What I wanted is my FemShep to destroy the reapers, go home and have a bunch of blue children with Liara.
The Mass Relays would still be there.
Civilizations all over would be celebrating after rebuilding.
Synthetic life would still be there. The Geth earned that right with what Legion and helping the very people that tried to destroy them.
Hell, maybe the Krogan and Batarian could be on the council.
Instead I feel like it was a bunch of deus ex machina crap. Destroying all synthetic life and the Mass Relays is stupid. Civilizations are cut off from each other and the joy of space exploration is dead. Synthesis is stupid because what's the point of being this perfect civilization with no flaws? And the controlling option is stupid because as the TC perfectly said, no Shepard, whether renegade or paragon would like to spend close to eternity controlling the Reapers.
There should have been a 4th option providing you did the following:
1) Reputation maxed
2) A very high renegade or paragon bar to fulfill a very high check
3) Krogan truly freed from the Genophage with no Salarian tricks.
4) Ended the war with the Geth and Quarians with peace on both sides.
5) Did a majority of the sidequests
And one of the two:
6) Helped EDI with understanding how to be human and pursue a relationship with Jeff
7) Have a full relationship with someone with ME 1 or 2.
By having done these, you've shown the catalyst the strength of organics. The catalyst would see that perhaps it is wrong and that there must be cycles that are not determined by it but instead by organics. Shepard can then safely destroy all Reapers, is ported down to Earth, and watches as the Reapers pack up and gather towards the Crucible and disintegrate. Various scenes of celebrations are shown, the dead are mourned, former squad mates are remembered, and Shepard holds the hand of his/her lover as the sun sets of a new age (If they died in ME 3, then Shepard holds a frame of them). If no relationship was made, then Jeff and EDI does it.
I just wanted an ending that truly reflected on some of the things we have been building on since the first game. I really, REALLY hope Bioware patches up a new ending because the outrage from this is huge.
Oh and that last scene with the stargazers? Absolutely crap.