SkittlesKat96 wrote...
Is it really that unrealistic?
If anything Bioware has pushed gender equality in their games...
I just assume that there aren't many female soldiers and fighters let alone Grey Wardens.
And really that isn't that sexist at all considering what medieval and dark age times were like...in fact like I said, they seem to push gender equality because there are lots of high up female soldiers and fighters (which is a good thing.)
I suppose though it'd be nice to see some more women Wardens though, I found it to be a bit weird not seeing any female GW's at Ostagar.
EDIT: It should also be noted that even genetically females aren't as good fighters/aren't as strong (it has to do with the chromosomes, a lot of female olympic athletes have actually been proven to have male chromosomes or something). Maybe they have a higher risk of death in the joinings and aren't found as often during recruitment.
Gender equality, as we generally know it, really has much to do with roles and wages - allowing the sexes to be regarded on an even playing field. If you can heft a weapon, you can be a soldier, not matter your gender. If you can do a day's work of good solid labor, you should be paid a fair wage based on your work, not diminished in any regard based on whether or not you are male or female.
To say Bioware is pushing anything is unfair, and I would say also inaccurate. While Thedan society as a whole is based on many of our known RL societies, from across the globe, it is not meant to be a direct parallel to anything, nor indicative of a particular time in our history - because it's a fantasy world. Different history, different peoples, etc. There are patriarchal
constraints in Thedas, sure -just look at the legend of
Aveline, Knight of Orlais. Women were not allowed to be knights/chevaliers until Aveline's valor and skill were recognized. Again, if a woman can hold her own with a sword and shield, why shouldn't she be allowed to fight for her country, beliefs, family, etc? Knighthood in the DA-verse is about many things, including martial skill, yes, but also about values. There shouldn't be a gender bias there - nothing about knighthood is a male-only concept.
Your statement of "It should also be noted that even genetically females aren't as good fighters/aren't as strong " is troubling. Chromosomal makeup alone does not dictate strength or ability. A man is not strong just because he is a man, but because he trains and builds muscles - something women can do just as well without any enhancement drugs. Strength is part muscle, part mind, and there are plenty of women who are not bulky in musculature who could probably lift more weight than some men. So too, with regard to fighting ability, that's another area where training is key.
While you are entitled to your opinion as to how the genders are regarded, in game or out, I simply have to disagree on your take of gender equality being "pushed." Bioware is telling a story, they've created a universe, in which women, men, elves, dwarves, mages, etc are
all struggling for their own places of regard in their societies. There's no agenda here, no "push" - just story telling with as many peoples represented as possible, and in which, realistically, women can be just as formidable as the men.