Gotholhorakh wrote...
I think it's not parents as much as it's media, TBH.
I think it's both. I think the media influences the parents too much and as a result the parents buy into the misconceptions and falsehoods without even listening to anything that isn't the media. Or parents that don't watch the media still believe it themselves for whatever reason.
Speaking from personal experience, my mom used things the media said about video games -- as well as crimes committed and blamed on video games -- as reasons why kids shouldn't play video games.
I showed her medical reports written by doctors on how video games are beneficial to the growth of a child's brain because of the complex nature of most games (puzzles, logic, etc.). There was even a 2009 study that confirmed that violent video games have no bearing on real-world aggressive behavior
She wouldn't listen.
That said, video games shouldn't find their way into the hands of those more prone to violent acts, but there isn't really a way for that to be prevented without infringing on peoples' rights. So all that remains is to blame the person and not the game, as plenty of people who have played violent games don't go off into the world mixing fantasy with reality and end up killing dozens of people with an Uzi for points.
I think you'll very rarely find the kind of parents who take a sufficient interest to be concerned... being OK with "let's show the kids every kind of debauchery, violence and sexual depravity there is - but no nipples!! Save us from the nipples!". That's in the US or out of it.
U.S definitely. Sadly, it's one of the reasons I dislike the U.S. these days
Of course if they do, it's not my place to comment on other families' values, that would be presumptuous and arrogant. What parents want their kids to see/not see is their own family's business, it's really up to them to decide what's ridiculous and what isn't for their family, not me. Well, not us.
I think it's perfectly fine for a parent to not want their child to see sexual themes at a young age in video games, but they should also take an active role in ensuring their kids don't see those things.
That said, sexuality is prevalent across so many forms of media that it can't be written off. In almost any TV show, any movie, and other forms of media sexual themes are present. Even in Disney movies sexual themes/sexuality can be seen if you think about it, though in watered down forms.
I would think the best thing is to just teach your kid about it around a certain age.
But then this brings up the problem of the kids possibly engaging in those acts at a young age, like in the case with the Oakland 2nd graders.
Ultimately, the parents are held responsible for what their children see, but they shouldn't try and blame the video game companies. And once a child reaches a certain age -- 13 at the latest, but even then that seems like overreacting imo -- they will need to know about and be allowed to view things dealing with sex and sexuality.
Modifié par The Ethereal Writer Redux, 16 janvier 2012 - 07:39 .





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