Jules8445 wrote...
O_O He'll make the first move. I just started a new game...how do you get that to happen? Seriously.
This is how I got him to ask me:
** Just working on a Dalish Elf playthough and found out you can get an approval bump with Alistair in Ostagar, after you have your first conversation with him, talk to him again. I didn't realize you could do this. You can ask all sorts of questions. He will ask what you think of Duncan. I've only used 1 answer, but got a +2 approval bump. There was another answer that would probably have given more of a bonus, haven't tried it yet.
After Lothering go to various shops to stock up
Do Warden's Keep and get really good armor (all the while, trying to flirt with Alistair)
Get Shale as part of group (Alistair doesn't approve, but his drop is really low)
Go to the Circle Tower and finish that, get his 2nd gift.
Go to Denerim and do side quests (try to get as many supplies as I can and get my toon more levels)
Alistair is interested or Adores me, I can't remember which one
Go to Redcliffe - he admits to me that he is Maric's bastard son.
Save the village, do all sorts of good acts.
In the Castle I call in the Circle to save both Connor and Isolde
Find the Necklace, got the kiss, his approval is really high
He thanks me for saving both people next conversation - I did this in camp
Get ashes and heal Eamon. (He mentions his sister to me at some point and says he wants to visit her)
(I was at 100% Adore at this point) Go to Denerim and talk to Goldanna. I hardened him
Go back to camp and he asks me to join him in his tent
This is how I got it to happen, there may be other ways.