jeweledleah wrote...
wizardryforever wrote...
jeweledleah wrote...
and I'm sorry, but "just don't talk to them" is not a valid solution.
And do you make a habit of rountinely talking to people you dislike in real life? More than you have to I mean? In character, why would Shepard talk to someone that he doesn't like if he/she doesn't have to? If you want to not be friends, but keep things professional, then don't take the "friendly" options. Keep a professional distance from your crew if you want to. So when you talk to Tali after doing her loyalty mission and she has a fever, take the neutral option of "I hope you feel better soon," or when talking to Miranda about her sister, tell her that you hope it all works out. These are things professional acquaintances would say to one another.
if for example those people I dislike are also the people I have to work with - you bet I talk to them. I'm just not buddies with them. I won't make any claims for others, but I want to have an option of professional sounding responses, something that curt but not necessarily - my buddy! my bro! >_> sometimes those options exist. other times? they don't.
Like I said, more than you have to. You do what you must to maintain a working relationship with such people when you must, but otherwise, do you socialize with them? That seems overly masochistic if you do.
I wanted an option not to hug Liara on some of my Shepards. or at least push her away or hell even act uncomfortable. yet my shepard is forced to hug her back. I wanted an option to move away from Shiala. yet my shepards, all of them smile at her. which is especialy fun when your LI is standing ...right...there. I wanted an option for some of my Shepards not to sound so damn happy to see Garrus... and he is one of my favorites.
There are plenty of valid reasons why Shepard would do these things even if he doesn't care for these people. What about avoiding an awkward situation by returning Liara's hug? Or smiling back at Shiala in a platonic way? And Garrus? You could just be glad it is a familiar face, instead of an unknown someone who is unhinged enough to try to change Omega. On the whole I agree with your sentiment, but these moments are pretty few in the grand scheme of things.
there's a certain sense of certain characters being buddies no matter what. Jocker, Garrus, Liara, Wrex are some of the worst ones IMO, becasue they get the cutscenes in which you have no power over how your Shepard responds. my renegade Shepard didn't save Wrex because they were best buds, she saved him becasue she needed every able gun. they were already outnumbered as it is. and yet, here he is all - Shepard my friend, and she's grinning back at him... and don't even get me started on "LIARA IS IN THERE!" it diminishes the role playing.
all we want is an option not to be forced into this
As others have said, there's no reason why said characters can't think of Shepard as a friend, even if Shepard doesn't think of them as such. One-sided friendships exist in reality as well, and you don't really have to be friends with someone to be at least a little concerned when they could be dead.
And here's the crux. "Forced." I always find it funny when people use this word in context of a persona that is not theirs, nor is it entirely their own creation. Shepard has things about his/her personality that cannot be changed, technically speaking, you're "forced" to become a Spectre, to side with Cerberus, to hunt down Saren and the Collectors, and to see the necessity of doing all of the above. And when you get right down to it, roleplaying has been and most likely always will be limited in all RPGs to date. There's rules you must follow, a storyline that needs to be followed (some games are looser than others), and all in all a reason to play the game. "Force" never enters into it, since at the end of the day, it is Bioware's story that you get to pick which branch to go down. It is a game, and like any other story, if you don't like it, don't read it or watch it or play it.
*gets down off of soap box*