Take romances in ME2: fem!Shep has the opportunity to romance Thane, who is plagued by loss of his wife and guilt of leaving his son to avenge her and by a cripling desease which will see him dead in less than a year. His romance scene has him confess he's afraid of dying, after he already thought he had accepted his mortality. Kiss, and fade to black. Very tasteful, very mature, no nudity required.
Same with Garrus: he's looking to do something right after loads of bad stuff happening to him and people he cares/careed about - and Garrus blames himself for most of it. Also, there's the issue of whether or not he and Shepard would be better off as friends, since the whole encounter is framed pretty much as friends-with-benefits, sort of arrangement. "I want something to go right. Just once." Fade to black - not even a kiss, just a tender touch of foreheads. Really powerful, adult presentation of difficult feelings and a start of a relationship. Again, no nudity required.
And for male!Shep, there's Jack's paragon romance scene, where she basically overcomes her fears, adversion to human contact, and trust issues - and more important, this happends because Shepard doesn't push her, doesn't force her, but in stead earns her trust during the game. Jack doesn't come to the conclusion "I guess other people aren't such a**holes after all, kittens for everyone!" but "This man is worth my trust and worth the risk" which is much more accurate portrayal of people who are recovering from abuse, unhealthy past relationships, and loss of a loved one. This is truly incredible writing and character development, it examines what it is to be a supportive partner in a difficult relationship. And once more, no nudity required (besides Jack's usual outfit).
Sex isn't all about the physical act of sex, it's about the context, about the relationship, and about the questions these characters have to face in light of this new relationship. If you romanced Kaidan/Ashley, this becomes clear when you have to decide which one to save. Will your relationship affect your judgement?
So, TL,DR: I prefer "fade to black" to the more graphic sex scenes, because the line between tasteful and tacky is fine indeed, and to totter to the wrong side of that line could be immersion breaking at best and absolutely horrendous at worst.
Modifié par MissOuJ, 03 mars 2012 - 06:23 .





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