[quote]meonlyred wrote...
I'm glad you feel welcome!

The reason some of us seem closer than others is because we are. Some of us are also on Femshep.com and talk a lot on the chat there. Some of us go as far as have each other's phone numbers or have meet in real life. Its bizarrely awesome how Femshep and Mass Effect has brought people together like this.[/quote]I know how that feels! I went to London for the DAO pre-release competition and met a bunch of awesome people there, among them Cat Lance, Isaantia, n2nw, and Tamyn, not to mention our own evil Chris and some of his buddies. It was an unforgettable experience. I mean, cool to see London, sure, but it was the conversations that I remember the most--getting together in the same place with a whole bunch of awesome people who cherish the same hobby and the same great game series.
I like talking on here, but being in person with people you've met online... it's so incredibly awesome. Even if you weren't sure about them before, seeing them and talking with them makes you love them. I really wish I could do that kind of thing more. It reminds you there are real, vibrant, wonderful people behind those avatars and names.
[quote]raziel1980 wrote...

[/quote]She looks particularly awesome in this one.
[quote]Yumi50 wrote...


[/quote] I LOVE her face! She is probably the most distinctive blonde FemShep I've seen besides Kyrie. Really distinctive features, and that hairstyle is perfect for her.
[quote]Akari Tenshi wrote...
[quote]Obvakhi wrote...
Can someone give me a link of the ME3 demo with the new default FemShep? I'm sick of seeing everybody's ugly ass custom Shepard.[/quote]
Since you asked so politely,
here you go. [/quote]Ha! I love you for that!

[quote]AwakenxBenihime wrote...
seeing all your wonderful custom femsheps is making me so anxious for tomorrow!
Beautiful femsheps ladies! (I'm assuming most of you are ladies.. lol)[/quote]I would be one of the females.
[quote]HolyAvenger wrote...
I must confess I have to have a big, badass scar in my ME1 playthroughs. Makes all my Shepards look more like scary soldier types you wouldn't want to meet in a dark alley. Especially the FemSheps. [/quote] Agreed! I love the scars in ME1. I have a soft spot for the eyebrow scar, I think it looks the coolest and I've used it several times before, but the cheek scar was fun, too.

I skipped the scars for one playthrough after I'd played ME2 and saw that they disappeared, and I ended up missing them terribly. I wish ME2 had ported your scars. They were cool.
[quote]Kyrene wrote...
And I for one always welcome your occassional visits, and the fact that you take time to collectively respond to people when you do.
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Lastly, if you feel like an outsider, its only your own fault. Grow a quad, elbow a few regulars aside, and get right in the middle of this "inner circle" on a constant, but polite basis. You'll soon not be on the outside anymore.[/quote]Thank you! And I like your spirit, very much so.

Life doesn't hand you anything, and that includes the internet. "Grow a quad and earn your place"--a solid motto.
[quote]Yumi50 wrote...
I noticed 2 more differences between Femshep and Mshep animation, apart from Anderson grabbing chest/collar.
When Anderson mentioned 'soft around the edges' Femshep uses
BOTH her hands touching her stomach, while Mshep uses
only left hand. [/quote]Hmm!

Those are odd differences... interesting. I guess my FemShep/ManShep playthroughs really will feel different this time!
[quote]Sorael.A wrote...
I said I would post it last night but it would have been a botched job

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[quote]alex90c wrote...
Not really. The sole difference is the one you pointed out: profit. The level of sexualisation is irrelevant, the crux of my argument is that Kotokuyika (quite rightfully) get chastised for their sexualisation, and when it turns out they're making a Femshep statue people are (rightfully again) worried they'll do the same, despite the fact that some of these very people sexualise Femshep themselves. And for some reason, all the fans in this thread have decided to make their minds completely impervious to this fact.[/quote]No cleavage, no puffed-up chest, no puckered lips ready for a kiss, no suggestively parted thighs... she's just standing there, arms crossed, observing her artist warmly (who is probably her lover).
It's not the clothing you have to look at, it's the stance, the body language, and the facial expression. Her clothing actually covers more than your average one-piece bathing suit, though. All that's exposed are her limbs. She looks relaxed, curious, friendly...
If it were really hypersexualization, she'd be touching herself, licking something, or she would have her chest squashed together to form a nice cleavage line--something of that sort. I actually think this picture is sexier precisely because nothing like that is happening.
Hell, I'm straight, but she kinda makes me wish I weren't. [smilie]http://social.bioware.com/images/forum/emoticons/wink.png[/smilie] C'mon, the comment about the juxtaposition was funny because there is truth to it, but that doesn't mean that this is some kind of degradation of FemShep, anymore than the shirtless scene with Kaidan in ME1 was degrading to him. If he'd been grinding against a stripper pole in fetishy painted-on latex that emphasized his nipples and the shape of his--er, speedo area, THAT would be degrading.
I like FemShep best in full clothing, but I don't mind this artwork because I get the feeling the artist had more in mind than OMGSEXYBOOBIES4U! when it was drawn, it's not conveniently and visibly cold or rainy outside, and I am just so tired of the myth that super-skinny models are the only kind of beautiful. This FemShep has muscle on her. I can't help but love that.
People love to admire each other's physical forms. That will never cease to be the case. I think, personally, that the best that can be asked is that we're given the opportunity to admire both genders rather than just one, and that both sides are treated with equal respect--not debased or reduced to objects, but treated as people or at least characters.
In short, the difference between sexualized and sexy is whether or not the
subject is treated with observable
respect; shown in situations and in attire that project that respect and the subject's self-respect--or whether they're reduced to an
impersonal object with the emphasis on T&A or C&A, possibly with a side of excessive, sensualized youth and innocence. Does that make a little more sense? I think that's what others were trying to say; everybody just got a little too frustrated with each other to express themselves optimally.
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