I am a grubby greedy grabby beeotch. I have said it before, and I'll (apparently) say it again. I want a choice for him to live, period. Perhaps if they hadn't butchered my f!Shep, and Thane's romance maybe I would be more accepting, but I'm not. Between the botched romance, the poorly applied character arcs (on both of their parts), and the illogical fight scene with cereal ninja......nah! Nothing short of a miracle will fix this storyline for me.
Sorry to be rehashing old posts of mine, but......I never exactly expected my Shep(s) to live. Because it's an RPG, I of course wanted the choice (have you guessed that I am be on choice yet??). What was more important to me was "motivation" to fight for the galaxy. Having Sheps LI and her family (squaddies) around (and alive,,,duh) for the game, gives Shep a motivation to keep going; fight against the odds, and hopefully, succeed in the end. She fights for those she loves, and the galaxy reaps the benefits. Make sense?.....or am I talking outta my arse backwards.
PS - Just an aside. This is all MY opinion and wishes. Those that have found happiness in this game should absolutely enjoy it. And, if they do come out with some minor fixes to the Thane romance, and it helps some of our disappointed Thanemancer find fun again in their well spent time and money, then good on you....seriously, no sarcasm. I just want more....see? greedy!