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[GodWood]

They want you to be kind, attentive and lighthearted.

But they also want you to be distant, cold and brooding.

[Ravensword]

Nvm.

Modifié par Ravensword, 05 février 2012 - 05:29 .

[Bekkael]

C9316 wrote...

Bekkael wrote...

C9316 wrote...

Bekkael wrote...

C9316 wrote...

Women want a total ****** in a man, despite always saying they want to meet a nice guy they get bored of nice guys and always go back to the guys who treat them like complete crap :|

Oh, that's not necessarily true. Nice guys always finish first in my book.

Perhaps I need to revise my statement...


Immature women want a total ****** in a man, despite always saying they want to meet a nice guy they get bored of nice guys and always go back to the guys who treat them like complete crap

That can be true, but if so, do you really want to pursue that type of woman? Don't sell yourself short, doll. Every person has something unique and valueable to offer in a romantic relationship.

That's typically why I go after older, more mature women. So far it's been fruitless :3

Then just enjoy the ride, and let something more serious come to you in its own time. You have your whole life ahead of you. (Urgh, I think I'm starting to sound like a greeting card. )

@Raven What difference does it make what flavor of ice cream a person prefers? It's all sweet and creamy.

Modifié par Bekkael, 05 février 2012 - 05:30 .

[Ravensword]

C9316 wrote...

Bekkael wrote...

C9316 wrote...

Bekkael wrote...

C9316 wrote...

Women want a total ****** in a man, despite always saying they want to meet a nice guy they get bored of nice guys and always go back to the guys who treat them like complete crap :|

Oh, that's not necessarily true. Nice guys always finish first in my book.

Perhaps I need to revise my statement...


Immature women want a total ****** in a man, despite always saying they want to meet a nice guy they get bored of nice guys and always go back to the guys who treat them like complete crap

That can be true, but if so, do you really want to pursue that type of woman? Don't sell yourself short, doll. Every person has something unique and valueable to offer in a romantic relationship.

That's typically why I go after older, more mature women. So far it's been fruitless :3

You forgot to mention white women.

[Darthnemesis2]

penis

[Hathur]

Volus Warlord wrote...

It just gives me this feeling, like the type of person I am ultimately won't matter at all. I could be the world's biggest ******. I could make Jesus look like a selfish butthole. And neither would matter if I did or did not have the almighty paycheck. It just makes me think all of the repeated chats on faithfulness, dedication, discernment, unselfishness and character mean nothing. Ah hell, it irks me. 

It does matter to us... not to all perhaps but some of us, myself included. My whole working life I've been a lower-class earner... the thought of marrying a man for money is anathema for me... I just could never do it... I'd feel like a prostitute in essence and I'd rather throw myself from a building than be that (don't anyone jump down my throat that I'm suggesting prostitutes should kill themselves... I'm not.. I'm saying I would personally rather be dead than sell myself as meat basically.. other women are willing to endure different things in life, so good for them).

Would I reject a guy because he was a good earner but was also the guy of my dreams? Of course not... but his earning power wouldn't play a role in whether or not I wanted to spend my life with him. I'd sooner marry a guy who earns minimum wage so long as he were the right guy (emotionally) for me than marry a guy who was "sorta" right for me but made a lot of money.

Then again this comes down to personality types as well... I am not an ambitious woman.. I am content to live a simple, humble existence with very simple comforts... women with ambitious hopes / dreams or goals will likely want a man who can help tachieve those things and would be willing to sacrifice being happy with the "right" guy and tolerate living with a rich guy who she didn't really like all that much as a person.

Children of course play a huge role as well... most women in general want to have children or plan on it at some point and they want to give their children the best upbringing possible and many associate having lots of money with having happy children (false in in my opinion)... thus they want a guy who can provide for their children as well (since it affects my perspective, I should note I have zero maternal insincts nor any desire to ever have kids and I am well over 30 now... so take that for whatever you may)

That said there are still those of us out there who really don't give a damn about a guy's earning potential... we care first and foremost about merely finding happiness, friendship, passion & love in a guy and are quite content to live within our own means and not leech off a guy for a living... not all of us behave as inept, hapless creatures that "need" a man to provide for us and that all we want is the "moneyz" in their wallet.

.... However, one guy I dated years ago called me "broken" in the head though when I balked at the suggestion of ever having kids, so for all I know I'm a "busted" woman... meh. 

TLDR version... um... women's genetics were programmed through countless ages to find strong providers for them and their offspring just as men are coded to aggressively & constantly pursue women to propogate their genes with... both genders struggle to rise above their base instincts.

[Ravensword]

Darthnemesis2 wrote...

penis

You're not even straight.

[Darthnemesis2]

Ravensword wrote...

Darthnemesis2 wrote...

penis

You're not even straight.

Your point? D:

[Ravensword]

Darthnemesis2 wrote...

Ravensword wrote...

Darthnemesis2 wrote...

penis

You're not even straight.

Your point? D:

No point. Just an observation. Unless you pretended to be straight in school so your  so-called former friends wouldn't shun you.

[DRUNK_CANADIAN]

Depends on the woman...influx of stupid threads in OT recently

[Darthnemesis2]

Ravensword wrote...

Darthnemesis2 wrote...

Ravensword wrote...

Darthnemesis2 wrote...

penis

You're not even straight.

Your point? D:

No point. Just an observation. Unless you pretended to be straight in school so your  so-called former friends wouldn't shun you.

Friends? What is this? 

[FeralEwok]

They want Harrison Ford.



My advice: Be like Ford.

[Bekkael]

Hathur wrote...

.... However, one guy I dated years ago called me "broken" in the head though when I balked at the suggestion of ever having kids, so for all I know I'm a "busted" woman... meh. 

That's total bull. It's perfectly natural and normal for either gender not to want kids. I think it's more to do with personality and preference. Having children brings lots of stress and care to a person's life that they otherwise would never have to deal with; not to mention the hit a woman can take to her health if she has kids.

Having children is not for everyone. At all. Don't doubt yourself. You are a whole and wonderful human being, no addition needed.

[HiddenKING]

FeralEwok wrote...

They want Harrison Ford.

*snip*

My advice: Be like Ford.

I prefer to be more like Prince

[MASSEFFECTfanforlife101]

FeralEwok wrote...

They want Harrison Ford.



My advice: Be like Ford.

I'm not like Ford at all. I'm not hunky like him, not one bit.

[Ravensword]

Darthnemesis2 wrote...

Ravensword wrote...

Darthnemesis2 wrote...

Ravensword wrote...

Darthnemesis2 wrote...

penis

You're not even straight.

Your point? D:

No point. Just an observation. Unless you pretended to be straight in school so your  so-called former friends wouldn't shun you.

Friends? What is this? 

Maybe not friends, but like in the past, did you ever have to pretend to be something you're not in order to no attract any unwatned attention to yourself?

[DRUNK_CANADIAN]

Bekkael wrote...

Hathur wrote...

.... However, one guy I dated years ago called me "broken" in the head though when I balked at the suggestion of ever having kids, so for all I know I'm a "busted" woman... meh. 

That's total bull. It's perfectly natural and normal for either gender not to want kids. I think it's more to do with personality and preference. Having children brings lots of stress and care to a person's life that they otherwise would never have to deal with; not to mention the hit a woman can take to her health if she has kids.

Having children is not for everyone. At all. Don't doubt yourself. You are a whole and wonderful human being, no addition needed.

I really don't understand the argument for "no kids," I mean its a preference thing and all, but its more or less the reason of existance (procreation), the only thing I can think of is lack of desire to, or own selfishness (themselves first as opposed to as lame as this will sound, species or ability to bring new life into the world). Then again I certainly believe that a lot of people SHOULDN'T be parents and if they think themselves incapable I fully respect that.

*raises flameshield*

[FeralEwok]

MASSEFFECTfanforlife101 wrote...

I'm not like Ford at all. I'm not hunky like him, not one bit.

Then you're boned.

[HiddenKING]

MASSEFFECTfanforlife101 wrote...

I'm not like Ford at all. I'm not hunky like him, not one bit.

Be more like Prince.

[Bekkael]

Logan Cloud wrote...

Bekkael wrote...

Hathur wrote...

.... However, one guy I dated years ago called me "broken" in the head though when I balked at the suggestion of ever having kids, so for all I know I'm a "busted" woman... meh. 

That's total bull. It's perfectly natural and normal for either gender not to want kids. I think it's more to do with personality and preference. Having children brings lots of stress and care to a person's life that they otherwise would never have to deal with; not to mention the hit a woman can take to her health if she has kids.

Having children is not for everyone. At all. Don't doubt yourself. You are a whole and wonderful human being, no addition needed.

You know I love ya Bekk, but you're so corny XD
*Hugs*

I may be corny in my sincerity, but do not doubt that I am sincere. I think I can see this issue from both sides of the fence.