Then your still not understanding. Intiamcy is not just sex....It's contact with other people. It's friendships. An AY has to say away from ot because it can lead to attraction.D.Kain wrote...
dreman9999 wrote...
You not getting it.....
They stay celibate so they can focus on god.They say away from the other sex or the sex they are attracted to so being celibate is easier for them.
Being celibate and being near as sex you are attacted to is hard. Staying away from that sex makes staying celibate easier.
Staying away from intimacy if it makes you happy is good, if you have something that makes you happy. If you want a happy life and you don't have a goal in seclusion, your life will be a lot harder and worse, without the OTHER things the world and friendship can provide.
It a case of ether being in the frying pan or in the fire. Being in the open with an AY condition mean saying away from people to reduce the burden of attraction. Say in the monistary mean imprisonment but no one to burden you with attarction.
The only case that can make the burden of their condition better is isolation. Having "friends"just add people the AY can be attracted to.
As stated before, doing one thing whe your logical and level headed is on thing. Doing the same thing under the full burden of the conditon is another.




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