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Have you been cheated on?

Débuté par The Jackal , févr. 07 2012 11:37

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The Jackal
Posté 07 février 2012 - 11:37

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Details please. 

Modifié par JasonRocker, 07 février 2012 - 11:37 .

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Stardusk78
Posté 07 février 2012 - 11:41

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JasonRocker wrote...

Details please. 


90% to 100% of exes cheated on me, which of course is my fault.=]

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A Crusty Knight Of Colour
Posté 07 février 2012 - 12:56

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Stardusk78 wrote...

JasonRocker wrote...

Details please. 


90% to 100% of exes cheated on me, which of course is my fault.=]


Those vile programs, what wenches!

Modifié par CrustyBot, 07 février 2012 - 12:58 .

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Dominus
Posté 07 février 2012 - 01:03

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The answer is yes. No details.

Modifié par DominusVita, 07 février 2012 - 03:24 .

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Posté 07 février 2012 - 01:20

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Well, I haven't been really 'cheated on' in the very definition of the word, but I have been manipulated mentally in the past by a person from this site. Our so-called 'relationship' went happily on until mister got cold feet after I'd asked him for the third time to meet for real. And that's where it ended. Meh, it wouldn't have worked out afterall ( I was a fool to believe it would, but you know how it goes with being in love). Now, after a year, I look back on that relationship as a joke, actually. A relationship actually just can be called a real relationship after the two people involved have met in real life at least once. Afterall, you lack this whole 'physical' dimension, you don't see the person for real which makes it harder to completely judge him or her. I sure was heartbroken after my first 'relationship' (I'll call it that because I did have feelings of love), but now I've moved on and learned from what I've experienced. Also, sometimes a good, trustworthy friend is worth much more than a 'lover'.

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Posté 07 février 2012 - 01:25

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Yes

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Posté 07 février 2012 - 01:28

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Nah, so far I haven't been cheated on. Probably because I don't have a girlfriend and never had any serious relationship.

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Posté 07 février 2012 - 01:38

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Edit: Whoops. Ignore this.

Modifié par DominusVita, 07 février 2012 - 01:38 .

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Posté 07 février 2012 - 01:44

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Lol, seems only I am taking this topic seriously. :P Well, I don't mind talking about it...it's behind me afterall. Still got a lifetime for things like love and the like, so I'm not in a hurry. XD

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Posté 07 février 2012 - 01:47

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I have once when i was a teen. My 'best friend' went to the cinema with my boyfriend at the time as they were meant to be friends and the next thing i knew they had slept together. However, i'm now with someone who has made me happier than anyone could so idc anymore.

Modifié par TheDaniellasaur, 07 février 2012 - 01:48 .

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Posté 07 février 2012 - 01:47

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Edit: Ooops. Ignore this. :lol:

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#12
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Posté 07 février 2012 - 01:49

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Nope, never. I've chased girls away, had them leave me for another man, and had a girl slam my arm in a car door while proclaiming me to be the worst thing that ever happened to her...but I've never been cheated on.

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Jenova65
Posté 07 février 2012 - 02:01

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Yes.. BUT truthfully... people whose needs are being met and are who content in a relationship don't cheat *generally*.
Something has to be *wrong* for that person in the first place.. Even if it is that they haven't found the right person for them. Or that they just fell in love with someone else (which is not a crime, btw, you don't choose who you fall in love with)
I'm not saying that the victim of cheating did anything to ask for it, you understand... Just that they weren't the right person to inspire faithfulness in the person who cheated....
No one is perfect and no one is faultless.

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Deathwurm
Posté 07 février 2012 - 02:13

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YES!

Honestly, though...the details are painful, so let's not get into that...

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Posté 07 février 2012 - 02:14

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Jenova65 wrote...

Yes.. BUT truthfully... people whose needs are being met and are who content in a relationship don't cheat *generally*.
Something has to be *wrong* for that person in the first place.. Even if it is that they haven't found the right person for them. Or that they just fell in love with someone else (which is not a crime, btw, you don't choose who you fall in love with)
I'm not saying that the victim of cheating did anything to ask for it, you understand... Just that they weren't the right person to inspire faithfulness in the person who cheated....
No one is perfect and no one is faultless.


+1

It sucks, but sometimes things just happen, and you've got to deal with them.

To the op, yeah it's happened once.

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C9316
Posté 07 février 2012 - 02:24

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Nope, so far I haven't been cheated on. But that's only because I haven't had a girlfriend in awhile...

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Moondoggie
Posté 07 février 2012 - 02:31

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Been cheated on a long time ago and felt like crap and later on i found myself cheating on my current partner and felt worse i think honestly it feels worse for the person who cheated than the one who was cheated on having experienced both and it's a situation where in many cases you can't really explain why you did it. Somehow she managed to forgive me and we moved forward but at times the guilt is still there and i find myself worried to do things like go off chatting to another woman because i feel like she'll suspect something and i don't want her to be mad at me. Happened several years ago and still effects me and yet i got over being cheated on ages ago.

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Chromie
Posté 07 février 2012 - 02:31

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No but I have cheated multiple times.

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android654
Posté 07 février 2012 - 02:45

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Ringo12 wrote...

No but I have cheated multiple times.


You little rascal.

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Posté 07 février 2012 - 03:05

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Yes, twice. The first time I was seventeen but I wasn't even aware of it until my best friend's boyfriend spilled the beans to me five years later.

The second time, I was just very naive but at least I had the guts to tell him to come pick up his sh*t from my house.

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Posté 07 février 2012 - 03:11

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yes, it was very painful, I vowed to never do that to another human being....if I want to be with someone else, I will tell the person I'm with and then leave....do unto others...then split..lol

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Pordis Shepard
Posté 07 février 2012 - 03:17

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No. We've both been faithful for more than 30yr. Not that it's always sunshine and roses, but we've always worked out our problems.

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Dutchess
Posté 07 février 2012 - 03:19

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Fortunately, no.

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Posté 07 février 2012 - 03:20

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yes. but i wont go into details

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GarethJShep
Posté 07 février 2012 - 03:43

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Fortunately, no i haven't been cheated on
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