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randomcheeses wrote...

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Yes, I would be EXTREMELY disappointed if, at this point, Bioware took away the "All bi" romances.

The why is very simple - there's no reason why the player shouldn't be able to choose who he or she wants to romance. In a perfect RPG, the player defines the real game, the player makes the choices. Adding strict sexualities (usually, everyone is straight) is an unnecessary restriction. You don't HAVE to play gay, you don't HAVE to play straight. It's up to you. Having the voice actors read the script with both gender pronouns takes virtually no effort, and it means the world to those of us who much prefer same-sex romances.

There is no reason for Bioware to turn back at this point. And the "omg, Anders hit on me but I'm a straight male, I'm sooo mad" argument? just, lol. I'm a lesbian and I have men hit on me all the time. I survive, you will, too.

Nor do I approve of the suggestion that one character be gay, one character be straight, one character be bi, etc. Again, it literally takes no effort to give the player more choices, and a game's agenda should not be to limit choices. Especially a choice that, in Bioware games, doesn't seriously affect the game's plot in the first place.


Quoted for truth.


Gotta disagree on this once more, and to clarify - this is not about not wanting to grant everyone the option they prefer, it's about making NPCs believable individuals and not just lifeless player bots.
So you're a lesbian and have men hit on you all the time? That's quite normal. Do you have women hit on you all the time? Less, I'm sure. Most men I see on the street don't hit on me, and if I'd start flirting with them (I'm not gay so I don't try), they'd probably run away like scared little chicken or punch my face.

What I propose is giving everyone the option, but without losing the integrity and character of the NPCs. Because having a bot as a love interest is like watching cheap porn: Boring and without any real substance. Romances require work, and walking into a normal pub as a gay person and trying to get the next best person of your gender into your bed should not be a simple task. If you succeed, it'd be much more rewarding, no?

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casadechrisso wrote...

Am1_vf wrote...

It
must be extremelly difficult to write something like that but one can
hope we may one day see it.


And who if not
Bioware?
Seriously, if you take a close look at DA2 there's a lot of
very very creative stuff under it's hood, just the end product was uh..
crap IMO. But take things like how your general attitude and voice
changes in cutscenes based on past dialogue decisions etc, that's
actually quite impressive. I think if Bioware can do that (a love for
detail sorely missed in other areas of the game btw), they can make such
a realistic romance system easily. After all, they are specialized on
romances, no? :D

All true, but I'm afraid they might not decide to put so much effort into it if the fanbase is content with the "all bi". And some might argue that the Dragon Age franchise needs such efforts more urgently in other areas.

I hope I'm wrong and they develop something similar to what you propose, but it doesn't seem likely we will se anything like that anytime soon.

Modifié par Am1_vf, 13 janvier 2012 - 12:58 .


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I'm actually not sure if the fanbase is that content on the all bi cast, I hear a lot of different opinions on it. It's also important that Bioware reads through those opinions I think, instead of relying only on the feedback data sent from ingame. I'm personally aiming for bi romances in my playthroughs a lot and enjoy them, so from my uploaded player data Bioware might assume I want the whole cast to be bi. No, by all means, I don't! But I'd have to explain this to the Devs, because my player data might suggest the opposite - they'd always see my female PC hanging around with Lelianna and might want to give me more options. 

Modifié par casadechrisso, 13 janvier 2012 - 01:08 .


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casadechrisso wrote...

I'm actually not sure if the fanbase is that content on the all bi cast, I hear a lot of different opinions on it. It's also important that Bioware reads through those opinions I think, instead of relying only on the feedback data sent from ingame. I'm personally aiming for bi romances in my playthroughs a lot and enjoy them, so from my uploaded player data Bioware might assume I want the whole cast to be bi. No, by all means, I don't! But I'd have to explain this to the Devs, because my player data might suggest the opposite - they'd always see my female PC hanging around with Lelianna and might want to give me more options. 


I intend to make a male hetero hawke seduced by Anders and see how it works. (edit: I just pictured Anders in "glow in the dark mode" saying: Come to the dark side Hawke!:blink::lol:)

The problem with the metrics sistems in games is allways that, I played Origins as a Cousland most of the time, not because I want to play only humans or because I might prefer the orgin strory (I prefer the dwarven noble origin), simply because those particular characters happened to be more fun to play for me at the moment. I really hope Bioware can interpret the data correctrly.

Modifié par Am1_vf, 13 janvier 2012 - 01:16 .


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casadechrisso wrote...

randomcheeses wrote...

Masako52 wrote...

Yes, I would be EXTREMELY disappointed if, at this point, Bioware took away the "All bi" romances.

cut


Quoted for truth.


Gotta disagree on this once more, and to clarify - this is not about not wanting to grant everyone the option they prefer, it's about making NPCs believable individuals and not just lifeless player bots.
So you're a lesbian and have men hit on you all the time? That's quite normal. Do you have women hit on you all the time? Less, I'm sure. Most men I see on the street don't hit on me, and if I'd start flirting with them (I'm not gay so I don't try), they'd probably run away like scared little chicken or punch my face.

What I propose is giving everyone the option, but without losing the integrity and character of the NPCs. Because having a bot as a love interest is like watching cheap porn: Boring and without any real substance. Romances require work, and walking into a normal pub as a gay person and trying to get the next best person of your gender into your bed should not be a simple task. If you succeed, it'd be much more rewarding, no?


See, I don't think that the DA2 cast being bi cheapened them at ALL. I'm seeing a lot of complaints that an all bi cast makes them lifeless, frankly, I don't think anything was further from the truth. The DA2 romances took substantially more work and time than the DAO romances. In DAO, I remember sleeping with everyone on the same night for the lolz (especially after I installed a Free Love mod that took off gender restrictions. I literally slept with all 4 LIs the same night at camp, which meant I sweet talked 'em all the same night until they gave out). In DA2, the romances have a lot more evolution, you can't do them on the fly, especially considering how they're spaced out through the acts.

Well, I also object to this assumption that bi equals lifeless. A lot of you seem to think it's really difficult to find four people that are at least a 2 on the Kinsey scale... it's a lot easier than you think. Modern psychology suggests sexuality is extremely fluid and even someone that identifies as straight could theoretically be with a same-sex person in the right situation (same with someone who identifies as gay). Point being, if we're going to talk about realism, since sexual orientation isn't an issue in Kirkwall no one has any social inhibitions. Additionally, it's pretty canon that Hawke is the sexiest thing since sliced bread in Kirkwall so... they're Hawke-sexual. haha.

I am opposed to 100% straight or 100% gay characters. But I like the suggestion that some characters be substantially more difficult to romance by a certain gender. For example - popping back to DAO, romancing Alistair would be really difficult but not impossible for a male Warden. He'd have to pick the perfect answers. Whereas romancing Fenris by a woman would be really hard (sorry Fenris, lol, first LI that popped into my head) but it could be done. Some romances would be perfect bisexual, like, I don't know, Zevran or Isabela.

I think it'd add a cool dynamic to the romance, and frankly, make it more realistic. However... I also think that it's overthinking it a little. I think DA2 did it just fine, especially since you're likely not going to romance more than one character (or get away with it for long, anyway) the progression of a single relationship will allow the gamer to make their own assumptions about the sexualities of the other characters.

Also, one last comment about the "lifeless bot" critique - sexuality IS completely independent of personality. I felt the DA2 characters were successful in their rich personalities, personally. I understand the argument of giving them a lack of individuality, but I don't think it's fair to say it affects their characterization because it doesn't and shouldn't. Sexual orientation is separate and ought to be treated as such.

(Sorry to ramble. grr)

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Masako52 wrote...

Well, I also object to this assumption that bi equals lifeless. A lot of you seem to think it's really difficult to find four people that are at least a 2 on the Kinsey scale... it's a lot easier than you think. Modern psychology suggests sexuality is extremely fluid and even someone that identifies as straight could theoretically be with a same-sex person in the right situation (same with someone who identifies as gay). Point being, if we're going to talk about realism, since sexual orientation isn't an issue in Kirkwall no one has any social inhibitions. Additionally, it's pretty canon that Hawke is the sexiest thing since sliced bread in Kirkwall so... they're Hawke-sexual. haha.

(Sorry to ramble. grr)


Look, we're even totally agreeing on that point, that was what I suggested above. But everyone being automatically at 50% is very unrealistic I think. I'd consider myself pretty straight in real life, however I'd never rule out completely that something unforeseen could ever happen. Then again you have other people who are attracted to both genders equally.

Well, I don't really take the point you made about Origins, because obviously you did it for the laughs and not in serious RP. I used to stay in character and focused on one, and I must say that I enjoyed the Origins romances faaaaar more, the dialogues and pace gave me that warm fuzzy feeling that DA2 never even hinted at. It might also have to do with DA2's general approach on dialogues and that you can't talk to your companions as much as you like, but the romances were totally forgettable. And seeing that every companion flirt-attacked my PC the very same way on any playthrough, regardless of gender, only made them feel more like bots to me. I think a gay romance should start very different to a hetero romance, if only to give a player the feeling that this is really a different playthrough than before.  There ws only one truly believable bi character in the Dragon Age series for me, that was Lelianna. Zevran might pass, but he was too artificial and ridiculous for my taste to be taken serious. All the DA2 options but Isabella though I didn't buy at all.

And feel free to ramble as much as you like, I did it for two nights already.  <_<

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I suppose I just don't think of the characters as being "at 50%" personally, or even being bisexual, regardless if they are or not...and really, that label should be something that they apply to their own person, if at all. As I've said before, no one declares that they are bi - that's our word for it, our compartment that we put the characters into. (If we want to talk about characters being individuals, perhaps they see themselves differently than we would.)

The focus of the DA2 romances, from the LI point of view, was not about the gender of the person they went to bed with, but about actually sharing a bed and their heart with someone. Each LI had obstacles in his/her life, issues to resolve that may prevent their acceptance of being loved and giving of love. That was the central take-away for me. It was less important that Hawke be a man or a woman than it was for Hawke to be the person that allowed love to flourish.

Which isn't to say that sexual identity isn't important to the individual and how he/she wishes to find romance in RL. But I think in many ways, and perhaps for many people, that is only one aspect involved in the journey of love. Perhaps what we see here with the perceived "all bi" state of romances is that Bioware is: 1. Allowing players to role-play as they see fit, and to be able to romance any kick-ass character, and 2. Choosing to look at the other aspects involved in the art/state/splendor of romance and make those the crux of any struggle or conflict. And in so doing, imo, the LIs aren't made any less or are cheapened. Rather, I think they make for a richer experience.

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Awww... Isabella is in love with my Hawke!

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Masako52 wrote...

Gunderic wrote...

Masako52 wrote...

Yes, I would be EXTREMELY disappointed if, at this point, Bioware took away the "All bi" romances.

it literally takes no effort..


case in point I suppose.

I'd be surprised if they'd keep 'em though. I expect 2 bi characters and 2 straight ones again.


Really? As far as I understand, Bioware has been pretty unwavering in its stance of gay inclusivity. Frankly I don't see any reason why they would revert back at this point, and I haven't seen any indication from the devs here that they'd like to. The sense I've gotten is that they are proud of their decision, which they should be.


they already had 'gay inclusivity' with origins.

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I like the improved system in DA2, letting each player pick their own romance is much better than limiting the choices for no reason. I think it worked pretty well that Isabella was bi, and everybody else was simply whatever you wanted them to be. That's the way it should be, everybody gets what they want, and everybody wins. Certainly in DAO there was literally no reason why Morrigan's romance couldn't have been available to everyone, we already knew that she had....relations....with a great many Templars, and that Templars aren't exactly a male-only group. Quite frankly the decision at the end of the game, involving the DR, would have been a LOT more interesting if your character that was involved with Morrigan was female. Certainly any male player involved with Morrigan can simply sleep with Morrigan once again and they save their life in the process, that's not exactly a hard choice. But a female involved with Morrigan would have to choose between having her sleep with somebody else, or losing Morrigan and possibly their own life. That type of unique and difficult choice would've been perfect, probably the best 'tough choice' in the game if it had been in the game. I think its examples like that, the awesomeness that was lost, is one of the reasons that they did away with artificial limitations like that. There's just no reason for them, if you don't like certain romances you can simply not do them, if you like certain romances you can do them, everybody is happy that way.

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First I apologize because i have skipped most of the forum

also if i end up rambling i apologize

What Bioware has to decide is balance, and in more ways then one. I personailly agree that Gays, Bi and straight LIs should be in DA3+. But first before we go further, i think DA3 should explain something to us, What is homosexuality to the world of Thedas, is it politically correct but some are against it? Is it normal. Is it taboo? Whether we know within game, or a dev simply tells us at a point will change perspectives on Bi.and gay relationships.

Secondly I am on the side that Everyone being BI is slightly unrealistic. Yet i do understand why they have done this. I beleive a solution would be to explain through dialogue essently is its a hawkemance or actually being gay or straight. Making more less-diverse characters simply for LI options would be a sad reality. Yet again its all about the balance. Should Gay-lesbian relationships be equal to straight due to fairness? Whats fair? Gays and Lesbian population is a minority,and i do apologize if that rude, its not what my intent in that statement is. So in a game should there be less gay/lesbians? Maybe, maybe not.

Again dependant on how the world of Thedas\\ gay/straight ratio, and how the world looks upon it, is what the deciding factor should be. Not what the fans want, gay or straight.

Even being a straight guy, i think if in the next game, Homosexuality, was similar to how the world we live in is, i think it would be an amzing thing ina game for the PC and partnet to over come those things. Im pretty sure the Anders relationship trickled this slightly. Anyways i can go on, but bottom line is, i support 68 fleshed out bi companions, not 15 flat ******/heterophobes


EDit: Essentially, whatever Bioware choose, it should not water down the content =)

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Some mix of gay, straight and bi would be good. Just like the real world.

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staindgrey wrote...

 If it makes sense and adds to the game, do it. I'll give some examples of how not to do it:

1) If it doesn't make sense for the character. For an example, Ashley in ME1 was very classic Christian, and it's safe to assume that 200 years from now there will still be a large number of Christians who believe homosexuality to be wrong. Ashley gives this impression throughout the game, and only flirts with BroShep, never FemShep. Suddenly making her bi for no reason in ME3 would arguably betray her character.

2) If there is no difference between the sexes. I mean, I get it, people are people and genitals don't matter when it comes to love, yada yada. But no one can honestly tell me that, both physically and vocally, a bi person never treats women differently than men, and vice versa. If we have the option of romancing the same character with either a male or a female PC, then I expect differences (if only subtle) between those encounters. I also expect that LI to give signs that he/she is bi regardless of us romancing him/her, so that it doesn't come off as a straight guy going gay for just my PC. Once again, it feels as though it's betraying the character.

3) If there is no social implication. Look at it this way: In DAII, Hawke can be a lesbian, right? So, her entire family dies off minus one or possibly two people. Wouldn't there be some sort of consequence in the eyes of Kirkwall for the last of the Champion's line to not be able to have a blood heir? Who would inherit the estate? Wouldn't there be people fighting for Hawke's blessings in the very likely chance she dies in battle? Why is everyone indifferent to the fact that their Champion chose to knock boots with a Dalish elf living in the alienage with all the social prowess of a plank of wood? If Hawke is so famous, why does NOBODY have an opinion on her love life?

DAII's romances built individual character interaction, but that was about it. There was so much more that could have been done with eah and every one, and much like the rest of the game, it just fell short. LI's, to me, are a huge waste of potential. Remember the camp in DA:O, when Morrigan and Wynn had very vibrant opinions on your relationship with Leliana? I cracked up when Morrigan bluntly told me (with disgust) that I "wouldn't stop smiling", and I felt an emotional obligation to stand up for Leliana when Wynn questioned whether it was wise to be with her. That never really happened in DAII, outside of some isabela banter that never extended beyond sex jokes.

Anyway, point is, the "bisexual" part of the romance shouldn't be the hot topic. The implementation of the entire LI, regardless of orientation, should. If Anders is only straight but that straight relationship can be more fleshed out, then I'll take it. If Anders is now bi but each side of the romance gets its due, then I'll take that. Compromising one or the other just to please a minor amount of heavily invested fans with a half-hearted copy/paste isn't going to make anybody happier.


I had to reply to this because this is essentially the defense for the outraged massed from the new ME3 will have a choice for everyone. It's such a one sided and basically faulty premise to use.

1) Have you never heard of person changing over time, be it religion, sexuality or finally admitting to a sexuallity they've hidden behind a wall of hate for so long?
A change in a character isn't inheritly a betrayal of that character, it's done in stories all the time of all formats just less so though sexuallity due to social norms and religious prejudice, much lower chance in games due to the number of games that actually have romances as an avialable feature and again due to there long standing image that most gamers are striaght 14-20 year olds which is only now being broke down.
So don't automatically write off changes as bad things, it depends how it's done, come back and use that example as a valid complaint when in ME3 she is magically bi with no reason or hint of story given.
Besides whats more of a betrayal to fans, your example or the fact Kaiden was meant to be an option to romance as a man as hinted at by in game files but was most likely abandoned because they were too scared of the fallout of a gay man in a fantasy, of course interspecies "lesbian" sex being completely different.

2) All romances including the sexual scenes are identical? Oh come on, it's not even worth arguing with it's just such a completely obsurd observation. I will leave one thing there though, dungeons are rehashed due to time and hardware constraints, any simalarities between those scence are essentially down to not wanted to re-record a line just to change a single word.
On the last part, no, just no, see the first part of my last counter add to that people exist who believe themselves exclusively straight or gay but will meet one person of the opposite gender they'd usually go for which will shake that belief to the core.

3) When is it implied the Champions children will be magical? Or do you believe the people of kirkwall are just dying to get back into lines of inherited power rather then earned for great deeds?
Aside from that its the same issue of time/cost vs effect, how worthwhile would it be to have hoardes of npcs commenting that you can't have children (even though nothing is preventing it, it's just the matter of finding another to aide you there) and throwing thier daughters on your male character begging you to procreate with them?

Essensially calling romances shallow = Yeah, how about looking at the winner of several game of the year awards for 2011, Skyrim, now come back and tell me it's shallow poorly fleshed out feature, if you still want to argue that Skyrim has been on/off development for about 5 years, DA II has just 2 years. Even when the same engine was placed in completely new hands a better result in romances was achieved even if it never got that far.
You never had more then sexual inneuendo? When in a romance with anders you are given the chance to defend the relationship and him from varric, and forgive me but it has been a while I believe fenris has something to add, on top of  that I believe you have the similar situation with Isabella from Aveline and one for Merril from Anders. In fact I believe all of them have an example that you found exclusively in DA:O.

I've already tackled most of this final part at various points, the romances aren't that poorly done and show no to little sign of decay for being bi, it's unreasonable to expect a complete different outcome from a romance of the same character solely on your gender being changed and expecting it to react to race, morality, religion and every other tiny detial is completely unreasonable.
I got the impression you'd be happy is Anders became exclusively straight already, even if you contradict your first point completely, but then again I'm guessing you are not interesting in persuing that romance story even just to experience it, as you haven't. It's funny really how much you want things to be different in content you don't even seem interested in experiencing.
Your last line even contradicts itself "please a small amount of fans" "won't make anyone happier", strange when I was "please"d to have the option in DA 2 I was oddly made "happy", funny how that works. Although if done right the change in character may not be a disservice to them, it will be a disservice to fans of the game, just for the few outspoken ones that think thier eyes will melt if they even hear a suggestion of homosexuallity (m/m only though).

Two things just to add seperately.
1) Considering the amount of characters you can't interact or romance with having every member of  the party being bi isn't so bizarre. But let's not make sweeping generalization to make it seem worse, not every party member is Bi. Besides that it's a game that takes place on a fictional world, maybe being Bi is actually the "norm" and Sebastian and co. are the odd ones out. Clearly not meant to be the case but still talking about realism for a game like this for the sake of removing options for many is inane.

2) Don't make the Anders mistake again, I want to see him again sure and as he is, nor do I think s/s romances should be hidden out of sight to avoid offending certain groups with the mear suggestion. But don't leave people the choice to flirt or turn someone down in a jerk manner only, you should always be given the option to say "Thanks for the flattery but I'm not like that" something along the lines of Sorry but I'm not like that is probally best avoided due to it being apologetic for being striaght/gay etc.

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Ricvenart wrote...

staindgrey wrote...

 If it makes sense and adds to the game, do it. I'll give some examples of how not to do it:

1) If it doesn't make sense for the character. For an example, Ashley in ME1 was very classic Christian, and it's safe to assume that 200 years from now there will still be a large number of Christians who believe homosexuality to be wrong. Ashley gives this impression throughout the game, and only flirts with BroShep, never FemShep. Suddenly making her bi for no reason in ME3 would arguably betray her character.

2) If there is no difference between the sexes. I mean, I get it, people are people and genitals don't matter when it comes to love, yada yada. But no one can honestly tell me that, both physically and vocally, a bi person never treats women differently than men, and vice versa. If we have the option of romancing the same character with either a male or a female PC, then I expect differences (if only subtle) between those encounters. I also expect that LI to give signs that he/she is bi regardless of us romancing him/her, so that it doesn't come off as a straight guy going gay for just my PC. Once again, it feels as though it's betraying the character.

3) If there is no social implication. Look at it this way: In DAII, Hawke can be a lesbian, right? So, her entire family dies off minus one or possibly two people. Wouldn't there be some sort of consequence in the eyes of Kirkwall for the last of the Champion's line to not be able to have a blood heir? Who would inherit the estate? Wouldn't there be people fighting for Hawke's blessings in the very likely chance she dies in battle? Why is everyone indifferent to the fact that their Champion chose to knock boots with a Dalish elf living in the alienage with all the social prowess of a plank of wood? If Hawke is so famous, why does NOBODY have an opinion on her love life?

DAII's romances built individual character interaction, but that was about it. There was so much more that could have been done with eah and every one, and much like the rest of the game, it just fell short. LI's, to me, are a huge waste of potential. Remember the camp in DA:O, when Morrigan and Wynn had very vibrant opinions on your relationship with Leliana? I cracked up when Morrigan bluntly told me (with disgust) that I "wouldn't stop smiling", and I felt an emotional obligation to stand up for Leliana when Wynn questioned whether it was wise to be with her. That never really happened in DAII, outside of some isabela banter that never extended beyond sex jokes.

Anyway, point is, the "bisexual" part of the romance shouldn't be the hot topic. The implementation of the entire LI, regardless of orientation, should. If Anders is only straight but that straight relationship can be more fleshed out, then I'll take it. If Anders is now bi but each side of the romance gets its due, then I'll take that. Compromising one or the other just to please a minor amount of heavily invested fans with a half-hearted copy/paste isn't going to make anybody happier.


I had to reply to this because this is essentially the defense for the outraged massed from the new ME3 will have a choice for everyone. It's such a one sided and basically faulty premise to use.

1) Have you never heard of person changing over time, be it religion, sexuality or finally admitting to a sexuallity they've hidden behind a wall of hate for so long?
A change in a character isn't inheritly a betrayal of that character, it's done in stories all the time of all formats just less so though sexuallity due to social norms and religious prejudice, much lower chance in games due to the number of games that actually have romances as an avialable feature and again due to there long standing image that most gamers are striaght 14-20 year olds which is only now being broke down.
So don't automatically write off changes as bad things, it depends how it's done, come back and use that example as a valid complaint when in ME3 she is magically bi with no reason or hint of story given.
Besides whats more of a betrayal to fans, your example or the fact Kaiden was meant to be an option to romance as a man as hinted at by in game files but was most likely abandoned because they were too scared of the fallout of a gay man in a fantasy, of course interspecies "lesbian" sex being completely different.

2) All romances including the sexual scenes are identical? Oh come on, it's not even worth arguing with it's just such a completely obsurd observation. I will leave one thing there though, dungeons are rehashed due to time and hardware constraints, any simalarities between those scence are essentially down to not wanted to re-record a line just to change a single word.
On the last part, no, just no, see the first part of my last counter add to that people exist who believe themselves exclusively straight or gay but will meet one person of the opposite gender they'd usually go for which will shake that belief to the core.

3) When is it implied the Champions children will be magical? Or do you believe the people of kirkwall are just dying to get back into lines of inherited power rather then earned for great deeds?
Aside from that its the same issue of time/cost vs effect, how worthwhile would it be to have hoardes of npcs commenting that you can't have children (even though nothing is preventing it, it's just the matter of finding another to aide you there) and throwing thier daughters on your male character begging you to procreate with them?

Essensially calling romances shallow = Yeah, how about looking at the winner of several game of the year awards for 2011, Skyrim, now come back and tell me it's shallow poorly fleshed out feature, if you still want to argue that Skyrim has been on/off development for about 5 years, DA II has just 2 years. Even when the same engine was placed in completely new hands a better result in romances was achieved even if it never got that far.
You never had more then sexual inneuendo? When in a romance with anders you are given the chance to defend the relationship and him from varric, and forgive me but it has been a while I believe fenris has something to add, on top of  that I believe you have the similar situation with Isabella from Aveline and one for Merril from Anders. In fact I believe all of them have an example that you found exclusively in DA:O.

I've already tackled most of this final part at various points, the romances aren't that poorly done and show no to little sign of decay for being bi, it's unreasonable to expect a complete different outcome from a romance of the same character solely on your gender being changed and expecting it to react to race, morality, religion and every other tiny detial is completely unreasonable.
I got the impression you'd be happy is Anders became exclusively straight already, even if you contradict your first point completely, but then again I'm guessing you are not interesting in persuing that romance story even just to experience it, as you haven't. It's funny really how much you want things to be different in content you don't even seem interested in experiencing.
Your last line even contradicts itself "please a small amount of fans" "won't make anyone happier", strange when I was "please"d to have the option in DA 2 I was oddly made "happy", funny how that works. Although if done right the change in character may not be a disservice to them, it will be a disservice to fans of the game, just for the few outspoken ones that think thier eyes will melt if they even hear a suggestion of homosexuallity (m/m only though).

Two things just to add seperately.
1) Considering the amount of characters you can't interact or romance with having every member of  the party being bi isn't so bizarre. But let's not make sweeping generalization to make it seem worse, not every party member is Bi. Besides that it's a game that takes place on a fictional world, maybe being Bi is actually the "norm" and Sebastian and co. are the odd ones out. Clearly not meant to be the case but still talking about realism for a game like this for the sake of removing options for many is inane.

2) Don't make the Anders mistake again, I want to see him again sure and as he is, nor do I think s/s romances should be hidden out of sight to avoid offending certain groups with the mear suggestion. But don't leave people the choice to flirt or turn someone down in a jerk manner only, you should always be given the option to say "Thanks for the flattery but I'm not like that" something along the lines of Sorry but I'm not like that is probally best avoided due to it being apologetic for being striaght/gay etc.


Not that i disagree, but grey made some good points

1. In our society (as an example) Im certain Bisexuels treats their sex and the opposite slightly different.(not everyone)
2. I mentioned this in a post above, however i'll repeat it, we have not been specifically told on what Gay/bisexual is to Thedas, so saying it could be or not be the norm is sorta silly.
3.If making all companions Bi/PCsexual, they should atleast explain their sexuality. Example
a.Merril to FemHawke: Oh Hawke, i think i love you, its starnge ive never felt like this towards a woman before 
b.Merril to FemHawke: OH Hawke, I think I love you, Did i tell you im into the girlies? So pretty and such Varric: Fuucking Daisy >.>
c.Merril to Hawke: Oh Hawke, I love you, Your better than any lady (if Merril is BI and not actuallt Hawkesexual

I just think its silly to not explain the sexuality, unless a character like isabella is made, and we ca't have issabella.Zevrans hibrids running around. The only reason i agree with all bi companions is that i'd rather have 6 fleshed out companions the swing the PCs way, then 15 flat characters that swing one way or another, or both..

LI\\s sexuality should impact the content is what im saying

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Why? How many time do you explain your sexuality when flirting. I know that I never does. In fact Isabella is the one who most explain it most and that is again because she likes to talk about sex. It would be completely out of nowhere and out of character for Merrill to just say. Hi Hawke I like women.

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esper wrote...

@robo
Why? How many time do you explain your sexuality when flirting. I know that I never does. In fact Isabella is the one who most explain it most and that is again because she likes to talk about sex. It would be completely out of nowhere and out of character for Merrill to just say. Hi Hawke I like women.

i obviously didn`t mean straight up in the way i did. It doesnt even have to be every character. I just feel i lose some immersive, i suppose though one can argue thats metagaming, trying to use the real worlds `ways of life`and trying to interret them in a game. It can go either way

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robmokron wrote...

esper wrote...

@robo
Why? How many time do you explain your sexuality when flirting. I know that I never does. In fact Isabella is the one who most explain it most and that is again because she likes to talk about sex. It would be completely out of nowhere and out of character for Merrill to just say. Hi Hawke I like women.

i obviously didn`t mean straight up in the way i did. It doesnt even have to be every character. I just feel i lose some immersive, i suppose though one can argue thats metagaming, trying to use the real worlds `ways of life`and trying to interret them in a game. It can go either way


Sexuality is not a big thing in Thedas so people rarely feel the need to explain it. Merrill does say something like admiring fHawke from afar, as I remember it. To which FHawke says something like her not being a godess, to which Merrill answered that she might be for some. (I don't remember the exact last two quites as I have only done the romance once). That is all the explanaiton that is needed.

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I'm of the mindset that how sexuality is perceived in Thedan society does not need to be blatanly incorporated into the game. Perhaps a codex entry would suffice, but otherwise, I take the characters as they are. DA:O had Wade and Herren - I don't recall anyone in Denerim making any remarks about either character or their relationship (if there was some dialogue to that effect, I must have missed it). Generally, other than maybe a comment here, or a smirk/sneer/grin/etc in response to mention of any specific romance, the sexuality of couples just doesn't seem to be anything that Thedans focus on en masse.

And that might be intentional. It might be a way to steer that aspect out of the spotlight of controversy or gossip, as there are plenty of other matters that could potentially affect romances, from an in-game perspective, as well as a role-playing one. A female noble taking up with another woman is not as important for discussion in Kirkwall as a female noble who might take up with a Dalish elf. Shock and scandal may ensue, because class is clearly something that dominates Thedan society, whereas sexuality/gender (of LIs) is not. The player is thus able to role-play their romances accordingly - do I have my PC woo an elf? a mage? a mage-hater? someone devoted to the Maker? someone who has been a thief? Those are all things that might cause ripples and murmurs amidst the populace. Of course, the player is free to add his/her own spin regarding the gender dynamics in a romance, but the people of Thedas won't be as concerned as they would if class or rank is crossed.

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Masako52 wrote...

I am opposed to 100% straight or 100% gay characters. But I like the suggestion that some characters be substantially more difficult to romance by a certain gender. For example - popping back to DAO, romancing Alistair would be really difficult but not impossible for a male Warden. He'd have to pick the perfect answers.


I always thought the opposite of Alistair.  It makes me laugh when people always say "I can't imagine Alistair gay" because I saw him in a different way.  It could just be my mind and my way of thinking but the way Alistair became jealous of my Male warden talking to Morrigan too much in my 360/PS3 playthroughs for instance made me think he had a thing for him.  Of course Morrigan mentioned to Alitair about him being jealous and he got all flustered and denied it.  Hmmmm.  People who become flustered when denying something usually says "LIE!" to me.  My Warden knew what he was really getting at with that "licking lamposts" crack ;)

Also, in my non PC games (in the PC version he married the Male Warden!), I of course never made Alistair marry that ugly b!tch that tried to have us killed so he had no queen.  At the end of the game, the ONLY person it mentioned being by Alistair's side forever was my Warden!  See, I know the truth. :P  Even in DA2 it mentioned no queen, just that the Warden had returned so they had to go.

Back on topic, yes the "all bi" cast should stay.  Most people who are against it seem to be straight Males from what I have read over the last 10 months so how would they know how annoying it was to have a character like Alistair that they could not experience 100% of his story with? 

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Im all for an all Bi cast as well. I just hope in most cases, the dialogue for most characters would change

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HolyAvenger wrote...

Some mix of gay, straight and bi would be good. Just like the real world.


A mix would be great but...

Unlike the real world there are budget constraints. If everything has to be *real world* they might axe the companion relationships altogether.

I prefer having more options/choices over less. Just me tho...

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esper wrote...
Sexuality is not a big thing in Thedas so people rarely feel the need to explain it. Merrill does say something like admiring fHawke from afar, as I remember it. To which FHawke says something like her not being a godess, to which Merrill answered that she might be for some. (I don't remember the exact last two quites as I have only done the romance once). That is all the explanaiton that is needed.


That's the gist of it.

I agree with your point.  Merrill goes to Hawke's house and goes on about how awesome and beautiful she thinks she is and then tells her she's worshipped her from afar for some time...I don't think an additional 'oh and by the way, I LIKE GIRLS!' is necessary.

Yes, Merrill, if you've been crushing hard on a lady for some time then you are most definitely into girls and you don't have to state the obvious ^_^

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Not that i disagree, but grey made some good points

1. In our society (as an example) Im certain Bisexuels treats their sex and the opposite slightly different.(not everyone)
2. I mentioned this in a post above, however i'll repeat it, we have not been specifically told on what Gay/bisexual is to Thedas, so saying it could be or not be the norm is sorta silly.
3.If making all companions Bi/PCsexual, they should atleast explain their sexuality. Example
a.Merril to FemHawke: Oh Hawke, i think i love you, its starnge ive never felt like this towards a woman before 
b.Merril to FemHawke: OH Hawke, I think I love you, Did i tell you im into the girlies? So pretty and such Varric: Fuucking Daisy >.>
c.Merril to Hawke: Oh Hawke, I love you, Your better than any lady (if Merril is BI and not actuallt Hawkesexual

I just think its silly to not explain the sexuality, unless a character like isabella is made, and we ca't have issabella.Zevrans hibrids running around. The only reason i agree with all bi companions is that i'd rather have 6 fleshed out companions the swing the PCs way, then 15 flat characters that swing one way or another, or both..

LIs sexuality should impact the content is what im saying


1. "Our Society"... and "not everyone" I needn't say more really. Besides I don't think the game was created for you to play though every single romance option available, a cut off point has to be made for time/cost over the value of having different things. This is an acceptable one, just like I don't expect generic npc #345 to say "Bless you" when my mic picks up me sneezing.
2.You say it's silly to say whether it is or isn't the norm but a large part of the arguement rests on the shoulders of it not being a norm. Frankly I think the fact Wade and Hadren in DA:O aren't lynched mobbed in the capital of a city then one being dragged out of thier home and decapitated in the middle of the street speaks volumes for it not being an issue, solely because npcs aren't walking round screaming same sex romances are normal is the sort of hand holding and forcing things down peoples throats that in any other aspect would be argued against. People don't talk about same sex romances in that manner simply because it isn't intended to be a big deal.
But as accepting as Thedas is that they don't bat an eyelid at two people of the same sex living together there are times people want to keep it hidden, example being the circle, although It's not specific to it being a same sex relationship I always got the impression Anders had more to hide then the relationship from templars but his sexuality in particular as them knowing would lead to further abuse of both parties involved.
3. As sweet as Merrill is I'd vomit if I'd ever heard her say "Did I tell you I'm into girlies" and Varric said that instead of a simple stutter of shock. Not everything needs an explanation, Merrill open to it fine, Sebastian isn't which is fine too but then again no one is arguing for Sebastian to lay out his entire life story in defence/explanation of his heterosexuality.

There's a particularly poignant scene between Anders and Hawke, if you choose to romance him and stand by him, which he says about one day someone like hawke and a mage like him may one day be able to remain together and not be torn apart, it's arguable if the parrallels where on purpose or not but still the fact remains that the LI has impacted on the story regardless of the characters Bisexuality.
The scene for Alistar and any non-human noble female would have worked fine for any Male warden player, except gaining new meaning from the fact that there is an issue of lineage for Alistar. Even now though if you look at the context of his excited in 2 of the warden being back or reluctance to see the queen it would work if the Mwarden was in a relationship with him but he had to marry the queen for children.
The only difference being between the 2 they give the player the option, sure it's not a whole new experience but it's still the same game. I'd always rather have the option be there, it allows the player to choose the one they want to over the only option available.

Contradicting yourself to remove choice from people and expecting every single path to be different is not good points. I'm leaving that there...
Sorry when you replayed 20 times every LI combo didn't result in a whole new experience but I don't think that's what they were intending when they made the game and LI's, and frankly I agree it would just be time wasted to craft them all to such an extent and it's far better to have the option there for anyone then not have it there, just like if it's content your not really interested in seeing you don't really have to.

I hope they continue to make a non-issue for most characters except under very specific circumstances and leave us the choice to play though a romance story of our choice and not just a token slattern rogue. Or other specific characters a player may not like at all rather then allow some options.
Besides out of 9 companions 4 aren't romancable, one is exclusively straight and only the remaining 4 are bi, 2 females 2 males, that's less then 50% not all characters, it's not as "bad" as people are trying to make out, if they made one male exclusive gay and left one bi, then one female gay and one straight you're only removing more choices and more differencing in play thoughs, not creating more magically. If you're only trying to make this point because you don't want to have a male/male romance you only need to not romance 2 of 9 characters. There aren't 12 romances to cut down to 6 to allow these pointless restrictions, theres 5, so just say it you want to see the 2 m/m choices gone.

Ugh...

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I like it if characters are unavailable to romance due to their sexual persuasion (either hetero or ******), it adds depth and increases immersion. I love scenes where you try and crack onto a character and they turn you down (Samara/Aveline), its adds so much reality to the experience instead of everybody good with the PC trying to get in their pants.

Just my $0.02

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HolyAvenger wrote...

I like it if characters are unavailable to romance due to their sexual persuasion (either hetero or ******), it adds depth and increases immersion. I love scenes where you try and crack onto a character and they turn you down (Samara/Aveline), its adds so much reality to the experience instead of everybody good with the PC trying to get in their pants.

Just my $0.02


And that Aveline you liked so much was in DA2. The game with the "all bi" LIs (except for Sebastian). I do not think the characters should all be LIs but I think all the LIs should be "bi" or "hero-sexual" UNLESS the writers say the character should be straight or gay only for story reasons. The whole process of making LIs is artificial to begin with. People should NOT be arguing that LIs cannot be "bi" unless Bioware gives us a good reason why they are. The LIs (which are ALL "fan service" no matter their persuasion) should be available unless Bioware has a reason why they are not. I am not moved by the arguments that say LIs are only "realistic" (excuse me but I KNOW from my real life experience that VG romances have NEVER been "realistic") if a LIs is "straight" or "gay" to fit some quota system.

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