I think each of the romances has something to offer if you look at them in the right way. But it's not always easy or obvious how to bring about those moments that have the most emotional impact (like real life, I think).
However, some of the ideas about things that would add some extra realism to the romance could be done fairly easily I think. Not romantic candlelit dinners and so on. But your partner grabbing you after a tough battle (rare random occurrence, not all the time) for a big hug and kiss could work. Or their battle cries changing (again, randomly, but not rarely) to indicate concern for the beloved. Things like that.
Oh, one thing that jarred for me when romancing Alistair. You get to Goldanna's and when he defends you he calls you his friend and a fellow grey warden? When you're at 100 adore and have slept with him? What?
And what's with only being able to kiss Alistair and Morrigan in public? And not Zevran and Leliana? I got the mod to fix that, but that shouldn't be necessary.
In short, I don't think it's depth in the relationships that's missing. It's some kind of acknowledgement (small touches, usually) as you progress that there IS a relationship. By the romantic partner, by your companions, and by the npcs. It wouldn't need lots of those, I wouldn't expect it to be in your face all the time, but touches here and there.
Modifié par SusanStoHelit, 12 janvier 2010 - 11:24 .