Computer_God91 wrote...
So because your life sucks Mass Effect needs to have a "super happy, your the best person that ever lived, good job, you're a hero, nobody died that you liked" ending just to make you feel better? I'm sorry, but seriously nobodies life is perfect and you're not the only one to have sh!t hit the fan that you couldn't control and feel like crap over about. You need to learn to deal with those problems in your life and stop hidding behind games or whatever to make you feel better.
Nope, just no squad deaths/no same squaddie dies no matter what. It's a small victory compared to everything else and it gives me warm fuzzies to save the day with my space husbando. Or space waifu. Or space BFF.
I actually DO deal with those problems and don't "hide behind games" to avoid real life. But it's a fun escape, largely the same as booting up Halo to blow some heads off when so-and-so was an ass to you at the office. Just in the opposite direction, for an emotion other than rage.
As for gaming is supposed to be escapism I don't agree with that. I don't play games to escape my life, I play them to enjoy superior story telling (vs. Movies and books) and have a good time. Which means that a game is allowed to emotionally gut punch me from time to time and I'll be fine and dandy. Shrug it off and move on. Stories aren't always going to be happy "sunshine and flowers" if you want that go back to kiddie books because this is a war story and people die in wars. You can't handle it gtfo.
Movies and books are escapism, too. We watch and read the stories of others because it takes us out of real life for a moment on an adventure through someone else's eyes. If you value a good story because it's immersive, you like your escapism, too. Because ultimately, that's what immersion is--a measure of how much we can forget we're sitting at a desk in front of a monitor while we're enjoying the story.
Mass Effect presents a unique opportunity because it's both very immersive and I have partial control over the narrative. I want to manipulate the narrative in a way to maximize my enjoyment. Which is exactly what you want. You just enjoy different stuff.