Milana_Saros wrote...
Seagloom wrote...
In reply to the OP, I think Milana_Saros got it on the first page. It's better to keep it simple stupid than try to understand why people do as they do in these situations.
You calling me stupid? D:
Haha, only joking. But to add to the whole nice guy thing:
I've actually been rejected by one of these nice guys. He was there being all mushy mushy. Listening to the aches of my heart and chatting me up all the time. Like ALL the time. To the point where it became a tad annoying. So I was wondering....why is this person letting me bleed my heart to him if he isn't interested in me? Doesn't hurt to ask right? Turns out...not because he was interested in me. Funny how that turned out. After carefully and politely turning me down and making sure I'm OK and not completely heartbroken, he moved on to chat up this other girl who was having some serious issues with her family....he never started dating her either.
So I guess what I'm trying to say that there really is TOO nice of a guy. Most girls want a stable guy. The type of guy who treats you well but who will also fight you back if he doesn't see eye to eye on something. Boot licking isn't very attractive on the long run. Don't become the soul bearer who concentrates their life on tending to crying girls, never finding true happiness of his own. Helping others is good and needed but trying to build a relationship on it rarely works.
That's some of the best advice on this subject I've ever read. Well done.
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