[quote]KPiGame wrote...
[quote]android654 wrote...
I wouldn't be. That kind of occurrence is rather common and fair in my opinion. Sometimes you're with someone, you meet someone else and are conflicted about your emotions. It's not like he's using both of them for his personal amusement. I think it's genuinely permissible to be with one person and then have your attention caught by someone else. It doesn't make him a douche because he is not entirely devoted to his girlfriend 100% of the time. He seems to be genuinely conflicted, the writers just didn't have time to flesh it out properly due to the short season. [/quote]
^This...Thank you for posting this Android, saved my breath

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You're welcome

[quote]Megaton_Hope wrote...
Mako is kind of a douche. Everything about the kiss was a bad idea for a guy who's in a committed relationship, particularly given Bolin's interest in Korra and what Mako had already said the whole time about dating teammates. He shouldn't have confessed any kind of feelings to Korra (even confusion) or allowed her to kiss him, it just suggested that his relationship with Asami was something that might be under Korra's control. Which is...well, I've seen cheaters actually do that. (For what it's worth, I think that Mako thought he was being discreet.)
All in all, probably the worst part is that Korra expressed an interest earlier enough for him to act on any interest he might have, and he made this calculated judgement to commit to Asami instead. He SHOULD have just let her date Bolin, that might have worked out.[/quote]
Except she kissed him and he was entirely caught off guard. That's total bullsh*t you can't dictate your emotions. The way you interpret things on an emotional level has too many variables influencing it that you can't force them to be a certain way. So Mako is being genuine when he says he's conflicted, and everyone has the right to feel that way. The responsibility for it growing from genuine confusion comes from both Korra and Mako, but I wouldn't call either of them "guilty."
Seriously, you're making it seem like he's using them for his amusement when everything we've seen says the exact opposite.
[quote]Seagloom wrote...
@android
What makes him a douche is not having conflicted emotions based on attraction to someone else, but what he does with those emotions. Megaton_Hope already covered that bit, so no need for me to rehash it all in detail. If you care about someone, you don't treat them way. I'm not talking full blown love here either. Just good old fashioned respect.
Leading Korra on while stringing Asami along, keeping secrets from Asami, then getting all defensive about them when she finds out? That is not the behavior of a decent boyfriend; conflicted emotions or not. I would have a lot more respect for Mako if he owned up to his actions.
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And if you care about two someones? What about if you take someone, place them in a position where they have to choose between their family and their relationship with you? What if that person chooses you and you find yourself, in that same space of time, attracted to someone else? Do you not see why it would not be so simple to just dump someone when you're the reason they're in hidind and being hunted by a terrorist group? Hardly seems fair/right/appropriate to tell her you're through just so you can go with the other girl. So even if he is entirely invested in Korra emotionally, circumstances are complicated and it makes it difficult to just drop someone.
He hasn't been leading anyone on. He was distancing himself from her when he was with Asami, and Korra was the one who forced herself on him. He didn't seek her out in that way. He's not sneaking off behind Asami's back to go to Korra. The most he's done is show concern for her when she's in trouble in Asami's presence.
What show are you guys watching? You're making it sound like he's this big time philanderer when some girl surprised him with a kiss.
A kiss he wasn't expecting[/quote]