Akka le Vil wrote...
Honestly, the whole "it needs to be secret !" is ridiculous and felt more /facepalm than anything.
Joining the Grey Warden is already devoting your entire life fighting Darkspawn. People ready to spend their remaining years fighting some tainted monsters are unlikely to be fettered by risks of death.
*Invokes right of conscription on Akka le Vil.*
That's right, you just got inducted into the Grey Wardens! Here's your complimentary chalice of boiling darkspawn blood. Drink up!
What? You don't want to drink? Oh, too bad. *Runs Akka through.*
And if he's fettered by this, do you really want him in your ranks ? Not likely.
Ser Jory.
More seriously, the secrecy thing makes a lot of sense. Saying that you have to become like the enemy to fight them isn't going to go over well with just about anyone. Keeping it secret though... Well, they say "it's better to ask forgiveness than permission, you're more likely to get it."