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[Badpie]

If my husband and I split up every time he died and came back working for a terrorist organization we would have been divorced years ago.

[CptData]

Pennyball wrote...

@Cpt.Data: And they say that romantic guys died off a long time ago 

That's what my girl said. Uhh - and I'm still doing a crappy job as "romantic dude". Too much work, not enough time.

[jeweledleah]

CptData wrote...

Indeed. The funny thing is: an easy going relationship is a boring one. I can speak of experience - I feel far more connected to my fiancee when things go bad for one of us. Or when having arguments ...
I'm not addicted to drama or something. But an easy going relationship usually means that emotions die off. At the end you don't know why you're together with your partner, because the love died as well.

Love shines brightest in the darkness.

I don't know.. I guess everyone is different, but I'm pretty glad that my own relationship is currently in an easy going stage.  I would by no stretch call it boring either, we have plenty of stuff to keep us busy and entertained.  I personaly think that love dies off when you start taking your partner for granted - which can happen in easy relationship OR a difficult one.  so as long as you remember to apreciate them and show them that apreciation?  well at least in my experience.

[CrutchCricket]

Everyone here realizes Han and Leia parted expressing their love right? And then Leia spent nearly all her time plotting how to bust him out? And when he was unfrozen Han didn't suddenly reveal he was working for Jabba now? Right?
Obviously.

Modifié par CrutchCricket, 29 novembre 2011 - 04:16 .

[Badpie]

CrutchCricket wrote...

Everyone here realizes Han and Leia parted expressing their love right? And then Leia spent nearly all her time plotting how to bust him out? And when he was unfrozen Han didn't suddenly reveal he was working for Jabba now? Right?
Obviously.

If he had started working for Jabba and said that to Leia then dismissed her confusion with "it's for the best. Look I can't get into it, anyway hop on board it will be like old times" she would have shot him in the face.

You ask me, Shep got off easy.  Hehe

Modifié par Badpie, 29 novembre 2011 - 04:19 .

[CrutchCricket]

Badpie wrote...
If he had started working for Jabba and said that to Leia then dismissed her confusion with "it's for the best. Look I can't get into it, anyway hop on board it will be like old times" she would have shot him in the face.

You ask me, Shep got off easy.  Hehe

Highly debatable but not my point. Just saw the Star Wars example as the smug sarcastic rebuttal. The key condition of a smart sarcastic rebuttal is that it be correct, in content and application. It wasn't. Everyone seemed to take it for granted though...

[FeralEwok]

If you want convenience then forget about ever being in a long term relationship. They are anything but convenient. Drama can certainly add some passion into a romance, but for me it mostly just results in a headache. People should never try to create situations like that. Couples may have some interesting qualities to them or perhaps some exciting personalty clashes, and that's great. However, I want to be able to have my days when we can both just shut the hell up and chill with one another at the end of the day. Unless you are a secret agent, an astronaut, or something extreme you are going to be plenty boring at times. A significant other shouldn't bail on you because of that....Im forgetting where I am going with this...oh right...

I was at one point over 4000 miles away from a woman I was dating. We had seperated on several occasions and one of those times it seemed final. But time and distance did not weaken our feelings and we managed to pull through.

Then I got home and we broke up lol

But that was years later. Thing is though that couples fight sometimes...some alot more than others. You can love someone deeply, but not like them from time to time. Occasionally crap will hit the fan and couples find themselves on the verge of ripping each others throats out. Doesn't mean that it is not realistic that they get back together. It happens every single day.

[Gunderic]

What's VS and Horizon? I get that you must be talking about the original love interests, but I'm way behind on my Mass Effect lore.

[syllogi]

Gunderic wrote...

What's VS and Horizon? I get that you must be talking about the original love interests, but I'm way behind on my Mass Effect lore.

VS=Virmire Survivor

Horizon=that planet where you watch a cutscene where some alliance dude/dudette gets paralyzed by the collector swarms and then they get unparalyzed conveniently right after you finish killing all the baddies and then they yell at you and you wonder why their eyes are crossed and why they don't like Cerberus since they gave you that sweet ride and they have a cool logo.

[frostajulie]

Stardusk78 wrote...

Ticktank wrote...

Did you miss the email he/she sent you shortly after Horizon?

An email makes EVERYTHING better, of course it does...:innocent:

It does when the VA reads it to you.

[Kable147]

Got it thanks

[Quole]

Real question: How the **** does the VS recover from getting paralyzed.

[ADLegend21]

Quole wrote...

Real question: How the **** does the VS recover from getting paralyzed.

The ship leaves the planet with no ship to keep the seeker swarms active the effects wear off.

[Ryzaki]

Some couples fight a lot over major things, some only fight over minor things, some fight once in a blue moon over something stupid like a sock. What kind of relationship works for the individual is dependant on said individual. What works for one person might not work for another so on and so forth.

So OP while it maybe weird for you it might be quite sensible and normal for another.

Frankly yes it would be weird for my Sheps to get back together with the VS mostly because they either moved on or are too fixated on what they saw when they were dead.

And while Ash put herself on my Shep's **** list by shooting Wrex her reasons for doing it were perfectly justifible and not at all racist. It's mindboggling that people try to claim it is. If Ash was in that position I damn well wouldn't consider Wrex racist for blowing her away.

Modifié par Ryzaki, 30 novembre 2011 - 12:42 .

[Nightdragon8]

CrutchCricket wrote...

Badpie wrote...
If he had started working for Jabba and said that to Leia then dismissed her confusion with "it's for the best. Look I can't get into it, anyway hop on board it will be like old times" she would have shot him in the face.

You ask me, Shep got off easy.  Hehe

Highly debatable but not my point. Just saw the Star Wars example as the smug sarcastic rebuttal. The key condition of a smart sarcastic rebuttal is that it be correct, in content and application. It wasn't. Everyone seemed to take it for granted though...

Everyone huh? ok

Long story short.... the VS was upset that you didn't call him/her. She/he was pissed off that you didn't tell her what was going on. Which really you wheren't allowed to because of your benefactors where keeping a lid on your revival for awhile. Also didn't help that VS was on a classified mission.

Basicly things can still work out where the relationship will continue.

Love can be as weak or as strong as the couple wants it to be. Some people are completely faithful to eachother for life. While others are completely unfaithful before day 1 of the relationship.

[CptData]

ADLegend21 wrote...

Quole wrote...

Real question: How the **** does the VS recover from getting paralyzed.

The ship leaves the planet with no ship to keep the seeker swarms active the effects wear off.

That explains why the stase ended, but not why the Collectors did not pick the VS up. After all, the VS was paralized near Lilith - the woman that gets liquified later.

[jeweledleah]

CptData wrote...

ADLegend21 wrote...

Quole wrote...

Real question: How the **** does the VS recover from getting paralyzed.

The ship leaves the planet with no ship to keep the seeker swarms active the effects wear off.

That explains why the stase ended, but not why the Collectors did not pick the VS up. After all, the VS was paralized near Lilith - the woman that gets liquified later.

relatively near.  she managed to run for some time, before getting paralized.  and remember - Shepard was finding colonists in areas that collectors supposedly gone through - one thing they had in comon was the fact that they were standing and as if frozen in motion.  maybe collectors were saving them for last after getting all the ones that were easier to put into those pods and transport?

I'm actualy more curious about collectors not using seeker swarms when boarding the normandy.

[Harmless Citizen]

That was Lilith who was liquified?


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[Cheesy Blue]

It would be weird if OP was ever in a relationship... period

[Ticktank]

Cheesy Blue wrote...

It would be weird if OP was ever in a relationship... period

He's on BSN to escape reality you twit.

[CptData]

Ticktank wrote...

Cheesy Blue wrote...

It would be weird if OP was ever in a relationship... period

He's on BSN to escape reality you twit.

Doesn't mean he has no past with relationships. I'm here too, but have a fiancee. Others are married

[Ticktank]

CptData wrote...

Ticktank wrote...

Cheesy Blue wrote...

It would be weird if OP was ever in a relationship... period

He's on BSN to escape reality you twit.

Doesn't mean he has no past with relationships. I'm here too, but have a fiancee. Others are married

My moneys on you having had numerous arguments, quarrels and disagreements with your fiancee, yet coming out stronger each time. Kids don't seem to understand this part.

[LuluMae]

Badpie wrote...

CrutchCricket wrote...

Everyone here realizes Han and Leia parted expressing their love right? And then Leia spent nearly all her time plotting how to bust him out? And when he was unfrozen Han didn't suddenly reveal he was working for Jabba now? Right?
Obviously.

If he had started working for Jabba and said that to Leia then dismissed her confusion with "it's for the best. Look I can't get into it, anyway hop on board it will be like old times" she would have shot him in the face.

You ask me, Shep got off easy.  Hehe

Which is why my canon Shep who remained loyal to Kaidan never asks him to come with her. As derpy as her reaction on Horizon is, which I rp to be the result of the combination of her high emotional state
after the whole "No! They took Kaidan! Oh wait, there he is... and he's not happy with me." and her insecurity at not knowing where she stands with him after being dead for  two years, she still understands where he is coming from enough not to expect him to jump on board with her and Cerberus. I've really been hoping that doesn't have a negative effect on my ME3 playthrough since they said that your ME2 interactions with the VS will have an impact on your relationship in ME3.

I have actually been avoiding this topic before now so I have no idea what you guys are actually discussing right now, I just saw that and had to throw my two cents in. As for the OP, I don't expect their relationship to just go back to where it was before Shepard's death. But if the VS has not moved on with someone else yet and still has at least a slight interest in Shepard I don't see why it's impossible for them to try and start over.

Modifié par LuluMae, 30 novembre 2011 - 10:57 .