I've actually been thinking about this a lot lately. When the game first came out, I sat down and beat it after a few weeks. which is REALLY unusual for me--I tend to be easily distracted, and at times easily frustrated with games, so it can often take me months, if not years, to actually finish a game, particularly an RPG. Just as a reference, here's some of the games I own, but haven't beaten: Metroid Prime, every console Zelda game since Ocarina of Time (except for Skyward Sword, which...might be a good thing at this point) plus several handheld games, Fallout 3, Devil May Cry 1, 3 and 4...I grew up watching my brother playing a lot of games and, for some reason, never finishing them myself, it's depressing. I'm only just now getting better about getting into the habit of sitting down and beating games.
So, anyway, DA2 held my attention unusually well, and really excited me while I was playing it. I even thought to myself "I can't wait to play that again!" when I finished it. But when I tried, I found that I didn't have characters that "stuck" like my first Hawke did, and at that point my attention was being called to other games, so I set it aside and never got farther than level 8 or so on subsequent playthroughs.
Fast forward to today. My brother recently bought Skyrim, and at first the world in that game really grabbed me. Whenever he wasn't around I'd use the chance to jump into the game and play, and started making really good time in the game. But...eventually...I started thinking about DA2 in comparison to Skyrim, and although I found exploring fun and really enjoyed the dungeons and quests, something...wasn't...quite there for me. So a few days ago I booted up Dragon Age 2 for the first time in months, and started playing it.
I'm already to the 2nd act. Last Saturday I think I spent something like 8 hours straight playing through it, glued to the game, and only stopped when I finally convinced myself I needed to sleep. Once again, this game has me hooked.
I know logically that DA2 is a flawed game. It's so, so obviously rushed and it's painful. The setting is small enough that it should have plenty of room to be fleshed out and detailed, and it's...bare. The repeating dungeons are an annoyance (particularly since I've recently been playing Skyrim, which could've easily had boring, lifeless dungeons like Oblivion but has somehow avoided it). The waves 'o mooks are silly. It needed an extra six months, maybe a year of development time. I know that I'll be frustrated with the length of Act 3 once I get to it, and the lack of development in those events when compared to the first two acts. (PARTICULARLY the second act.)
But I still adore this game. Warts and all. Ugly, blocky NPC-bots included. Even though I know the battles could be more strategic, I still have a TON of fun in the battles, particularly boss fights. I enjoy building my characters. And most of all, I live for ever line of dialogue from my companions, every moment I get to see Hawke interact with them, every bit of banter between Varric and Cassandra that hint at how my journey is going. I know intellectually that my choices won't affect the end game the way they did in Origins, but it really doesn't matter to me when I play the game. I'm enjoying the journey, and in the Dragon Age games in general it's always been the little moments that've mattered to me the most rather than the gigantic set pieces. The things I remember in Origins--seeing my city elf's father for the first time in what felt like months, watching my character grow to love Alistair only to lose him because of her background and because of the mistakes that she/I made--are still present in spirit in DA2. Years from now, the things I remember about this game won't be the waves of enemies or how that one warehouse looked. In fact, I'd already half forgotten about them when I started my new playthrough. What drew me back, and what keeps me coming back, is the characters and the story. Hanging out with Varric at the Hanged Man, choosing a love interest and watching them grow and change (sometimes for the worst), watching my newest version of Hawke grow and change both on the screen and in my mind, watching her family slowly fall apart, constantly changing my mind on my feelings of the Qun, and the mages and templars...that's the stuff that I really care about at the end of the day.
TL;DR: I know it's flawed, and I don't think it's a "great" game on the level of a lot of true masterpieces out there, but when it comes to my personal feelings on it? I love it. I really, truly love this game.
Now a lot of this is probably my background. I didn't have a gaming PC growing up, so outside of a select few games (mostly educational--and Tribes and Tribes 2, randomly) I've been a console gamer most of my life.I grew up playing lots of Nintendo games and JRPGs, and didn't even try a western RPG until KOTOR. I'm used to the idea of an RPG being "stat-based gameplay" rather than "role playing my own, unique character" so I'm much more forgiving when the PC has a life of their own or my choices don't have a huge impact. Also, as I admitted earlier, I start more games than I finish, and I don't think I can call myself a "hardcore" gamer as it's only been in the last few years as i've taken "ownership" of my identity as a gamer, so to speak, rather than riding on my brother's coattails. I know my opinion will probably be dismissed because of my background. But, when it comes down to it, I have fun with this game while I'm playing it, and it sticks with me long after I turn it off.
So in that sense? The game accomplished what it set out to do for me personally. I do hope that DA3 will be in development for as long as it needs, and that the flaws and criticisms will be learned from...but also I hope that the good things about this game will be remembered and learned from, too. IMO to completely dismiss the game is throwing out the baby with the bathwater. I think there's a way we can keep the more personal, grey-and-grey storyline and engaging battles while still having the strategy and more traditional feel of DA:O. I really do think there's a middle ground here, and that's what I hope for the most as this series continues.
I swear I set out to be short when I sat down to write this. Really.