All they wanted us to do is go running for one of the chosen LI's. Sad but true. Unfortunately when you give us a character to RP and tell us to mold it in our own image (throwback from some of their vids and ads in 2007 when they were announcing the first ME), some of us actually do that. I did. My Shep was me in so many ways, her thoughts, her feelings and they gave enough dialogue options in the first two games to reflect just about every mindset. Then comes 3 and they toss it all out the window, I sat there sometimes for a few moments thinking about what I was going to say because neither option fit my Shep.
Oh the way she treated Thane, it was awful. She came across as some horny teenager just anxious to get in his pants. WTF..that was not my Shep, she loved him and she was given the opportunity to fine tune and feel that love based on the decisions BW gave us to choose from in ME2. So, yes I do feel like they said, "Yeah, we let you get invested in Thane but guess what Shep we really want you to choose Kaidan, and should he be Virmire'd, here's Liara." No thank you, had I wanted those for my Shep, guess what? I would have chosen them to begin with.
Six months of separation and he obviously thought about her, he tried to send messages. After all that time, what we get is one flippin' convo about Kepral's and that make out scene which is out of place. Let's say for giggles that it is good, well it's placed as an option at the WORST possible time. He just tells you how is health is failing and this is what you want my Shep to do? Really? Are you serious? Yeah, let's make it more obvious that he's nothing more than a booty call.
After that time apart, I wanted to know the following: How was he doing? How are things going with Kolyat? Is there anything I can do for him? Why has his attitude changed? Is it because he now is closer to death? Did feeling like Shep abandoned him cause him sadness and loss of hope? Why did he not go for the lung transplant? Was it too late for him? Then after getting answers, I would have liked to tell him that I loved him, I thought about him, I missed him and I'm sorry. Sorry for being gone for so long, time never changed how I felt. He is free to pack up his crap and get out of this depressing hospital and join me, if not for anything more than spending time together. Reminds me of two painful pieces of dialogue in ME2, "Time is short for me, Siha, but any I have is yours to take" and "I will always be here to talk." Oh really? No you won't because the writers have a crappy story lined up for you. We won't be able to talk, you won't always be there, I won't have any more of your time because someone apparently didn't have time to research your character properly.