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motomotogirl wrote...

 I think this thread needs to be closed :(

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What for?  Hopefully not because we're suddenly having a serious discussion about the misogyny inherent to the gaming culture, which is absolutely relevant since it is that environment that motivated what was done to Hepler?

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BellaStrega wrote...

Women are not thinner skinned or overly sensitive. You're making some categorical errors here - the first of which is equating calling a man "fat" - which has nothing to do with his gender - to the use of particular words to insult women. Those words aren't mean to insult women's genitals, but to insult women for being women. The idea being that just being a woman is an inferior and discreditable state. There simply aren't any serious slurs against men just for being men. Instead, they're attacked on the basis of body weight (fat hatred), disability (ableism), sexuality (homophobia), economic level (classism), and so on.
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The fact that people chose to channel their disappointment with DA2 at a woman who has a few ideas about how games could be designed so they'd more fun for her is particularly telling in a larger community where men think it's the height of humor to demand "****** or gtfo" of anyone who says they're a woman doesn't simply reflect their disappointment with DA2. Many of the complaints about Hepler and the comments made about her have a very strong "gaming is for dudes" aura about them.


Excellently done.  You nailed it down perfectly.

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Some people go to far. I honestly see no issue calling her out and disagreeing with her views on games. Shes not even a gamer she likes story parts and actually dislikes playing them or going against da2 as long as it done respectfully. As soon as you make it personal attack them or reply them on twitter and say unforgivable things thats to much.

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xnoxiousx wrote...

Some people go to far. I honestly see no issue calling her out and disagreeing with her views on games. Shes not even a gamer she likes story parts and actually dislikes playing them or going against da2 as long as it done respectfully. As soon as you make it personal attack them or reply them on twitter and say unforgivable things thats to much.


I don't think anyone has so much as hinted that there's something wrong with disagreeing with Hepler's views, and wish people would stop with the whole "sure they go too far BUT" line of reasoning.

Hepler is a gamer.  She may not be as hardcore as some, and may prefer certain types of games to others, but her not being a hardcore uber-action gamer does NOT mean she isn't a gamer.  

I play games.  Granted, being a woman with a preference for story-driven games I mostly stick with Bioware my focus is quite limited.  But I don't claim to be a hardcore gamer with a background in Baldur's Gate, Final Fantasy, Elder Scrolls, City of Heroes, and all the others.  Still, I spend a fair amount of my free time playing computer games.  That alone makes me a gamer, just as it does anyone else who plays games, regardless of how much time they invest, how many games they play, or whether they prefer combat over story or not.

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Stanley Woo wrote...

Or, instead of suggesting everyone else find a different job so we're no longer in danger of making the kinds of games you don't want, how about you choosing for yourself to not purchase any BioWare game what appears to feature gameplay you don't care for? It would be much simpler and involve you choosing things for yourself, rather than suggesting what other people can or should do with their lives.

NOTE: At no time has BioWare or Electronic Arts marketed Dragon Age 2, Star Wars: The Old Republic, or the upcoming Mass Effect 3, as a "choose your own adventure book".


With that sort of suggestion, you lose customers. You have to appeal to us, since without custumoers your all out of jobs and buisness, not a threat just a fact. I dont know the attacks on JH, but i know enough of what went on with ML. I feel that her idea is completely wrong, and dfeats the whole purpose of a game, so i feel the critisicms against her idea, is justified. a game without gameplay or combat is not a game, so why work in that industry if thats not what you want?

Also i would think that as a company while in support of their empolyess would also take responsibility for her backlash and insults at people.

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seraphymon wrote...

Stanley Woo wrote...

Or, instead of suggesting everyone else find a different job so we're no longer in danger of making the kinds of games you don't want, how about you choosing for yourself to not purchase any BioWare game what appears to feature gameplay you don't care for? It would be much simpler and involve you choosing things for yourself, rather than suggesting what other people can or should do with their lives.

NOTE: At no time has BioWare or Electronic Arts marketed Dragon Age 2, Star Wars: The Old Republic, or the upcoming Mass Effect 3, as a "choose your own adventure book".


With that sort of suggestion, you lose customers. You have to appeal to us, since without custumoers your all out of jobs and buisness, not a threat just a fact. I dont know the attacks on JH, but i know enough of what went on with ML. I feel that her idea is completely wrong, and dfeats the whole purpose of a game, so i feel the critisicms against her idea, is justified. a game without gameplay or combat is not a game, so why work in that industry if thats not what you want?

Also i would think that as a company while in support of their empolyess would also take responsibility for her backlash and insults at people.


If you don't know about the attacks on Hepler--just as you clearly don't know much about what she actually said, since she didn't suggest removing gameplay or combat at all--why are you commenting about her "backlash and insults at people"?  

Why, exactly, should Bioware "take
responsibility" for Hepler, given that it implies that she did something
wrong? Hepler made a single retort, not to just anyone--not to people in general, not to Bioware customers at large--but to people who had launched a vicious campaign against her that included making threats of bodily harm and involved calling her house. 

Your focus really should be on that, not whether Bioware should take responsibility for Hepler calling her abusers jealous virgins.

Modifié par Silfren, 25 février 2012 - 08:20 .


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seraphymon wrote...

With that sort of suggestion, you lose customers. You have to appeal to us, since without custumoers your all out of jobs and buisness, not a threat just a fact. I dont know the attacks on JH, but i know enough of what went on with ML. I feel that her idea is completely wrong, and dfeats the whole purpose of a game, so i feel the critisicms against her idea, is justified. a game without gameplay or combat is not a game, so why work in that industry if thats not what you want?


She clearly has more reasons to work in the industry than her wish to be able to skip combat. You're blowing that opinion way out of proportion.

Also i would think that as a company while in support of their empolyess would also take responsibility for her backlash and insults at people.


Totally disproportionate. Her comment was extremely mild, and the people she was responded to didn't have any right or claim to polite discourse, given what they had descended to. Stop whining.

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Silfren wrote...

If you don't know about the attacks on Hepler--just as you clearly don't know much about what she actually said, since she didn't suggest removing gameplay or combat at all--why are you commenting about her "backlash and insults at people"?  

Why, exactly, should Bioware "take
responsibility" for Hepler, given that it implies that she did something
wrong? Hepler made a single retort, not to just anyone--not to people in general, not to Bioware customers at large--but to people who had launched a vicious campaign against her that included making threats of bodily harm and involved calling her house. 

Your focus really should be on that, not whether Bioware should take responsibility for Hepler calling her abusers jealous virgins.


I havent seen the whole thing, but  a few stuff, so i have a good idea of what went on. I dont need to know everything. I know she did not say taking out, but skipping, again taking the whole purpose out of a game for utilizing such a feature.

This whole thread was voicing bioware support on JH. But just as much as you can or should support someone you should also take resposibility for their actions, Wether they agree with her philosiphy or not is one thing, or taking her side for the attacks. But when she attacks back, does that mean she should be in support of it? for lowering herself to the attackers lvl? to say that she can do what she wants and bioware will support? It doesnt matter if  her response was to her attackers, and it doesnt matter if it was something like twitter, its on the interenet, and almost no different than if she were to say such a thing on here. People constantly attack developers here, yet you dont really see insulting back because bioware in addition to thick skin, they carry themselves in a proffesional manner, and if they cant they dont respond at all.  I dont support that attacks, but its more dissapointing to see them coming from  JH, regardless of who it was against

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BellaStrega wrote...

seraphymon wrote...

With that sort of suggestion, you lose customers. You have to appeal to us, since without custumoers your all out of jobs and buisness, not a threat just a fact. I dont know the attacks on JH, but i know enough of what went on with ML. I feel that her idea is completely wrong, and dfeats the whole purpose of a game, so i feel the critisicms against her idea, is justified. a game without gameplay or combat is not a game, so why work in that industry if thats not what you want?


She clearly has more reasons to work in the industry than her wish to be able to skip combat. You're blowing that opinion way out of proportion.


Also i would think that as a company while in support of their empolyess would also take responsibility for her backlash and insults at people.


Totally disproportionate. Her comment was extremely mild, and the people she was responded to didn't have any right or claim to polite discourse, given what they had descended to. Stop whining.


 it doesnt matter if its mild or not , and insult is an insult. the degree of wether it is mild or not, is up to the viewer. and wether they take it as mild or  hard. I find that comment of hers totally  inapproriate in my opinion, it may be mild in comparison, but still, what i expect out of ordinary people like these bashers and what i expect out of a person like JH are 2 different expectations.

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And yet, thankfully, it doesn't really matter if people want to complain about Hepler's retort. By donating $1000 to an anti-bullying fund, Muzyka sent a clear message that what was done to her was not OK, and that's the important part of the issue.

Related to what Stanley Woo said, if BioWare care more about standing up against online abuse than keeping a customer, well then, thank goodness, because it's clear from this thread how many people have been desperate for someone influential (and amazing, like Muzyka) to do exactly this.

I love gaming plenty. But this is more important.

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Silfren, BellaStrega... Thank you.

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seraphymon wrote...

BellaStrega wrote...

The fact that you insist her reaction is as bad as the treatment she received shows you have no sense of proportion. What possible reason could you have for suggesting such an extreme false equivalency?

My opinion is objectively more correct than yours. After all, the people who harassed Hepler broke the law. All she did was say they were a bunch of jealous virgins. Snarky, but by no means illegal. You're trying to make how she was treated her fault, by saying that because she responded all it did was incite people. The fact is, though, people were already incited. They - and you - are simply using her response as an excuse to justify their terrible behavior.

It just proves that the people who tried to dish it out on her can't even handle the mildest reproach. One wonders how much they'd fall apart if they faced the actually literally the same treatment they keep dishing out.


perhaps i worded as much to blame, when i should say partly to blame as well. but there is nothing you can do about random people. i applaud an anti bullying campaign, but i still say she still asked for it in a way . You opinion is not more correct because that is all it is an opinion,. you see yourself being right because its your opinion, but that doesnt not make it so. I dont care if i am right or wrong, i said how i feel and thats that., based on how i see it, and that she is not as innocent as what is led to believe. Wether something is against the law or not, theres always a way to handle things. What she did may not have been lawbreaking but in my view she didnt handle it right,  because what she did was incite people. Because thats how people are, its just  a common nature. people were already incited yes, but it would have left well enough of alone eventually. Like i said, just pressing a reset button asking for more. Why do you think ML took a leave of abscene from the forums or speaking out. To let all the backlash die out, and to not say something he may have regretted. Im not saying it justifies their behavior in any way, so quit putting words into my mouth. What i merly say is that its a thing that is bound to happen, and if you know that, then you are partially to blame  for that drama,

its like i said, its about how the professional carries themselves and what is expected. Most proabably arent affected by her comment  at all, they proabably wouldnt be affected if she went all out, even, but that fact that she resulted to even the tinyest of insults, to perhaps a potential customer is the point.


You seem to be operating under the assumption that this was started by Hepler. Reddit has been seething for months. They swarmed her on Twitter, among other places. They called her home and threatened her children.

She made one comment

She did nothing to deserve this treatment. There was nothing she could have done to deserve this treatment. And I hope you never find yourself at the recieving end of this kind of behavior, only to find some jerkwad sitting in judgment of your one comment in defense of yourself, as if that justified everything that happened to you.

You're blaming the victim. The people at fault are the ones who chose to intimidate, harass, and stalk her. The end.

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Having been close to death (well,..yea) in a monster-flu the recent weeks, I seem to have completely missed the attack  itself, on Jennifer Hepler, but I sure haven't missed the massive and healthy backlash. Congratulations, everybody who have been part of that.

To me, the thing that really stands out about the attack is the obvious extremely contrieved nature of the blame that is laid on J.H. Even a hardline hater of various "new directions" in game developments should react to that and go: "Now, hey, wait a minute. Something doesn't quite line up here." If there is any thinking going on, at all. (Internet can make you a bit disillusioned about that though.)

In general, I would say that attacks on individual persons are loathsome. Besides, they also always seem to be blaming people who are, by large, mostly innocent to whatever the hostility is about. It's just shallow perceptions of people with no insight, hearsay, things taken out of context, then embellished to a concept that is a fullblown lie.
Even people disposed to anger and vengeance should always remember there is one very good reason to stay the hell away from lynchings: The person is probably innocent!

Finally, As for J.H.'s reaction, I don't see why that has to be discussed at all. It's inexperienced, but human, which is all to expect since she's not a politician or a PR person. That is all there is to say.

 

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seraphymon wrote...

its like i said, its about how the professional carries themselves and what is expected. Most proabably arent affected by her comment  at all, they proabably wouldnt be affected if she went all out, even, but that fact that she resulted to even the tinyest of insults, to perhaps a potential customer is the point.


Whether or not you agree with how Hepler conducted herself, ask yourself this. And answer it honestly.

How, exactly, would you have reacted if you had been phoned at home (not work), been insulted, threatened with death, had your children threatened with death, and had abuse hurled at you from faceless cowards?

"Please stop"?

If you can remain calm and professional even after weeks of having your loved ones threatened, good for you. But why are you wagging your finger at Hepler for finally snapping? Yes, it threw fuel on the fire, but there's only so much goading the average person can take. Not everyone is as stoic as you are saying Hepler should have been. Saying she brought it on herself isn't going to help anything. :/ Let it go.

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I have read up on this story because I must admit I tottaly missed this. I can't beleive people act like this. It makes me sad.

What make me even more sad is the over retarded comments that are made in this thread supporting the acts of bashing and bullying due to thier percieved insult to themselves by Biowares latest games not being exactly what they themself wanted.

I did not care very much for Dragon Age 2, but disagreeing with the way a company moves with thier products is not solved by bashing and bullying people. It is so wrong.

To show my support to Bioware and its employees and to spit in the face of the IQ-reserve of the internet, I will now go and buy all DA2 DLCs!

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Jennifer Hepler is awesome and if the angry mob wants to tear her apart, they'll have to duel me first! A duel of thumb-war, or Go-fish. Your choice.
To the Proving grounds, everyone!

There, that ought to settle it.

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It is sad this is even more tragic than the mage/templar plot line.