply would not fit in one with their personality conflicts. There would also be some issues with the players becoming jealous too and going back to their ME2 save and conveniently "losing" said competition.

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Random citizen wrote...

Dean_the_Young wrote...

Saphra Deden wrote...

How can you say Tali isn't into experimenting?

It's less experimenting and general, and more about Shepard in particular.


Its pretty much an example of two sides of the same thing dont you think?

Not really. There are a lot of times in life when you might be attracted to an individual, but not the group that individual is a part of. I'm not attracted to women in military uniforms, for example, but there was one time a certain lady caught my eye.

'Exception that proves the rule' more than 'broader acceptance.'

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Then its not cheating is it? Cheating requires deception and violating the mutual agreements/rules of a relationship.


You might not be cheating on Liara but you'd be cheating on the other person.

Even if she did catch you cheating I imagine she would still be okay with it if you apologized for going at it behind her back... but then invited her to join.



Its not cheating if the other person knows about Shepards relation to Liara.

I am not so sure Liara would look kindly on Shepard actually cheating on her. Its a matter of betraying trust and not  being honest. Sadly cheating is pretty common no doubt in small part because so many people are not defining the agreements of their own relationships, but uses predefined forms. If you have to repress and put a lid on feelings for others then your partner, well it might cause trouble for the relationship in one way or another. Polyamory is a collection of closly related ways or strategies that tries to affirm such emotions and channel them in different positive ways .

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PrimalEden wrote...

Dean_the_Young wrote...

Though if you meant the post before that, I fake-thought that it was insulting that you hadn't laughed at other posts of mine just as much.


Ah. Am a little slow on the uptake Dean, so I tend to misunderstand a lot of the intention in posts.

No problem. I lean towards dry humor, but that doesn't always carry well on the internet.

Anyway, to keep from going too off-topic, I agree with you on some characters like Kelly and Liara being more likely while others just simply would not fit in one with their personality conflicts. There would also be some issues with the players becoming jealous too and going back to their ME2 save and conveniently "losing" said competition.

Agreed.

The problem of any relationships-in-gaming is that they need to be structured. Two-person relationships are intrensically easy (only the player and the character, usually), but when anyone else is available it gets really hard if it isn't either really general or scripted.

In a sense, the ME1 love triangle was mostly scripted: if you didn't outright turn down Liara and/or the Human LI, they both were 'charmed.'

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Dean_the_Young wrote...

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Saphra Deden wrote...

How can you say Tali isn't into experimenting?

It's less experimenting and general, and more about Shepard in particular.


Its pretty much an example of two sides of the same thing dont you think?

Not really. There are a lot of times in life when you might be attracted to an individual, but not the group that individual is a part of. I'm not attracted to women in military uniforms, for example, but there was one time a certain lady caught my eye.

'Exception that proves the rule' more than 'broader acceptance.'


I am more talking about that you tend to voluntarily or intrinically experiment with things you enjoy. Its generally true for all types of play (intrinsicly motivated activities).

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AdmiralCheez wrote...

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These things can only work in a situation as I described, I think Jealousy becomes too much of a factor for a situation where one person loves two and that love is not shared between the two objects of affection.  A tightrope walk indeed.

That just makes it fun.

Seriously, though, I'd never enter into a polyamorous relationship if it was just setting up for someone to get hurt.  Same goes for (most of) my Shepards.


Exactly my point, I believe these kinds of relationships are doomed to failure.

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I am more talking about that you tend to voluntarily or intrinically experiment with things you enjoy. Its generally true for all types of play (intrinsicly motivated activities).

I've differing viewpoint, but that may be because I've been 'burned' by excessive experimentation in other respects.

I can see where you're coming from, and even that it could apply to a romanced Tali.

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DiebytheSword wrote...

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DiebytheSword wrote...

These things can only work in a situation as I described, I think Jealousy becomes too much of a factor for a situation where one person loves two and that love is not shared between the two objects of affection.  A tightrope walk indeed.

That just makes it fun.

Seriously, though, I'd never enter into a polyamorous relationship if it was just setting up for someone to get hurt.  Same goes for (most of) my Shepards.


Exactly my point, I believe these kinds of relationships are doomed to failure.


I have some personal experience on the subject and I can tell you that is not so doomed as it might seem.
However, it is not for all. It requires a certain mindset. You cant be overly jealous (duh).
On the other hand, monogamous relationships is not for all. For some people monogamous relaionships are much more likely to fail then polyamorous.

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Dean_the_Young wrote...

PrimalEden wrote...

Dean_the_Young wrote...

Though if you meant the post before that, I fake-thought that it was insulting that you hadn't laughed at other posts of mine just as much.


Ah. Am a little slow on the uptake Dean, so I tend to misunderstand a lot of the intention in posts.

No problem. I lean towards dry humor, but that doesn't always carry well on the internet.

Is that why we started off rather roughly? Misunderstanding?

Anyway, to keep from going too off-topic, I agree with you on some characters like Kelly and Liara being more likely while others just simply would not fit in one with their personality conflicts. There would also be some issues with the players becoming jealous too and going back to their ME2 save and conveniently "losing" said competition.

Agreed.

The problem of any relationships-in-gaming is that they need to be structured. Two-person relationships are intrensically easy (only the player and the character, usually), but when anyone else is available it gets really hard if it isn't either really general or scripted.

In a sense, the ME1 love triangle was mostly scripted: if you didn't outright turn down Liara and/or the Human LI, they both were 'charmed.'


In a way, the ME1 love triangle makes sense. Some people need an outright, flat refusal to understand there is no romantic interest. Love can give one selective hearing. But I would really like to see consequences for Shepard trying to juggle affairs with multiple people. If Femshep tried to have both Kaiden and Liara in ME1, then had Kelly, and an ME2 LI while maintaining the ME1 LI, would it be too complicated for developers to-nah, it's too silly to waste time on.

:huh:This is weird, us getting along....I swear you are the only person I have gone from utter dislike to fond admiration. I don't know if I like this...:mellow:

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In a way, the ME1 love triangle makes sense. Some people need an outright, flat refusal to understand there is no romantic interest. Love can give one selective hearing. But I would really like to see consequences for Shepard trying to juggle affairs with multiple people. If Femshep tried to have both Kaiden and Liara in ME1, then had Kelly, and an ME2 LI while maintaining the ME1 LI, would it be too complicated for developers to-nah, it's too silly to waste time on.

Tell you what.

When Japan makes a high-school anime out of Mass Effect, and then an interactive visual-novel, I'm sure they'll include the harem route.

:huh:This is weird, us getting along....I swear you are the only person I have gone from utter dislike to fond admiration. I don't know if I like this...:mellow:

I'm a pretty moral person, once you get to know me (and realize that arguing against an accusation isn't the same as justifying the subject being defended).

I'm intelligent, thoughtful, usually even tempered, try to avoid personal attacks, am willing to concede when I'm mistaken in facts or even calm logic, have an appreciation for wit, a  talent for world-building, and am capable of outlining solutions or alternatives rather than simply critizing what I don't like.

I'm also quite humble.

Modifié par Dean_the_Young, 07 décembre 2011 - 08:00 .


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The only thing that bugged me about the love triangle scene was there was no third "Uh...sorry I've been sending out mixed signals. I'm not interested in either of you." option.Especially since Liara's renedouche refusal made her bug out and Ash's romance can get started from asking about her grandfather of all things.

Modifié par Ryzaki, 07 décembre 2011 - 08:03 .


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Dean_the_Young wrote...

PrimalEden wrote...

In a way, the ME1 love triangle makes sense. Some people need an outright, flat refusal to understand there is no romantic interest. Love can give one selective hearing. But I would really like to see consequences for Shepard trying to juggle affairs with multiple people. If Femshep tried to have both Kaiden and Liara in ME1, then had Kelly, and an ME2 LI while maintaining the ME1 LI, would it be too complicated for developers to-nah, it's too silly to waste time on.

Tell you what.

When Japan makes a high-school anime out of Mass Effect, and then an interactive visual-novel, I'm sure they'll include the harem route.

:huh:This is weird, us getting along....I swear you are the only person I have gone from utter dislike to fond admiration. I don't know if I like this...:mellow:

I'm a pretty moral person, once you get to know me (and realize that arguing against an accusation isn't the same as justifying the subject being defended).

I'm intelligent, thoughtful, usually even tempered, try to avoid personal attacks, am willing to concede when I'm mistaken in facts or even calm logic, have an appreciation for wit, a  talent for world-building, and am capable of outlining solutions or alternatives rather than simply critizing what I don't like.

I'm also quite humble.


Despite getting off on the wrong foot with you, I've come to enjoy reading your posts, whether I agree with them or not.

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PrimalEden wrote...

Dean_the_Young wrote...

PrimalEden wrote...

Dean_the_Young wrote...

Though if you meant the post before that, I fake-thought that it was insulting that you hadn't laughed at other posts of mine just as much.


Ah. Am a little slow on the uptake Dean, so I tend to misunderstand a lot of the intention in posts.

No problem. I lean towards dry humor, but that doesn't always carry well on the internet.

Is that why we started off rather roughly? Misunderstanding?

Anyway, to keep from going too off-topic, I agree with you on some characters like Kelly and Liara being more likely while others just simply would not fit in one with their personality conflicts. There would also be some issues with the players becoming jealous too and going back to their ME2 save and conveniently "losing" said competition.

Agreed.

The problem of any relationships-in-gaming is that they need to be structured. Two-person relationships are intrensically easy (only the player and the character, usually), but when anyone else is available it gets really hard if it isn't either really general or scripted.

In a sense, the ME1 love triangle was mostly scripted: if you didn't outright turn down Liara and/or the Human LI, they both were 'charmed.'


In a way, the ME1 love triangle makes sense. Some people need an outright, flat refusal to understand there is no romantic interest. Love can give one selective hearing. But I would really like to see consequences for Shepard trying to juggle affairs with multiple people. If Femshep tried to have both Kaiden and Liara in ME1, then had Kelly, and an ME2 LI while maintaining the ME1 LI, would it be too complicated for developers to-nah, it's too silly to waste time on.

:huh:This is weird, us getting along....I swear you are the only person I have gone from utter dislike to fond admiration. I don't know if I like this...:mellow:


Regarding your femshep, seems like constent behaviour from Shepard there. The LIs in ME colud remark on how its no surprise to them that Shepard does not want to tie herself to one person and that the LI understand if she/he will not be the only one. This can in turn lead to rejection (unless shepard forsake all other LIs), or smaller or greater chanses to have have a poly relation to that person. In the end This particular femshep ends up with Liara and Kelly (as it might be impossible to change Kaidans mind in this).

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Bioware forbid.
Never let it be said that you don't have a developed sense of irony.

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Regarding your femshep, seems like constent behaviour from Shepard there. The LIs in ME colud remark on how its no surprise to them that Shepard does not want to tie herself to one person and that the LI understand if she/he will not be the only one. This can in turn lead to rejection (unless shepard forsake all other LIs), or smaller or greater chanses to have have a poly relation to that person. In the end This particular femshep ends up with Liara and Kelly (as it might be impossible to change Kaidans mind in this).

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Any idea how Bioware could implement that? My head is too full to follow that...

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Ryzaki wrote...

The only thing that bugged me about the love triangle scene was there was no third "Uh...sorry I've been sending out mixed signals. I'm not interested in either of you." option.Especially since Liara's renedouche refusal made her bug out and Ash's romance can get started from asking about her grandfather of all things.


That's kind of cheap.

You do make it very clear to your respective LI's that you ARE interested in them.

Having an option so simply say "I'm not interested" when confronted would be adequate only if Shepard was mentally ill, which he/she is not.

Modifié par feliciano2040, 07 décembre 2011 - 08:26 .


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DiebytheSword wrote...

Despite getting off on the wrong foot with you, I've come to enjoy reading your posts, whether I agree with them or not.

We got off on the wrong foot?

I wasn't sure about that, actually. I don't remember. But then, I'm a person who doesn't keep grudges in general. Must not have been important.

I currently have a vague feeling of positive approval towards your most recent posts that I've seen, for how you conduct yourself.


(Enough sappy. Try not to ruin it.)

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To be honest I can't imagine Shepard all the sudden becoming Duke Nukem.

Shepard all the sudden having a polyamorous relationship with two people seems a bit out of the blue, but would fix the issue of who to choose Miranda or Ashley Willams.