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Milana_Saros wrote...

Seagloom wrote...

In reply to the OP, I think Milana_Saros got it on the first page. It's better to keep it simple stupid than try to understand why people do as they do in these situations.


You calling me stupid? D:

Haha, only joking. But to add to the whole nice guy thing:

I've actually been rejected by one of these nice guys. He was there being all mushy mushy. Listening to the aches of my heart and chatting me up all the time. Like ALL the time. To the point where it became a tad annoying. So I was wondering....why is this person letting me bleed my heart to him if he isn't interested in me? Doesn't hurt to ask right? Turns out...not because he was interested in me. Funny how that turned out. After carefully and politely turning me down and making sure I'm OK and not completely heartbroken, he moved on to chat up this other girl who was having some serious issues with her family....he never started dating her either.

So I guess what I'm trying to say that there really is TOO nice of a guy. Most girls want a stable guy. The type of guy who treats you well but who will also fight you back if he doesn't see eye to eye on something. Boot licking isn't very attractive on the long run. Don't become the soul bearer who concentrates their life on tending to crying girls, never finding true happiness of his own. Helping others is good and needed but trying to build a relationship on it rarely works.


That's some of the best advice on this subject I've ever read. Well done.

Modifié par Angus Cousland, 03 février 2012 - 03:47 .


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I can;t believe there are still things to be said about this.

To the op, I'll put it in as few words as possible. Stop caring so much about other people where you make decisions based on what other people think. want or you think they want. If she's ignoring you or leaves you only to come around later, take the hint and move on. You're wasting time on someone for no reason.

And that's my good deed for the day.

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Speaking of tbh, I'm surprised GMagnum hasn't shown up here. If there's one person on this board who knows how to be good with the ladies and give advice to the lonely souls it's him....tbh.

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Dunno, but if someone figures this puzzle out soon, pls use that fortune for the powers of Good; not Evil. With great power; etc....

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Mystic dream wrote...

Speaking of tbh, I'm surprised GMagnum hasn't shown up here. If there's one person on this board who knows how to be good with the ladies and give advice to the lonely souls it's him....tbh.

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You've travelled the world OP, to understand the female mind and conquer your fears. But the female is not complicated. What you really fear, is inside yourself. You fear your own power .. your own anger... the drive to do great - or terrible - things.

Modifié par slimgrin, 03 février 2012 - 04:44 .


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Volus Warlord wrote...
Abusive, huh? Did you kick his ass at least?


No, he kept firearms all over the house.

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Did you do her loyalty mission OP? Maybe she has run out of dialogue, try advancing the plot a bit.

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slimgrin wrote...

You've travelled the world OP, to understand the female mind and conquer your fears. But the female is not complicated. What you really fear, is inside yourself. You fear your own power .. your own anger... the drive to do great - or terrible - things.


I have giant spiders inside myself?  There are spiders driving me?

BRB, barfing and crying.

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Jestina wrote...

Volus Warlord wrote...
Abusive, huh? Did you kick his ass at least?


No, he kept firearms all over the house.


That doesn't mean you can't kick his ass. :huh: You just can't use a knife or something like that.


If a women came in and said, "my ex abused me and I kicked his ass" I'd respect her forever.

Modifié par Volus Warlord, 03 février 2012 - 05:36 .


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RinpocheSchnozberry wrote...

slimgrin wrote...

You've travelled the world OP, to understand the female mind and conquer your fears. But the female is not complicated. What you really fear, is inside yourself. You fear your own power .. your own anger... the drive to do great - or terrible - things.


I have giant spiders inside myself?  There are spiders driving me?

BRB, barfing and crying.



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You missed the reference.

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slimgrin wrote...

-100

You missed the reference.


Is it Pokemon?  It sounds like Pokemon.

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I can't tell if they are serious or not, always get the feeling that they have a hidden agenda.

If the hottest girl came up to me and said 'Do you like me?' , i would say no incase (but secretly i do) she was not serious and just trying to show me up. Quite a few good looking girls have asked me out and i always say no.

Screw risking my social reputation and making myself look like a muppet in front of people if she says that she is not interested in me.

Modifié par King Minos, 03 février 2012 - 06:11 .


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I find that you can't go wrong if you stick to the tried and tested gestures of romance: A good meal at an expensive retaurant, fine wines and belgian chocolates, fresh flower petals strewn over your boudoir, a long sensual massage with aromatic oils on a luxurious fur rug laid out before a roaring wood fire and finally a damnably enthusiastic session of hardcore tupping with whips, chains, razor blades, nipple clamps and a small electric battery.

And if you're adventurous, you could even invite your ladyfriend.

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^ This thread has given me more lulz than I've had on BSN in quite some time. Thanks, guys. Image IPB

Modifié par happy_daiz, 03 février 2012 - 06:16 .


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RinpocheSchnozberry wrote...

slimgrin wrote...

-100

You missed the reference.


Is it Pokemon?  It sounds like Pokemon.



Close. Batman Begins.

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King Minos wrote...

I can't tell if they are serious or not, always get the feeling that they have a hidden agenda.

If the hottest girl came up to me and said 'Do you like me?' , i would say no incase (but secretly i do) she was not serious and just trying to show me up. Quite a few good looking girls have asked me out and i always say no.

Screw risking my social reputation and making myself look like a muppet in front of people if she says that she is not interested in me.


Coming from the other side, a lot of so-called "nice" guys have chatted me up in the past, only to later make it clear that they wanted the sexytimes. And then they got mad that I wasn't interested, that I was some kind of **** because I wasn't attracted to them. That's when it became clear just how skin-deep that "nice guy" act had been. On the other hand, I have lots of male friends who never pressured me in that way. There's no formula. The bottom line is not every "nice guy" that gets friendzoned is actually a genuinely nice guy. If you're nice to a girl because you want to get in her pants—come on now.

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Siansonea II wrote...

If you're nice to a girl because you want to get in her pants—come on now.


:unsure:

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There is another side...sometimes if you are nice to a girl and she wants to get into your pants when you aren't interested. The best thing to do if you want everything clear is to sign up on a dating website (match.com or something).

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slimgrin wrote...

Siansonea II wrote...

If you're nice to a girl because you want to get in her pants—come on now.


:unsure:

this is what we're always thinking no matter how nice

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Siansonea II wrote...
If you're nice to a girl because you want to get in her pants—come on now.


That probably applies to ninty nine percent of the male population. They tend to have a one track mind.

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blothulfur wrote...

I find that you can't go wrong if you stick to the tried and tested gestures of romance: A good meal at an expensive retaurant, fine wines and belgian chocolates, fresh flower petals strewn over your boudoir, a long sensual massage with aromatic oils on a luxurious fur rug laid out before a roaring wood fire and finally a damnably enthusiastic session of hardcore tupping with whips, chains, razor blades, nipple clamps and a small electric battery.

And if you're adventurous, you could even invite your ladyfriend.


Swiss Toni?

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Seagloom wrote...

It's not that "badboys" are preferable to nice guys. It's that nice guys are boring if that's all they have to offer. Be supportive, be a good listener, help out and all that neato stuff. The problem comes when that's all you're good for. Nice is not a replacement for interesting. It doesn't make up for a lack of chemistry and passion. Really, the question of where are all the nice guys is misleading; because no one wants only nice.


This is true for both genders methinks. A girl that is too nice or just nice, ends up being boring and even irritating to me (I don't like people poking me with personal questions often). And the problem is, they often either talk too much (lack of brevity is a very good way to irritate me) or talk too little.